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There was a woman i been sending her anonymous AMA questions since September 2026 than recently she posted online that she's possibly now seeing someone new now and I would like to share one of my reasons on why I don't approach women or romantically date them because you never know Between now, days, weeks, months or years she could already have a guy on her radar just getting ready to claim her and from my personal opinions that every women has at least have over 8 men on their radars. This isn't the first time this happened to me before. Ugh... 😒
18 h
This is why stop approaching women when they might already be seeing someone else?
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Maybe she just didn't feel the same way about those questions happening as you did asking them. You didn't try to approach her as potentially interested, just an anonymous guy, regardless if you were scared or not, and some other person had the courage to do so.
Also, haven't you said in other posts on here that you only want a friends with benefits situation? If she found someone else, you should be happy for her that she was able to find a stable relationship while you continue your search for your ideal set up.
You shouldn't be blaming women for finding happiness with someone who shows interest in them and matches their wanted personality traits. That falls on you to be more courageous next time.
Everything is fine now, she hasn't told who the guy is yet but I am happy for her on finding a good guy. I was upset when I posted because my "defense reflexes" was acting up. Yes, I developed a defense reflex after experiencing numbness rejections over the years. I know there's better fishes in the sea and I'm not superbly invested into her. I can explain more about defense reflex. just think as of one of my bad triggers I get from events like this.
I guess I don’t understand why this is a big deal because I don't know what an anonymous AMA question is.
Alright. Now I know what they are. Asking somebody a bunch of anonymous questions in no way means she’s interested in you. Unless I’m still missing something…?
It's complicated but when you find somebody who could be rarely compatible with you or a match you can't find anywhere else in the world then the next thing you know their knight and shining armor their true prince Charming comes in and claims them, ugh... 😒
I still don’t see why you thought asking this person a bunch of anonymous questions gives you any claim over her affections. I usually like you and agree with you, but this time I’m confused.
Sorry, there was someone online from fetlife i did really liked. The reasons why I been only sending her anonymous questions because i'm way too shy on sending her DMs to her. If I sent her any DMs she'll possibly rejected me and won't like me and today she announced she's seeing someone know. Yeah me, slow person, i know.
Now not know*
I’m sorry you got your heart broken, but look at it from her perspective. She doesn’t even know you exist except as some guy who sent her anon questions. She probably didn’t even consider you as a potential romantic partner. I am sorry your feelings were hurt though.
Fetlife is a platform where people have the similar rare preferences that I have. I'm not heart broken just disappointed.
I’ve heard of it. I guess you should have DMed her once you realized she shared your preferences.
True, but there huge possibilities she won't read them and kept me on read.
Maybe. Was there any evidence she was into you?
i been sending her unsexual questions from sending her anonymous AMA questions and she's been liking them.
That’s something. Still, it’s a long way from that to liking you romantically. If I were her, I’m not sure if I would have even considered you as a possible romantic partner if that was all the interaction we had. I guess it would depend on the questions.
Gtg. Night!
Night...
do you really expect a woman to fall for you when you’re sitting here anonymous messages come on
It's complicated but when you find somebody who could be rarely compatible with you or a match you can't find anywhere else in the world then the next thing you know their knight and shining armor their true prince Charming comes in and claims them, ugh... 😒
Anything is possible. Just ask her if she's seeing somebody else. Don't make assumptions about it. You're probably wrong if you assume.
OPP IMAGINE!!!