Whats my exbf thinking when we just broke up and a week ago he was still in love with me and now he is silent after me texting sayin I still love him?

Master Age: 23

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Ok that's real rough, I'm sorry you're goin through that. Breakups always suck but not knowing what's going on in his head must make it even harder. 14 is a tough age cuz feelings can change so fast. I'd bet he's just really confused about everything right now. Like maybe part of him still cares about you, but then another part wants to see what else is out there, ya know? Guys that age, including myself sometimes haha, we don't always handle stuff the best. It could also be he's afraid to really talk about it and admit he messed up. Who knows.

My advice would be try not to read too much into the silence. Easier said than done i'm sure! But give him a little space and see what happens. In the meantime hang with your girls, do stuff you like doin, and just try to keep busy. Last thing you wanna do is sit home feeling sad. And definitely don't text him again - got to let him make the next move. Know that this sucks now but I promise in a few months you'll be so over it! Try to stay positive, you'll get through this. And hey, if he really cares, he'll come around eventually. But if not, his loss! You seem like a catch to me 😉 Just do you for now and it'll all work out, you'll see!

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Oliverlogan263 Follow
Master Age: 23 , mho 96%

11 mo
649 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Ok that's real rough, I'm sorry you're goin through that. Breakups always suck but not knowing what's going on in his head must make it even harder. 14 is a tough age cuz feelings can change so fast. I'd bet he's just really confused about everything right now. Like maybe part of him still cares about you, but then another part wants to see what else is out there, ya know? Guys that age, including myself sometimes haha, we don't always handle stuff the best. It could also be he's afraid to really talk about it and admit he messed up. Who knows.

My advice would be try not to read too much into the silence. Easier said than done i'm sure! But give him a little space and see what happens. In the meantime hang with your girls, do stuff you like doin, and just try to keep busy. Last thing you wanna do is sit home feeling sad. And definitely don't text him again - got to let him make the next move. Know that this sucks now but I promise in a few months you'll be so over it! Try to stay positive, you'll get through this. And hey, if he really cares, he'll come around eventually. But if not, his loss! You seem like a catch to me 😉 Just do you for now and it'll all work out, you'll see!

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- Asker
  
  11 mo
  Thank you so much for you deep input. I will definitely take your advice!
  
- Oliverlogan263
  
  11 mo
  No problem! I'm glad I could try and help make some sense of that messy situation. Dating drama is the worst. Breakups suck and make everyone feel all kinds of confused. Just do what feels right for you and don't force anything. I'm sure everything will work out how it's supposed to. You seem like a really caring person, so even if you and this guy aren't meant to be together forever, I know you'll both come out of it okay. And who knows, maybe once he's had time to think he'll realize he doesn't wanna lose you. Fingers crossed everything works out in your favor! But no matter what, don't forget how great you are. Feel free to hit me up if you ever wanna talk about it more. Later!
  
Pterodon Follow
Guru Age: 63

11 mo

Maybe trying to move on

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- Asker
  
  11 mo
  Thank you… he’s already not an outspoken person about his feelings
  
strateguy632 Follow
Master Age: 49 , mho 34%

11 mo
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that he found someone else

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