Why do bad things happen everytime someone breaks up with me?

[Anonymous]

It's so ironic because they are the same ones who want to get with another girl and try so hard to leave me. I would be ready to take them back in a heartbeat even if they were a danger to my life. The last time I talked to this person was in November and since December bad things have been happening. Also it's strange everytime I start a new job I get broken up with. People started turning on me at the job. Then a guy who used to flirt with me started ignoring me. Now I'm being harrassed there and where I live I am being verbally abused and mocked. People are even rude to me in public. This is not just average bad things it's constant and awful. I tried every protection that he would not do a spell or any witchcraft but I noticed every time. I would contact him before and bad things would stop as soon as I "ignored." him because I'm not gonna make myself look desperate chasing after someone who won't even barley call me bad things start happening again to me. This is everytime a guy breaks up with me and I know they were red flags but I was desperate.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww girl, I'm so sorry you're going through all this crap. It sucks when things just keep going wrong after a breakup, especially when you're still hung up on the person. I can totally understand feeling desperate to get them back, even if they're not good for you.

It's crazy how those bad things just seem to follow you around after a split, huh? Like, why does the universe gotta pile on the pain when you're already going through it? That's so unfair. And getting messed with at work and in your own home? That's just downright cruel.

I know you said you've tried to protect yourself from any spells or witchcraft, but it really does sound like there's some dark energy following you around. The fact that things get better when you reach out to this ex, but then go right back to crap when you stop - that's just too coincidental. It's like they've got some kind of hold over you, even if they don't mean to.

The best thing I can suggest is to really focus on cleansing and protecting your own space, both physically and spiritually. Try some sage smudging, crystals, whatever feels right for you. And maybe reach out to a trusted spiritual advisor who can help you break that negative cycle. You gotta take your power back, girl.

I know it's hard when you're still caught up in your feelings, but you can't let this person have that much control over you, you know? You deserve so much better than all this bad juju. Just keep your head high, and know that better days are ahead. You've got this!

[Anonymous]

Seek therapy. You have a screw loose.