Did something not my buisness kinda stuff when I Saw my ex cheating on his wife?

[crystalline0909]

Found him commenting on cheesy stuff on single girls while he is married to someone else so I told his wife's brother about this. I know it's none of my business n maybe wrong but do you think I did something wrong?

[Anonymous]

Exactly what kind of comments did he make?
Honestly I don’t think it’s your business like you said. Part of me feels like you did this because he’s your ex. Maybe he dumped you or something so you’re trying to get back at him. Even if you aren’t it still isn’t your business. I don’t necessarily see it as cheating if he made a comment unless he’s out there seeing these women behind her back. I’m not saying what he’s doing is right either. But you have no idea what’s going on in their relationship. Maybe they have an open relationship. Maybe things are falling apart between them. Maybe she got caught talking to other dudes so he accused her of cheating. There’s a lot of possibilities, stay out of it. You don’t want to be that person who gets caught in the middle, blamed for them separating if that a joke s? Unless that’s what you want to in order to get back at him or possible get him back.

[crystalline0909]

5 months of marriage where 5 days before marriage he is asking random girls out for another chance and 5 days later he is married. Making ❤️❤️❤️❤️ heart comments on revealing pictures of single young girls. He is known for being a player and exploiting girls when they are unconscious and drunk.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so why didn’t you tell his bride before they got married? Seeing as how you’re now making this your business about what he’s doing why didn’t you say something about it to her or her brother to begin w?

[crystalline0909]

You don't think I tried. When I couldn't reach her, so I reached for his brother. He wanted to stop the wedding but he was too late by then.

[crystalline0909]

Also before you make any accusations on me, I'm the one doing it cuz he has ruined many lives of 20 year olds while he is 10-15 years older to them. Accuse when you are aware of the accused background

[Opinion Owner]

How did he ruin their lives? He gave them an incurable STD or something?

[crystalline0909]

He raped them

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so why isn’t he in prison?

[crystalline0909]

Cuz he never got caught. Half the girl's didn't knew it happened or who did it and the other half stayed silent. He confessed it proudly infront of his friends while he was talking about how big of a stud he is.

[Opinion Owner]

I find that hard to believe.

[crystalline0909]

I don't have to make you or anyone believe.

[Opinion Owner]

No you don’t. But I just find it hard to believe that he “raped” all these women. Did they all tell you he raped them?

[AviatorTom]

Yes, you did something wrong. It WAS none of your business and you had no right to make it your business. I'm guessing you did it to get back at your ex, which is a horrible thing to do... move on!

[crystalline0909]

He doesn't know it was me. I've moved on. I don't wanna get back at him either. I just don't want him taking advantage of any other girl specially someone who left her whole life just to be with him. He is a kind of man who forcefully fucks women when not concious.

[HighValue]

It isn't wrong to expose cheaters, but it is bad to still pay attention or have any contact with an ex. Keeping up with an exes activity, etc. is reason enough for a potential good mate to avoid a relationship with you, so my advice would be to forget about him, don't look him up, or get involved in his life in any way or risk damaging your own future.

[crystalline0909]

I've no contact with my ex. Just exposed a cheater as i found it through a mutual.

[TommyMountainFigure]

It's a judgement call as far as I'm concerned. I probably would have too because I loathe cheaters and know the heartbreak it causes. My only hesitation would be that whilst she doesn't know, she isn't getting hurt!

[crystalline0909]

They are a weird kinda couple. They don't even follow each other on social media and nor do they show each other on social media.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Perhaps she already knows he cheats then? Maybe she does too?

[crystalline0909]

Perhaps

[ProbablyClueless]

What kind of comments was he making? I don't think what you did was necessarily wrong, but it was probably a little bit confusing for the wife's brother.

[crystalline0909]

I gave screenshot of him making "❤️❤️❤️❤️" teres red heart comments on girls revealing pictures

[RavVid]

No. It's some what dubious we are entitled to anonymity in my view

[Unit1]

This is the type of friends I hope I will have, however you'd be better off telling the wife directly.

[KrakenAttackin]

Is that cheating? It is inappropriate but it's not having sex with another person.

[crystalline0909]

He will if the girls he is flirting with gets along with his tactics

[Jamie05rhs]

You did absolutely nothing wrong. He fucked around, and now he's going to find out!

[Luckycharms12]

Ya nothing got to do with you. He is dick but not your problem

[DrPepper12]

No. Everyone deserves the truth.

[normalice]

Commenting is not cheating

[crystalline0909]

Cool let's wait for him to cheat

[normalice]

I have commented on many people's questions here, including yourself just now. If you're waiting for me to bone you like it's an inevitable consequence I'm afraid you have some traveling to do.

[crystalline0909]

What the hell are you talking about. Do you also make cheesy hearty ❤️❤️❤️❤️ comments on single girl's revealing pictures calling them beautiful or hot while your wife stays at home. Cuz I don't see you doing anything like that to my question so obviously I'm not waiting for you to bone me.

[normalice]

Fair, but worth mentioning I don't know how to make hearts

[normalice]

Oh, but I'll learn real quick if you're suggesting that's all it would take to get you to wait for me to bone you 😅

[crystalline0909]

Funny

[normalice]

Aww, thanks 🖤

[FunkyMonkee]

What's wrong with him making comments?

[crystalline0909]

Nothing unless his wife knows. But what right with making cheesy hearty comments on single girls revealing pictures while having a wife in his bedroom who has no idea what he is doing

[FunkyMonkee]

Why does it matter? It's not like he's fucking any of them.

[crystalline0909]

He probably is. Man makes trips to Thailand twice a year and club 4 times a week. He tried to approach me for the same few months back to patch things up. He didn't know that I knew he was married now

[LunarEclipse433]

You have to do what you feel right