What Would Be my Ex's Problem With Saying on Social Media "Such is Life" When Things Were Looking UP For Us?

[Paris13]

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Three Days Ago, We Had Spoken on The Phone and We Were Even Flirty in a Good Going Someplace In A Good Direction. Not Necessarily (Me Anyways) Going Back Together But Now----No Word From Him, Replying To Any of My Messages and Answering a FB Post With This? WTF? Any thoughts? xxoo

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He just Text Me and Seems okay and Didn't Mean Anything By That so... xx

[shortster]

I think that maybe you are too involved with your ex. That the two of you either need to get back together or move on.

[Paris13]

Ahhhh, Valentine's day and Nearly 5 Years. lolxx

[shortster]

What does Valentine's Day have to do with it? Also if you were dating for 5 years why didn't you get married?

[Paris13]

lol He Is Friendlier and More Loving Around Special Events... lolxxoo

[Jerre]

It’s time to move on Paris. Find a guy you can easily talk with.

[Paris13]

And Hotter, Jerre? lol!!! xx

[Jerre]

@Paris13 Thank you for the like Paris!

[Jerre]

@Paris13 yes and hotter. Find someone you really like, someone you can chat about sex, get you horny.

[Paris13]

@Jerre lol!!! Thanks for The Arse Kissing. xxoo

[Jerre]

@Paris13 Thank you for the MHO

[Paris13]

@Jerre Thanks for Cumming On. lol!!! xxoo

[Jerre]

@Paris13 Sure would like to cum with you

[Jerre]

@Paris13 Paris, will you cum with me?

[AviatorTom]

Paris, you need to decide if you want him to be an EX or a TO-BE. You can't have both. That will just tear you apart. We can give you advice, but it's your decision how to live your life.

Please, for your sake (and his), make your decision, and stay with it.

[Demonatrix]

This is good advice and it what I would have said.

[Paris13]

Yikes, Tom.. I Am Fickle. lolxx

[OlderAndWiser]

Social media is just horrible! It causes SO many problems!

[spartan55]

You got that right.

[Paris13]

lol!!! Indeed, sir. Trouble Is.. People are Real with Blood. And a Heart. xx

[Screenwriter]

List the reasons why this guy and you are no longer together.

Have any of those reasons changed? If they have not, why haven't you moved on?

I would suggest you go to a therapist and work through what is going on with you and why you keep going back to this man.

"Ex" means former. If you haven't been broken up with this man for very long, I suggest you let more time pass before you contact him at all. The waters are too muddy close in to a failed relationship.

And remember. It FAILED. It failed on BOTH YOUR PARTS. You were not and are not suited to each other. You might like and love each other, but there are a host of differences that cannot be resolved.

Leave it at that. And leave it. Good luck in moving forward and see a therapist.

An objective person will be helpful. You'll see her for a few sessions, maybe about 10, and you should have worked through ONE issue: your breakup.

You may find out that in working through that, something else comes up that is more important to attack.

Good luck!!! and much love!

[Paris13]

lol!!! Thanks, love!!! xx

[imtiaz45]

Your ex's use of "Such is Life" on social media during a positive period may suggest various things. It could be a nonchalant acceptance of life's uncertainties or a way of downplaying the positive developments. They might be navigating personal challenges or expressing a philosophical outlook. Alternatively, it could be their way of managing expectations, acknowledging that life is unpredictable. Interpretations depend on context and your ex's communication style. It's advisable not to read too much into a single phrase, but if you're curious, open communication could provide insights into their mindset and feelings.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/eC4iiZKSPfE

[Paris13]

I Would Need To Agree. xx

[Altheavas]

I’m not sure ask him, but he might be just laying low, slowly detaching and ghost you at some point or come up with an excuse of why it’s not working out, he is showing the signs that he is about that flight, make it easy for him, show him the way out!

[Paris13]

Been Together Nearly 5 Years, I Think He may Have been Too Disappointed I Didn't Ask To Go back As One, hun. xx

[MasseurDeMojo]

You were dating him for 5 years, and he never asked to marry you. That is a red flag. It seems he sees you more as a friend, or a friends with benefits, if you were doing more than talking.

It is time to drop him, and find a man who wants to do more than just talk. Find a man who actually wants to start a family, and will treat you as a woman!! Find a man who will give you 100 percent of himself, to where you will always desire to give him 100 percent of yourself.

Cut your losses, and move on to calmer shores, where you can feel true bliss and peace in your relationship!!

[Joshydavid25]

Damn, it seems like you guys are in a "will they won't they" type of situation.. I think sometimes you overthink your exes actions.. You guys should just get back together at this point Paris.

[Paris13]

Ohhh JD!!! lol!!! xx

[love_conquers_lust]

I've no idea. Sounds like you're looking for meaning that might not be there. I admittedly do this when I'm attracted to someone and I find it's better to back off sometimes. Space can be healthy.

[Paris13]

I Had Broke it Off, So Plenty of Time and Space. lolxx

[Jamie05rhs]

That's a pretty innocent phrase. I don't see how it could cause any offense to anyone.

But what was greater context? What was that statement in response to?

[Paris13]

A Guy on a Stairs, Laying Really "Feeling Low."lolxx

[Jamie05rhs]

@Paris13 So who is the one who said "Such is life"? You or him?

[Sparkie460]

Keep him as a pen pal so you have someone to talk to if you want, but move on with the rest of your life

[Paris13]

lol!!! Pen and Pal, Okay, Sparkie. xx

[nawtee_me]

Maybe his way of acknowledging that good things were happening. It can be meant in a good way can’t it?

[Paris13]

Maybe Yes, @nawtee_me xx

[Paris13]

Indeed. xx

[Likes2drive]

I don’t think he meant anything much from saying it , that’s like saying “it is what it is “

[Paris13]

Yes, He Said It Was Just meaning The Guy in The Pix, Big Guy. lolxx

[OddBeMe]

Not getting any sense of his moods. Are you aware of his mood?

[Paris13]

mmmmmmm I Am. lolxx

[exitseven]

Paris, you need to get on with your life.

[Paris13]

@exitseven We Still Have Those Feelings, Although I Broke Away But Neiter of Us Seem to Be Able to Cut If Off. Just ME I WANT---Him in My Life Without being a Wife. xx

[justabuddy]

It hurts him to do the break up. So saying stuff like that can be like putting salt into an old wound.

[Ironco]

Maybe he's got the flu. He's laying low.

[Paris13]

Maybe. I know it is Cold as Hell Over in The UK and His Room Has No Heat upstairs. xx

[Carolinacowboy]

Move on and he'll realize what he's lost!

[Paris13]

We Seemed To Be Getting On The Same page The Other Night.. Now This? xx

[Carolinacowboy]

Things happen for a reason

[Paris13]

They Do. xx

[Roudyrebel8]

I don't know

[Paris13]

THanks! xx