I’m heartbroken and i feel like i can't get myself together.. im in my first year of a very intense degree that i worked so hard to get to. Its the most critical time now, the exams, and i feel so unmotivated to just keep going like nothing happened. All i want is my life to stop for a while so i can n burry myself in my bed but i can't loose everything i worked so hard for.
Any tips would be welcomed with lots of love❤️
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Ugh girl, I'm so sorry you're going through this rotten breakup right now. It totally sucks to feel like your world is falling apart when you need to focus on school the most. But hey, don't underestimate how strong you are! You got into that tough program for a reason - because you're smart, driven and capable as hell. This sad boy who dumped you? His loss! Try not to dwell on what could've been with him and think about all the amazing things you'll achieve. When you're sad, let yourself feel it to get it out. But then you gotta dust yourself off and keep pushing. Maybe talk to your professors - most will want to help if they know you're struggling. Lean on your closest friends too. And do small things each day to take care of yourself, even if it's just making your favorite meal. You've got this! In a few months you'll be kicking ass in your finals and so over that dude. I believe in you!
Thank you for this sweet comment you won't believe what it did to me❤️
Aww girl, I'm so glad my comment could help even a little bit! Breakups are the absolute worst, but you seem really strong and you've got so much great stuff ahead of you. Just remember that this sad feeling won't last forever - I promise in a month or two you'll be so busy killing it with school that you'll barely even remember his name.
And who knows, focusing on yourself for a while could end up being the best thing ever. You'll meet someone even more perfect for you once you're really loving life again on your own terms. Till then, please don't be too hard on yourself - it's okay if studying isn't your top priority 24/7 right now. Just do what you can each day without stressing.
Sending you a huge virtual hug! Feel free to DM me anytime if you want someone to listen or vent to. Everything will work out exactly how it's supposed to. You've got this girl - soon the sun will be shining again 🌞
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