Two months ago. Me and my husband got into an argument because I was sick and he didn’t like how I handled it. I ended up blocking him after that for how he treated me. His friends reached out a week later, to tell me to unblock him and I did, but he was still very aggressive and mean so I blocked him. He also threatened divorce during that conversation two weeks later he sent me two emails and I didn’t respond because he was hanging out with girls then two weeks later his friend contacted me saying that he wanted to talk and that he would want to do marriage counseling. I told his friend that I would be willing to talk with him, but I don’t know why, because he seems like he’s not happy with me, and he tells me that all the time. But I did tell him that he could contact me and he’s unblocked. he never called me or contacted me. 2 weeks later The day before our one year anniversary of our wedding I found out that he was hanging out with his baby mama on his boat and I sent him a text and told him to never contact me again or any of his friends..
The biggest confusion for me is why was he having his friends reach out to me and telling me to unblock him when he’s just hanging out with girls and has not contacted me? If he wants to do that why hasn’t he sent me divorce papers because our papers are very easy because we have a prenup and everything’s already done.. it’s truly driving me crazy these actions that I don’t understand.
for background he’s very spoiled grew up not needing anything. Also, normally after a week I reach out to him and tell him I don’t want his fighting and I kind of beg. This time I didn’t do that and I’ve kept it very dry
