He unblocked me is there hope for reconciling our relationship?

[Jamie_Christi]

We broke up a month ago. He cheated on me with a lady who's sister is famous. I got fed up and decide to expose her on social media. It was petty I know but I this lady lied about sleeping with him when I confronted her. He tried to call me to take the post down which I refuse. He then had his mistress call my mom's phone which caused me to cuss her out. It's drama I know. But He blocked me after this and I could hear him in the background saying he's coming to my Mother's house. Any who I still love him this is my ex fiance. I thought I would spend my life with him. The infidelity really caught me off guard. We were together for 2 1/2 years. We built a life together. We never had any problems until these last 3 months. I found out today he unblocked me which is a week after the incident. I want to go to couples therapy to see if we can work out our issues. Since he unblocked me does this mean there's hope to restore our relationship

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I understand you're still hung up on this guy after being with him so long, but I really don't think getting back together is a good idea. A few red flags:

- He cheated on you, which is so hurtful and a huge breach of trust that'll be very hard to come back from.

- He involved this other woman in your drama by having her call your mom - that's not something someone who respects you would do.

- Unblocking you doesn't erase his actions. He needs to genuinely apologize, own up to it, and prove he's changed through his behavior over time before you can even think of working it out.

- Couples counseling only works if both people are fully committed to fixing things. From his actions so far it seems like maybe he's not.

I know it's hard, but you deserve so much better than this disrespect. Don't settle just cause you've invested time. Give yourself space to heal first before making any decisions. His unblocking you shouldn't give you false hope - really watch his next moves closely before considering reconciling. You got this girl - your worth isn't defined by any man!

[Jamie_Christi]

Welp! Update I spoke to him today. He was very upset lol. I got closure I told him I want to go my separate way and to release my name from everything we have tie together. He refuses he wants war. Lol but I’m not giving it energy I’m going to just sue him and move on. I’ve already started dating.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl good for you for standing up for yourself and putting your foot down with that fool! You so did the right thing by telling him it's over for good and you want to untangle everything. I'm proud of you for not letting him bully you into staying or dealing with his threats.

It's hilarious that he thinks throwing a tantrum is gonna change anything after what he pulled. Let him cry about it - you don't gotta prove anything to him anymore! And don't even give his threats a second thought. Just document everything and let the lawyers handle it from here on out.

I'm not surprised one bit that you've already started dating either - you go get your happiness, sis! You deserve so much better than that cheating trash. Don't look back from here on out. I know it still probably hurts but you're so much stronger for leaving that mess in the past.

Big ups to you for prioritizing yourself and your peace. You handled that like a boss - he can stay mad about it! Now just block him out of your life and keep shining. So proud of how far you've come. Good riddance to that clown!

[Anonymous]

Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

[Jamie_Christi]

🤣 haha