Who do divorced people usually get remarry to?

[RoseySarah]

Younger person

Older person

Non divorced person

Ex... Partner

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Rich person choice E please comment below 👇

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not divorced, I was engaged.

But my break up actually made me more interested in older men, before then, I was strictly into younger guys or guys my age.

The last guy I dated in August, was 20 years older than me and I was quite into him, I didn’t expect it. Because I liked younger guys all my life.

[MrOracle]

As of 2022, less than 18% of people who get divorced remarry, and that number has been falling pretty steadily over the last 20 years. Another 27% cohabitate, but less than half get into another serious relationship. These are statistics from US Health & Human Services (most recent available data).

Many people divorce because they think the grass is greener somewhere else, but statistically, that's not reality.

[RoseySarah]

Very true but a lot of girls date thinking being married is better then being single.

Then like magic a baby show up who would think having sex is where they come from

[MrOracle]

Being married IS better than being single, provided you have a good spouse and take your marriage vows seriously. Unfortunately, that's the exception, rather than the rule, today.

Both sets of my grandparents were married for over 60 years (one of the two broke the 70 year mark), and my parents are still married, so it's not only possible, but was the norm only 50 years ago.

[OfMiceandMen]

I said younger as often guys tend to go for women younger than their ex. Women tend to find someone either about the same age or a little older.

It has also been my experience that women often choose another guy that either looks or behaves similar to the guy they just divorced and guys tend to go the complete opposite.

[RoseySarah]

Usually though the results are often the same another divorce

[OfMiceandMen]

Yes, it usually ends in another divorce because the people really don't have much in common.

[Anonymous]

I'm Catholic we don't believe in divorce. If you remarry you are technically not married if your spouse is still alive.

A lot of divorced couples I see forgoe a wedding choosing instead to live together. Makes sense they've already been through that, probably with kids. I often see divorced women with divorced men, or a divorced man maybe with a younger woman.

[RoseySarah]

Yeah often times it seems to go that way.

Especially Catholic they just live together till an argument ends it.

Here I notice divorced single moms usually with guys who have never been married and has no kids.

But those are usually around my age.

[kareenakapur]

i think younger for sure. was dating that one guy 8 years older than me and divorced. he said my age "worked in his favor." bc if he got w a girl his age he'd have to have kids immediately. with me we could wait.

[RoseySarah]

How did that end up? Was he soon an ex?
Bet he just never wanted kids ever

[kareenakapur]

no we talked for 3 months : ( i rlly liked him. he's the one who stopped texted all of a sudden i was like hey if you're going through a hard time, then i'm here for you i care about you. if you want to tell me something else though please be straight up tell me that instead. He told me he was lowkey depressed and didn't want to be in a relationship while he's not well.

[kareenakapur]

i told him to get help if he's not getting help and that I'm here for him. He hearted my message never replied back :/. BLOCKED me on snapchat 2 days later. Pretyty sure he followed two new girls on insta.

[kareenakapur]

he hearted one of my stories on Saturday just a boujee table setting thing i did. I heart his periodically.

[kareenakapur]

trying to pick up what little respect i have for myself and if he wants me, he is a grown ass man and can message me.

[Jennz6]

I’m not divorced and never been married but probably if it was me I’d marry a young rich man

[RoseySarah]

Thanks jennz6 maybe that can be a another good question!
If you could choose who would you marry?

[Jennz6]

@roseysarah maybe not a millionaire but enough money to make sure we live well

[RoseySarah]

For today that almost has to be a millionaire 😭.

You will find someone so amazing and well off just keep believing and dreaming. Someone who will love your special item you bring over!

[Billlewis]

Best comment of the day;)

[DizzyDesii]

Seems like divorced men go for younger and divorced women go for older if theyre in their 20s but go for younger if in their 40s

[RoseySarah]

Very true

[Dinklex3]

I know a lot of people who divorced. I never paid attention to their new partners age because it’s usually close to theirs. I don’t think there’s a specific group they go for. They’re just trying love again.

[Anemone978]

If I divorced I would go for younger and hotter no need to go back to the boring unbearable life I lived..

[IslaTheWitch]

No idea. But I think all points are valid.

[RoseySarah]

Thanks glad. you liked my polls

[IslaTheWitch]

They remind me that there are areas I'm totally oblivious about.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's human nature to want a family and a home with a family in it, besides marriage is suppose to give safe and steady sex so that's why people desire marriage again even after they have divorced before.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Misread your question. I suppose a younger person?

[molonski2]

Virtually always younger in the case of a male anyhow. I have been divorced once.

[BourbonAndBacon]

I'm engaged to someone younger who has never been married.

[exitseven]

A guy usually goes for somebody younger a woman goes for a rich guy.

[TdotRep2023]

Non divorced because you don't want baggage and you don't want previous drama history with ex wife and kids from previous marriage. Starting fresh with no history with new person is best.

[fuddly]

Another divorcée

How come you didn't include that

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Choice F - no one.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I voted non-divorced person, which I presume means someone who has never been married. We don't know too many folks that have been divorced. Our neighbor did you get a divorce, and he remarried a lady that had never been married before.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Basically the same age.

[RoseySarah]

True I need a few more options in my poll next time!

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

No worries, hopefully mini folks don't have to think about this.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

*many folks

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

A younger person

[RoseySarah]

Seems like it but guys seem to dat eolder

[Andres77]

Never getting married again.

[RoseySarah]

So choosing just to live with someone till it ends?

[Andres77]

Nope. Maybe friends with benefits. I’m done. Plus, i’m setting my time aside for my kids. Not going to choose anyone else over my kids. When they move out maybe then

[Andres77]

Sleepovers only, maybe make blanket forts and have popcorn and s’mores and watch movies but no one is moving in with me again and telling me where to move my furniture…😉

[AngryCarl2]

Other divorced person.

[LunarEclipse433]

Don’t know. Never got remarried

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

A clone of the person they just divorced !

[strateguy632]

..5th