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I break the touch barrier first. If I want to feel you or be felt then I will either touch you or let you touch me. If I back away and shake my head its a no. Some guys don't understand that even though it seems pretty simple to me. I don't think hugs count as touching I will hug a person that I'm not sexually attracted to as well as a guy that I am sexually attracted to. I don't know I don't really monitor who touches whom first, I think it depends on the person and the circumstance. Like if the guy that I am on a date with is really laid back and relaxed I will probably touch him. But I've been out with guys that were really active and engaged and they touched me first. So it depends on the vibe on the date or in the relationship. I think that in a pretty short period of time people determine who is the more aggressive of the two. Good question, hope this helped.