I was told I’m a horrible girlfriend and not supportive because I can lend money, I am in shock, this seems like an excuse , he has been different lately and doesn’t even barely touch me yet he wants me to give him money he thinks I have
If he doesn't think $20k is much money, he has no concept of money.
He says that a "real" partner would help, but he is proving that he is no partner at all.
If you gave him the money, he would disappear with it.
He is disloyal, has zero respect or regard for you, and thinks of you as nothing more than a convenience. He also thinks you are a gullible sucker.
Be glad that the no account parasite pulled the plug on the relationship and forced you to accept reality.
Change the locks on the doors and never speak to the lying, manipulative loser ever again. Let him live in a cardboard box, under a bridge, or in his parent's basement if they'll have him. Let him find a another partner who "cares". He doesn't even know what that means because he, himself, is incapable of caring. After all, you cared deeply, you were there for him all along, and he didn't appreciate or acknowledge it.
Move on with life. Accept that you got drawn in by a dishonest, unfeeling manipulator. It's not your fault.
Entitled? Hell no...
Kick him out before he steals from you or does something worse. I hope you don't have joint accounts.
Kick him to the curb , he is just using you as a convenience , tell him to make his own money and to get out
Your live in boyfriend doesn’t pay any bills & now he wants $20,000?
Absofuckinglutely NOT & you would be out of your mind if you gave the mooch anything.
As for me I’m a friend when I’m a friend but when it comes to money we are not friends & I’m not a bank as well.
I can see it now, you give him $20,000 & after that be breaks up with you & you never see the money again. I don’t think so.
What does he need $20,000 for? Tell him to get a job.
He sounds like a leech, and he's a jerk for trying to shame you for not giving a freeloader a LOT of money.
Is he disabled? No?
Then why is he asking for money. You must not give him a single penny. He is a fraud is what I see.
Probably going to fleece you and run. Stand your ground and tell him no.
Rust me I have seen a lot of these cases myself and had to arbitrate them even where guy eloped with a girl and they took the family gold and jewelry and the romance ended once the money is gone. So don't be a fool
Sounds like a moocher not a boyfriend, I don’t know why any woman would put up with that, it’s usually me having women do that to me and I’m paying for everything instead, never met a woman that would pay all the bills it’s usually the opposite
He's using you for money, run, he's not even playing the parts of a man, he isn't providing, he doesn't seem to really care about your feelings, he isn't physically pleasing you and he's getting angry at you when you are the one doing everything.
he is one lucky bastard, iwish i could live like that but he is also stupid for ruining something like this with pushing his luck.
Christ yes
If a guy did that to one of my friends well they have to get out a sieve to find the 20,000 pieces of him
Dump this guy. He's abusive and a mooch.
Yeah--I think this is a sign you should've broken up with him LONG ago!
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