Did I overstep? (Sorry had to post it again)?

[Anonymous]

okay so I posted this but just the title and it won’t let me fruit so please disregard it! Okay so here’s the thing an old friend from high school is having an issue. I’ve known him since 7th grade. We never had anything. We were just friends. I ran into him 2 years ago, we said hi. That’s it. We never really messaged. I mean here and there. But he recently reached out to me. He wasn’t like him, he seemed out of it. Like broken. He was forcing it. All we did was message eachother. He finally admitted he caught his wife cheating on him for 5 years with the same guy, and his 2nd and current baby on the way might not be his. He’s a mess, just venting about how he found out. His wife’s sister knows and now so do I. I guess we are the only people that know. Been trying to cheer him up distracting him asking him about his card games that’s like dungeons and dragons etc. nothing else. He’ll vent here and there about what his wife is doing. I just listen. She’s left the house and took his girls recently. He told her she won’t be getting anything from him anymore unless it’s for his girls. Now she sent me friend request because she think something is going on between us. It’s not. He’s showed me the messages of them talking about me, she thinks he’s being malice by messaging me. I don’t want her thinking I’m trying anything. Am I overstepping? He says we’ll stop messaging till he gets it together. But I feel bad he’s gotta deal with it. I mean he just told me he met the guy. She had him shake the guys hand twice the guy works with her. And I’m a girl I’d think the worse case scenario if it was the other way around, I’d be like oh she’s one of those girls. Ya know? Did I overstep?

[PeachyPie93]

She left him to be with her cheating partner, the kids may not be his, she made him meet her partner. To me her actions are all overstepping something not you just talking to a guy. I would not worry about it since you are just being his friend and listening. I would say don't fall for him tho because even though his wife is a hoe he could end up back with her if her other partner dumps her. Since woman like to crawl back so they aren't alone and if he still loves her he will let her. But besides that No you did nothing wrong and I would not except her friend request because she doesn't deserve to know anything since she is the cheater, he can do and talk to anyone he wants, she does not own him anymore.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Hey I ran into it, a day later cause the site cycles it now but either ways, you aren't overstepping but that doesn't mean the girl won't give him shit for it anyways, the bitch is a cheater and now she's anxious that he will do it to her, from what I read you are a good friend and he is just in a bad mental state rn and he just needs some support and he found it in you cause you are there for him, you aren't overstepping and to be fair if the children aren't his and he's not married and he isn't with her because she cheated then tbh fuck her and her feelings, if the dude found another woman that will value commitment and he doesn't have anything holding him back, his ex isn't a valid reason that should stop this if it's a natural connection.

[MrGSpotHer]

Won't let you fruit what does that even mean fruit is good for you as part of a balanced diet is it not? He's being to nice and no your not at all..