Me andmy boyfriend been together for 5 months. I love him and I know he loves me. We talk about getting married all the time in a couple of years. He gave me a promise ring on valentine day that he will ma rry me. Well I am super jealous of his ex girlfriend that he had dated for 8 months he said he never loved her but when they broke up he was really hurt well I nag about her all the time to him. Well a couple weeks ago he had told me well if you don't talk about my ex for 4 months straight I will propose to you well that bugged me I don't want him propose if he says that what you guys think about him kinda bribing it
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Is there a reason why you are talking about his ex-girlfriend?
Look, he is not telling the truth when he says that he never really loved his ex-girlfriend. If he didn't love her, would he be hurt? Would he still have been in the relationship for EIGHT months without caring about his girlfriend at all? It seems like he said that only to make you feel better.
Look, that relationship is over. If he is hurt, he is hurt. You will make him feel bad if you keep on talking about her. It doesn't matter if he is trying to bribe you, because that is definitely not bribery. If you want your boyfriend to feel happier, don't talk about his ex-girlfriend. You're just bringing up his old hurts all over again each time you talk about it.1