How to heal and move on quickly?

[Anonymous]

It’s so difficult to move on from heartbreaks. It’s been quite sometimes. I have a major important thing to do, but i just can’t get it done as my mind is still thinking about him. My heart still feels heavy, my anxiety sometimes kicks in

Any genuine tips? I already talk to everyone, i already try to distract myself, but none of that seems to be helpful as nothing change

[teamvic]

Have you tried to think a out all the negatives about him?🤔

It seems you're only thinking about the stuff you liked about him, the best parts

It's probably why your ass can't move on. Try only thinking about the stuff you didn't like about him or all the arguments if there were any. And if there's none then think about how he ain't thinking about yo ass and isn't sad so why should you be🤔

Or perhaps think about how maybe he cheated

[Asker]

I did. I did think all the negatives about him, all the pain that he did to me. But as cringe as it may sound, my love for him is too strong to that point even doing that didn't change my feelings for him :')..

[teamvic]

Then there's nothing you can do buddy

[Drew-1990]

It's something that takes time unfortunately. The advice you have been getting should help to a degree but time is it. I have had a few heart breaks myself. And even when they heal the scar will still be there. Just try not to let that scar drag you down forever find a way to get closure from it.

[Asker]

i will try my hardest :')

[Drew-1990]

Again it's not easy but I wish you all the luck in the world.

[rosemilk]

you cannot rush healing. you just can't. i get that you have important things to do, so what you can do is set aside time in the day to just accept and grieve your breakup. and then, once that time is up, move on with the day and continue to get what you have to do done.

[Asker]

I hope i can do that without any distraction, thanks :’)

[rosemilk]

you got this, you're going to be okay, one day at a time!

[HateyouxD]

Time babes... let time pass. Keep doing you stay strong

[Asker]

thanks hun :')

[Fireguy17]

It takes time.
It is a loss, sort of just likes a death.
For whatever reason that person is no longer in your life, so you go theough a grieving process.
After 2 or 3 years that is too long, but everyone heals differntly.
Look up the different stages of grieving and see where you are.

[Asker]

Aight thanks :’)

[Anonymous]

Same here

I have so many career responsibilities and exams coming up , but my heart still aches for her, especially at nights

[Asker]

We are literally in the exact same situation.
*virtually hugs*
Its always the night or morning or when things are a bit silent

[Opinion Owner]

Yes Sis!.. long virtual hugs to you too...
We shall overcome someday... god bless 🫂

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I feel that! lol
When I'm alone in bed and I have my pillow beside me, I can't help but hug it and think about her :((

[LaterZ]

Time. Its the best healer

[Asker]

This is truly the case it seems like :’)