If it makes you feel any better, I have broken up with a girl twice after Halloween.
The first one was a few years ago when I had a girl from Florida come up here to alaska and we were engaged. She ended up taking me and her butch friend to a gay bar, my truck broke down in anchorage and we got in a huge fight.
So I told her to ho back to Florida and she ended up staying a few weeks living with her friend who's a lesbian which I am not judging the lesbian for her lifestyle but my ex said she had a lesbian relationship in the past. Also she always talked about this guy friend named Albert at her work and my best friend Corey. She told me she had a dream that she was kissing me and my face was mixed with Albert and Corey's. So I kicked her to the curb.
Two years later I meet a girl who had two kids from two different dads and things seemed great for a while but then the honeymoon wore off. On Halloween she dressed me in a bee outfit and walked out with another man at a bar. I tackled the guy and security grabbed me and told me to leave her alone. I told them that she is my girlfriend and she just stood there like I was a jack ass and like she didn't know me. The security told me to ho home and not to talk to her or I would go to jail. So I ripped her a new one. I made her feel like a piece of sh*t while I was let go. What was worse is that I got a job where she was at and had to go to work the next morning where everyone knew her. Everyone knew her side of the story and didn't really care about mine. Then I also went to the same college as her. The school was small so I had to see her constantly
Begging will either push her farther away or cause her to never respect you if she took you back. Never give your significant other more power than you. What you need to do is regain your own power and self control back, realize that you don't need her to make you happy and to be who you are. Only you can make you happy.
When you make yourself happy then you are stable enough to be back in a commited relationship.
Its easy for anyone to take atvantage of someone who worships them. Even the nicest people fall into this habit.
What you need to do is keep the emotions balanced between each other.
Its always the hardest after a break up. Especially when its been long term. You almost become one person. So when uou break up, its like breaking in half.
So find within yourself to heal without her and if it all works out then it is suppose to be.
Personally I would never get back with someone who has broken up with me because if they have done it once they can do it again. I wouldn't want to put myself through that hurt all over again.. If she didn't give you a chance the first time you asked then she more then likely won't. Plus you don't want to come across needy or desperate and you don't want to piss her off by asking several times. It could be that she needed a break and some space so give it to her.. The thing is and I'm sorry to say but she broke up with you for a reason
There isn't a question here...
Regardless, she had two choices: truthfully break up with you or fake it so you can have a nice birthday then do it the day after. Wouldn't you feel lied to if she celebrated with you then dumped you the next day ?
she doesn't want to ve with you. find osmeone who does
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When someone breaks up with you It means that they have checked out before getting the nerve to tell you. So it is something they have been contemplating for a while. Tell yourself these three things:
1. I know who I am and I accept it
2. I know what I want
3. I deserve the best
Now think of her and ask yourself these questions?
1. Is taking her back good for me in the long run, why?
2. Are we on the same page in that we want the same thing from a relationship, being very honest with you.
3. How do I feel when I am with her happy, sad, and depressed? You see love should be a smooth road with a few corners some sharper than the next. It should never be an emotional rollercoaster
You see I have this thing if they walked out once, they can do it again, for by that tie they have had practice.
Let it go and move on, do not contact her. Over time It will pass
It doesn't really matter when she broke up with you.. she's not feeling it anymore. And begging sure isn't going to help. Why don't you just give her some space for some time and see what happens next.
It seems that she found a new guy or she really is fed up in your relationship.
You can't do anything now besides to move on.
she is not into you so I would let her go
Soo what's the question?
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