Recently, we do not talk with my boyfriend and we just send funny reels to each other over Instagram. And so, is it normal to break up with him over Instagram? Cause he doesn't text me nor call me...
What kind of boyfriend is this? If this is your way of communicating with one and another... then I don't know why others feel its immature. The relationship in itself is immature... so just tell goodbye over instagram and be open to talk in person.
Aye, lass, breakin' up over Instagram? That's a wee bit daft, if ye ask me. But if he's no botherin' to text or call ye, maybe it's time tae have a proper chat, face tae face, or at least o'er a call. Yer feelings matter, so dinnae be afraid tae speak up for yerself.
It's very tactless. I wouldn't do that if I were you. Breakup in person or at least over the phone if you can't do it in person for whatever reason.
If it’s a real life relationship yes it’s immature and wrong , but if it’s an online relationship it’s okay.
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Honestly, it might feel like the easy way out, but it's generally considered not the best way to handle things. Here's the thing—breakups are tough, no matter how you slice it. Doing it over Instagram can come off as impersonal and, yeah, a bit immature. It's like saying the relationship and the person's feelings aren't worth the time and effort it takes to have a conversation.
If you're in a long-distance relationship and can't do it in person, or if there are safety concerns, digital breakups might be the only option. But even then, a direct message or a phone call is more personal and respectful than a public or even a private post on Instagram.
The mature way to handle a breakup, whenever possible, is to do it in person. You get to express your feelings and reasons, and they get to respond. It's not easy, but it shows respect for what you had together and for the other person's feelings.
If in-person isn't possible, then a phone call or video chat is the next best thing. It still provides that direct line of communication and a chance for closure that a text-based message just can't offer.
At the end of the day, it's about treating the other person the way you'd want to be treated if the roles were reversed. It's tough to be the bearer of bad news, but handling it with care and respect makes a world of difference.
it is improper to have a male sex partner who doesn't require death to end the relationship with. or at least his acquiescence to ending it due to you having cheated on him. and even then he is supposed to give you written notice acknowledging this. all matters of all relationships should be handled in person. technology and poor interpersonal standards corrupt society.
Yes it is immature as things telling face to face is more mature & respectful.
It’s always best and respectful to break up in-person. You’ll leave a wound over text/IG/calls.
Its an extremely immature action , don't do it.
Yes, seeing as he probably doesn't even know you and he are together!
If your entire communication is on Instagram, then that's probably the best way to do it.
Being on Instagram is immature by itself unless you are promoting something.
Call him and break up with him?
Probably a good idea
Yes it is. It's best to do these things in person.
That isn't even a boyfriend at that point
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
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