I made a mistake recently.
I have been having a string of connections with men that have been disappointing lately.
I reached out to an ex of mine. The reason I left them was because they had severe untreated mental illness and frequent mood instability. It made me feel like I was drowning. However, putting that aside we were a match in so many ways.
Meeting so many people that haven't been a good match recently made me minimise how emotionally suffocating dating him was. And I reached out thinking... maybe it wasn't that bad.
It has only been 1 week and already I realised I made a mistake. He has gone right back to as if haven't even stopped dating type vibes.
How do I get out of this again?
I feel awful but also I genuinely wanted to give him another chance. I just maybe deluded myself and made bad judgment due to recent disappointments.
You're really past doing it nicely. Dragging it out doesn't make it nicer though, so time to rip the bandaid off and do some introspection as to why you're so prone to bad judgement. If he sucked as a boyfriend before he's going to suck now, and there's 4 billion men out there no reason to play these games with yourself.
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Don't worry about bring an asshole. You got out of the relationship before, just do it again.
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cut ties
doesn't matter how
its been done before anyway
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U have to end things again their is no way of doing it nice lol when u are ending things for the same reason as before and it will look like u was playing with his emotions if he has mental health issues they won't just dissappear over night lol
Never reconnect with an ex. The same issues that caused the breakup will still be there.
Just cut it off clean.
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