Did my boyfriend break up with me?

[Anonymous]

Originally I wanted to talk to my boyfriend about some trust issues I had with him regarding his behaviour (e. g., aggressive pushy behaviour to do things I dont want to do). But it escalated really high where he called me selfish and self-centred. I had tried to reason with him to deescalate the fight but he went into a long spiral of negativityz saying he only has half interest in me and I should do whatever I want. Ended our fight with "I dont even want to fucking talk to you anymore. Good luck and good night".

He only had 3 hours of sleep so I assumed it was because of the sleep. I left him a long message and he ignored it.

Have I been broken up with?

[kylee2437]

There’s no sincere break up here but starting an argument with him when he’s only had 3 hours of sleep is very self centered and he’s correct. Time and place is everything, maybe this could’ve been talked about during a better time when he can actually logically think because he’s well rested. And maybe next time, taking time before you voice your opinion, may even better give you more time to decide if your opinion should truly be voiced or if it’s just an in the moment thought (maybe because he isn’t giving you 100% because he’s exhausted)

[Asker]

Sorry I didn't describe it correctly. I had told him about it the day before. He spent the night thinking about what I said and made him sleep deprived because of what I had said. I wanted to end the discussion the next day but got out of control. By ending the discussion I mean to communicate and get both sides of the story and how we feel about each other

[rosemilk]

it sounds like he's projecting his own feelings about himself on to you. selfish and self-centered? that's likely him, not you.

best to just leave, this dude is toxic. this cycle will continue over and over again if you don't leave. it's not because of lack of sleep. this is who he is. and he is finally showing who he really is.

[BetaBucks]

Probably. Give him space. This relationship is doomed anyway, so you might as well start planning for the future. "Good luck" is a pretty good indicator by the way.

[Sandman731]

Yes, I’d say so and you’re probably better off for it

[Anonymous]

Why are you judging her based on the behavior of others rather than her own merits?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry, I somehow managed to post this in the wrong question. Please disregard.

[Luckycharms12]

Ya you are over