My ex who broke up with me 7months back still has my pictures and he still has the messages. he refused to delete them?

[Anonymous]

He says it's the good memories he want to keep. At the same time he has other girls pictures too in his mobile. I dint understand why I loved him a lot and he broke up with me.

[Oliverlogan263]

I get why that would really bother you sis. It's hurtful to see him holding onto your pics and messages when you were the one who loved him so much.

At the same time though, I don't think there's much you can do to force him to delete his stuff if he doesn't want to. Some guys are just sentimental like that, even after a breakup.

My advice would be try not to focus so much on what he's doing and instead start moving on yourself. Out of sight, out of mind, ya know? Unfollow or block him on social media so you don't constantly see new pics of his life.

And don't feel bad about moving on too - if he's with other girls now, it's fair game for you too! The best revenge is living well. Fill your time with friends, hobbies, hitting the gym - whatever makes you happy.

Before you know it he'll just be a fuzzy memory as you build an awesome new chapter. You don't need some guy keeping your pics hostage to be happy. Chin up, sis - you've so got this!

[Anonymous]

I say just forget about it and move on from him.

[slatyb]

Why do you care?

[butterly248]

Like selfies?

[Asker]

Yeah

[butterly248]

Weird. Best to block him and move on. You can report him if you wanna

[JayBones2469]

So what?