An enemy won't leave me alone & keeps talking bad about me to everyone?

[Anonymous]

I was best friends with a girl in high school for many years. we are now enemies. she hates me because I wouldn't help her with homecoming once and was mad that I started getting new friends or something. its been an on going thing with her. I graduated 2 years ago and she keeps finding ways to "get to" me. I could care less about her and I feel that she's not worth my time and me getting upset, but its starting to get ridiculous. she constantly was leaving comments about me, on our mutual friends myspace. saying how much she hates me and stuff. she left like 10 comments. our mutual friend deleted her myspace I guess because she doesn't like myspace and now uses facebook. my enemy has already left a comment about me. she said stuff about how much she hates me again. I finally wrote a comment saying that certain people on her myspace were lame and immature. and my enemy wrong another comment saying that she could kick my a** and whole bunch of mean stuff like cussing me out. then I guess my friend said something to her because she wrote again saying sorry for putting her in the middle of it. what should I do? I've only said something once and she like exploded. I didn't say anything for so long because my boyfriend said not to bother and not to waste my time. but I feel like by me not saying anything, she's feeling like I'm scared of her or something, and I'm not. should I write a message to my friend telling her I'm not going to comment her anymore because of the constant things written about me? what should I do? she won't stop talking about me to everyone.

[pearl1979]

When you lash back at her, she is more likely to keep doing what she is doing. I mean she is getting your attention this way. Obvious she has got some serious jealous issues. For now I would just ignore her. Why get caught up in all that bullsh*t? You know who you are and the people who truly care about you won't give this girl the time of day. She will get tired of it because you are not giving her the attention.

[Asker]

Its like the more ignore it the more she does it. she'll post status things saying that she hates me. people are going to think I'm too scared to stand up for myself

[pearl1979]

Have you tried to talk to her one on one?

[Asker]

No because she's like psyco. she exxxxxxxxxtremely hates me and talking to her one on one would result in me getting cussed out lol

[pearl1979]

Golly she needs to get a fu***** life!! enough is enough!!

[Asker]

Lol that is truee

[Anonymous]

Talk to her one on one. Don't let her intimidate you. just set her lame ass straight and tell her that she's being really childish. Obviously you are doing something right if she's spending so much time worrying about you! I think you're right, she takes you not saying anything as being afraid of her. Some people's minds are warped like that, so just confront her once and make her look stupid and then pretend she doesn't exist anymore.

[Asker]

She has a weird mind, like she see's herseif as right and everyone is wrong, I tried talking to her one on one a long time ago and she kept telling me I was weak and that she hated me. didn't really get anywhere

[Opinion Owner]

I guess you can't talk sense to a crazy person lol. If she acts that weird to you I'm sure most people realize she's nuts and won't pay her any mind

[Anonymous]

Ooh. Meow!

[Asker]

That would imply that she was female, she's an evil monster