My ex was with someone new and I couldn’t accept it and continued to bother him. He told me he likes her more and wants to be with her ultimately over me. He wanted me to move on and find someone new that’s better for me. I left him alone and I haven’t seen him in over six weeks but he keeps contacting my phone. I don’t answer or anything but it doesn’t stop him from calling me. He’s tried to contact me over 10 times
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He might possibly want some reassurance that you have started to move forward. He could possibly have some regrets about the break up (despite the comments he made about his new girlfriend.) He may want to keep you as a fallback plan if the current relationship falls apart.
Girl, I feel your frustration with this situation. Your ex is being completely unfair by trying to keep you on the back burner like this. A few thoughts:
- Clearly he isn't as over you as he claims if he can't stop contacting you. That's emotionally messy of him.
- Seems like he just wants the ego boost of knowing you're still available as an option. Don't let him play with your feelings!
- You did the right thing by not answering or giving him any attention. Stay strong sis!
- He needs to make a choice - either commit fully to this new girl, or let you both actually move on.
- I'd say keep ignoring him for now. Block his number if you have to! You deserve so much better.
- Focus on yourself and your girls. Post cute selfies, live it up without him in your headspace.
- He'll get the message eventually that he can't have his cake and eat it too. You aren't a toy for his entertainment.
Keep shining! Don't give him the satisfaction of thinking you'll take him back. Your happiness is what matters - forget about him for good. You got this!
Just block him.