Would it be stalkerish of me to reached out to my ex and wish him happy bday who randomly blocked my number?

[Anonymous]

my ex and split up, but we both kind of kept in contact here and there, i would text him sometimes and he’d respond, but it was never conversations and it wasn’t everyday i would say every once in awhile. last time i texted him, it was to ask if he still kept in contact with his weed buddy because my friend wanted some and i knew i shouldn’t have reached out and asked because he doesn’t necessarily like my friend that wanted some but a part of me wanted to know if he still was too.. so i texted him and i never got a response back only to find out that my friend got some weed from somebody else, and i felt stupid. anyway, today was his bday and all day i wanted to wish him a happy bday so i just screw it and texted him happy bday and that i still missed him, only to find that he blocked me….. And i’m trying so hard not to cry because i think it was because of my last text about the weed and because he didn’t like my friend that was asking. would it be stalkerish of me to reach out on facebook and say that i’m sorry and still wish him happy bday? or just leave him alone forever now.

[kylee2437]

What is the point of this? Why do you feel like you owe him anything?

[Asker]

because i think that’s the reason he blocked me, if i hadn’t reached out to him about it, we’d be still be in contact here and there, and the last text he sent me he said he wanted to work on getting back together

[kylee2437]

He blocked you because you show signs of being needy and it’s annoying to him. No offense girl. Even with the happy birthday you want to send it , it seems like you want to send it in attempts to benefit you more than actually caring about the fact that it’s his birthday. Just leave it alone, give him space.

[Asker]

no i do care about his bday :/ that’s why i swallowed my pride and wished him happy bday but it doesn’t matter now because he won’t see it…

[kylee2437]

You replied to other people saying that you only really want to wish him a happy birthday for the sake of something coming out of it. That doesn’t sound like overall care to me.

[Kaneki05]

Aww your incredibly sweet but yeah you gotta let him go. Someone else will see what a keeper you are, and make sure to keep you.

[AviatorTom]

Why would you want to do that? Simple answer... DDT (Don't Do That)

[Asker]

idk… in some twisted way maybe if i reach out and say sorry and wish him happy bday he would unblock me and we can continue to talk every once in while? maybe……

[ChicoFromThe305]

If he's blocked you before then yea it might come out that way

[RedInnocent68]

Yes. Don’t. You have nothing to be that desperate about.

[dudeinohio]

Don't do it. Best to. totally forget about them.