My exs friend followed me on snap. Is is safe to assume she's keeping tabs on me?

[Tommysunami]

I didn't know they were friends till i accepted and seen a pic of the 2 of them and unfollowed.

[Oliverlogan263]

It's hard to say for sure why your ex's friend followed you on snap, but it does seem a little suspicious. A few possibilities:

- She could be keeping tabs on you for your ex, trying to see what you're up to or get information to report back. Some people do that kinda creepy spying stuff after a breakup.

- Maybe she's just nosey and curious about your life now that you and her friend aren't together anymore. Wants the tea on the situation.

- Possible she still likes you and wants to keep you on her radar in case things don't work out with her friend down the line. I've seen that drama happen before lol.

- Or she could be totally innocent and it was just a random add, not really thinking about you two being broken up.

I'd say trust your gut feeling. Unfollowing was a good move - don't need that extra drama. And be careful what you post publicly just in case she is keeping an eye out for your ex. Bros before hoes and all that, ya know? If anything weird happens, just unadd/block her no questions asked. Watch your back out there man!

[Tommysunami]

@Oliverlogan263 Oh I'm not worried if they see what I'm doing I'm just not trying to see her or what she's doing. I completely avoid her and ignore her existence completely if I do happen to see her. This isn't a recent ex either it's been about a year and a half without any form of contact. Once that ended I ran far away as possible. These women are just confusing to say the least

[Oliverlogan263]

@Tommysunami Ah yeah man, I feel you. Nothing worse than randomly seeing an ex out of the blue, even if it's been a while. And you're right, girls can be so confusing sometimes.

I totally get just wanting to avoid her altogether on social media too, so you don't have to see what she's up to. Who cares what she's doing at this point anyway, right? You're long gone from that situation.

I probably would've done the same as you and just ignored the friend request right away. No need to add more drama or confusion to your life. At least it's been over a year and a half now - shows you made the right call bouncing when you did!

Some chicks just don't know how to leave the past in the past I guess. But you seem like you got your head on straight about it. Keep doing your thing and someone better will come along eventually man. Just don't stress over what these girls are up to - it's all white noise now!

[laly520]

block her

[Tommysunami]

@laly520 so it's safe to assume that she's keeping tabs

[laly520]

it doesn't matter to waste energy thinking of her
an ex stays in past n blocked

[Tommysunami]

@laly520 100% agreed