Do guys ever encourage their friends on to cheat on their girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

If you're all out clubbing and drunk,do you guys ever egg on your friends to cheat?Obviously the guy is an a hole if he cheats,but if they do cheat,why?Is it the peer pressure or the temptation?Do you know of a guy who has being egged on by friends and he has cheated?And why would a guy encourage his friend to cheat?It's just bull crap.Then there's the guy code,where you all just keep it a secret.

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Also what if you didn't like his girlfriend?In the end it is his decision to make not his guy friends,right?

[gonyr]

I wouldn't rat my friend out but I wouldn't encourage it either.

If my friend who has a girlfriend is digging another girl, I'll ask him if he's sure he wants to. If he's not serious enough about his current girlfriend to really care than go for it, I won't rat him out or get in his way. though.

[Asker]

Why wouldn't you say don't do it?

[gonyr]

well ill ask him if he's sure he wants to. if he is, than he shouldn't be with the current girlfriend anyway so why get in his way?

ive seen friends cheat before, its awkward to see their girlfriend afterward and know that they have now clue, but if my friend wanted to do it, and he wasn't just sh*tfaced and being dumb, than it is what it is. it sucks and its a sh*tty thing to do, but I can't stop him

[Asker]

you can stop him,I mean say you're going out with a girl and her girlfriends start egging her on to cheat on you,would you want that to happen?Or would you want a friend to straIghten your drunk girlfriend up and say no it's not okay to do..

[gonyr]

Im not saying I encourage it though. I would never egg a friend on to do that. I'm saying if HE wanted to, without any pressures from his friends, that I'm not gonna go out of my way to stop him. I'll go ask him if he's sure but that's it.

If my girlfriend were gonna cheat on me because her friends egged me on, than that's her problem and I don't want to be with her anyway, and she shouldn't be with me.

[MrOracle]

I've encouraged people NOT to cheat, but never to cheat. And probably half the time, they don't listen to me anyway.

I hate cheating and I hate cheaters, and I lose a huge amount of respect for people who cheat. I never really trust them again for anything important.

[Anonymous]

I would If I felt his girlfriend is a complete bitch to him and he simply won't break up with her for some odd reason. Attachment? I don't know.

[Asker]

But that is his decision to make,not yours...

[Opinion Owner]

But he's my friend and I don't want a girl treating him badly. I will help him if he's not being rational.

[Asker]

If he is being treate badly though he'll go and break up with her,if it is that bad.And if he is a good guy,he won't cheat.That's unfair..it's for him to decide.Obviously if he gets treated bad,she doesn't deserve him,but why should you make that decision,when he is the one dating her..I wouldn't egg my girlfriends to cheat,it's just wrong on so many levels.

[Opinion Owner]

It still is his decision. I can't make him cheat on her or break up. I can only influence him to make another decision. I've had a guy friend in the past who couldn't stand to break up with her because he didn't want to be alone again. Yeah they had good times but she was a clear bitch and everyone could see it except him. I didn't want him to cheat so he could go back to her, I wanted him to cheat so they'd have to break up and he'd be done with her.

[Hades]

I, for one, discourage it. Cheating is not cool

[Anonymous]

yeah

it does happen

its stupid...

[Asker]

Why do you think it does?:(Now I'm worried haha

[Opinion Owner]

To be honest, guys are stupid.

Yeah, that's seriously my answer lol