Last night, I was out with some friends and got home fairly late. My phone ended up ringing soon after, and it was my ex-girlfriend (she broke up with me a few weeks ago), and she was drunk and with some of her girl friends. First, talking to someone who's drunk is a challenge in and of itself, but when it's an ex, it's even more of a challenge. She was completely out of it (she's pretty insensitive when she's drunk), but kept asking me if I wanted to have sex with her, saying she loved me and asking if I loved her, but then stating that she didn't know why I liked her and that she was wrong for me. This was amid other drunk behavior and laughing with her friends in the background (who I assume were drunk too).
I've wanted to talk to her about us, but not like this, and I told her that I couldn't talk to her while she was like that or when her friends were there. I was kind of annoyed, to be honest, and wanted to get off the phone as quickly as possible. She ended up hanging up for...whatever reason.
Question is, does she mean anything she says when she's drunk? Is she even going to remember this today? Should I even bother contacting her?
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I would be very careful, I had an ex come to be when he was high (I didn't realize it at the time) but he started talking to me online and said he loved me and wanted me back. Foolish was I that I took him back. But ya, it turned out terribly.
Take what she said with a grain of salt. Who knows what she was thinking when that happened, and she was drunk so she may not have meant it. I don't know if I would contact her. Getting drunk and calling someone, I don't know it just seems like a really stupid thing to do. But people make mistakes.
Give it a few days, see if she will contact you. She should apologize if she really does still have feelings, for her behavior and also to clear things up with you. She was the one who broke your heart, so I think should be the one to make you believe in you two again. Give it a week and if she doesn't contact you, I would give her a call. Seems like you want to at least know what happened between you two, and I think you should be able to know.0