Am I jealous for this?

Anonymous
So I don't consider myself a jealous guy. I really think that I'm secure in my relationships and I trust my wife 100%. My wife and I have been married for two years. When we first started dating, she would get started from head to toe, men checking out her body. She didn't notice but I did. At that stage I didn't feel jealous or upset. Yes it was disrespectful, but I liked the Idea that she was beautiful. It made me feel proud! Like this one time we were in the mall, and she was just looking at some clothes in the item shop minding her own business and suddenly this older guy (around 40 at that time) Said "Aye man, is that your women?" I replied and said yea. And he said "damn she's sooo sexy" things like that kinda made me feel proud of her because she is beautiful. Now, when we got married, it changed. So we were having brunch one Saturday. So as she was talking to me, she noticed one of her guy friends from back home and she got up and gave him a hug. He then caresses the low of her back as they hug cause he was a little too excited to see her and you know the usual Convo "I haven't seen you in years" and then he says wow you look amazing and then caresses her waist. I did feel some type of way but I had to play it off because she introduce me to him. On other occasions, I will see guys staring at her boobs and it annoyed me. What should I do?
Am I jealous for this?
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