She wronged me and I can't get past it. How do I move on?

[Anonymous]

She lied about me, said I physically hurt her, and cheated on her. And then tried to lie about it during divorce (earlier they were telling friends and associates we shared). I was thankfully able to prove it was all a lie but... lost my job, haven't gotten a new one, have no house, they are continuously ruining my reputation so starting a new business is beyond difficult. And she's with my "friend". I just want revenge

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I never said I was going to actually try to get revenge. And we are still going through the divorce process so its not like it's been years or even a year. Its still very fresh and revenge would make me feel better, but my question was how do I move on given this is whats going on.

[Douglas1179]

I went through something similar when I was going through a divorce. I moved to a different State and started my life over. It ended up being a really good decision. You'll be amazed at how much you can improve your life by distancing yourself from people who are intentionally trying to destroy you. LOL.

[Anonymous]

Secure her confession, have her criminally charged, and sue her for every dime she has. Then, spend the rest of your life legally destroying any romantic relationships she has, by telling them everything she did.

[Breanna83727]

I don’t think he should spend his rest of his life trying to get revenge. It’s a waste of his time.

[Opinion Owner]

@Breanna83727 yeah, you're right that he should eventually move on. But, at least a decade (or whatever his prison sentence would have been) of DMs to her lovers and friends about what happened, would be fair. She shouldn't just walk away unscathed.