Should I envy that this is happening?

[Alxve]

So I left an abusive relationship 2 years ago. And moving on still and its hard won't lie.
But recently found out that my abusive ex has a new boyfriend and she is treating him so much better and with more pride. Which makes me think should I question myself that why I didn't get the same treatment. And she is showing him off..
Calling him Diamond or whatever.
Well the honeymoon phase ended for them I know that since its been long.
She is doing the things she never did with me.
Well my ex verbally abused me , DARVO , Breadcrumming , Gaslight , Lies , betrayed me once (Not cheating)..
So I dont know.. i just feel envy since I loved this girl a lot and truly [I know I didn't had any self respect back then.]
And when someone else gets it.. with extra efforts. It does hurt to see.
I did a lot of efforts for this person.
Not texts but more efforts..
I dont know should I envy?

[sage2021]

I'm sure she is making sure that you see or find out how she's different with the other guy than she was with you. She's doing this on purpose to make you jealous and it's working.

But all you know about them is what she wants to make sure that you find out about it.

That isn't their entire relationship though. You don't know what they are really like when no one's watching.

So, until you know for sure what their relationship is like 24/7, then you can only imagine and not know for sure how they get along or if they get along.

[Alxve]

Your right but it stabs like a dagger in chest ain't?
You do so much for this abusive person and yet they are treating someone else better.

[sage2021]

@Alzve

I know... and it's not fair!

[Alxve]

But its fine.
Yk she got the guy who would put up with the abuse.
It took me time to clear my emotional fog. But its better for me to find someone who gives me respect.
Respect is key :]

[sage2021]

@Alxve
Right on!! 👍🏼

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for you it’s time for you to face the sunshine & let the shadows cast behind you. Stop Putzing Around With Your Ex, She Has A New Boyfriend, MOVE ON BRO.

[Alxve]

I mean I dont mind her having a new boyfriend.
I dont really also wanna put up with the abuse.
So yes her boyfriend might be a Nice guy who will absorb any disrespect or abuse and stay with her.
Thats not my loss bro..
I might envy because the treatment was different but I wouldn't envy her boyfriend gets her.

[dean55au]

No just ignore her, this is what my ex did too...
It's not your fault, it's her mental issues...