Polls: Break Up & Divorce

Two years after breakup. And even after the dumpee requested the dumper to please remove them because it hurts the dumpee (recently after the breakup).

Really what is the point, because they shall never meet again anyway.
Does it mean the dumper is trying to hurt the dumpee?
Or is it rather that the dumper can't let go?

Dumper isn't a person to 'just keep people as friends' on FB.

Should I be honest and tell her I want to break up because of that to make up a lie? She was in the shower and so much hair came out it was strange.

--You don't need to read any of this unless you're REALLY bored.--

I noticed maybe a year ago that the hair at the back of my head on my neck was thinning, and I thought maybe my hair was just cut too short -- now it seems to be thinning more and my hair line is receding a little bit.

I consider myself to be a good looking guy, in large part because of my hair.

I've been with my girlfriend for four and a half years and she said more than once "Please don't ever go bald :(". When I told her I noticed I was thinning, she said it doesn't matter and she'll always love me. I half believe her, half don't. I'm frustrated with myself. What was the point of this story? There wasn't one. I wanted to vent. I don't believe she'd ever leave me, but I do worry she'd find me less attractive.

Me and this girl didn't exactly work out, and a lot of stuff she did/how she acted were kinda red flags to make me believe she was secretly dating another guy behind my back, as well as possibly stringing me along.

I have a lot of questions as you can imagine, that would clear up whether she's a bad person or not

Today me and her briefly talked (she still dislikes me) and i asked her for closure (after she got my package of the stuff i sent her, thats hers). she said "always thinking about yourself, as usual"

yeah she sounds like a b*tch, i just gave her her stuff back, but it makes me wonder... is it actually selfish to ask for closure? i think wanting closure is normal, but asking for it? Hmmmmm...

thoughts?

Buddy came back 9 months in Afghanistan to be with his wife during her delivery. She gives birth to a black baby in front of everyone at the hospital. She wants him to stay or pay for child support and says that it's his fault that he wasn't there so she got lonely.

My buddy is heartbroken/pissed and punching the wall right now. I don't want to approach him cos he's a marine and you don't want to get in between a marine and a wall especially when he's losing it.

Any advice on what to tell him? I don't think he will stay with her.

One Chance, Per Woman, Per Lifetime - Do you girls/women agree with this statement?

That a guy only get's once chance per woman for a lifetime? That you can never look at him again in the same way after a break-up because once your interest level for him has dropped for and a break-up has occured it can never go back as high as it was before?

Here the audio and source for it check it out

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Her birthday is tomorrow, we were madly in love, should I send her a text? We haven't spoken for almost a year, it ended badly and I even blocked her on Facebook.

I’ve tried to move on, but I can’t help it that I still have feelings for her. She is also keeping a picture from our relationship as her profile pic she has had it there for the past year, either to remind me of the relationship or to mind-f*** me. I’m not sure why, but it’s really weird.

She did me wrong but I’m kind of tired of staying mad at her so should I send her text and congratulate her?

A part of me wants to show her I still care but the other part is like saying it will only boost her ego and make me feel bad about it.

So if I am going to do it, why should I be doing it?

And if not why shoulden't i?

What do you think? I might let the votes decide.

I'm just asking because when my ex would pee, she'd start to go and would pee for maybe 15 - 20 seconds every time. My current girlfriend when she pees, it sounds like it just dribbles out (doesn't sound like much comes out) for maybe 5-10 seconds. They both would use the wash room about the same amount of time after drinking something (30 or so minutes I'd guess).

So, when you pee, how long does it usually take for the stream to start and finish? And how long do usually wait from when you drink something to when you go pee? (Do you hold it for a little while? Or do you go when you feel a slight urge)

one of the most frequently asked questions after a breakup, let's get some answers from personal experiences as everyone has gone through them

in my opinion any "breakup" where you get back together in less than one month is not really a breakup, just a fight

1.were you the dumper or dumpee?

2.who contacted who first?

3.how long were you in a relationship for?

4.what was the reason for the breakup? in your opinion

5.when they contacted you was it to get back together or just see how you were?

6. If they wanted to get back together, did you already move on by the time they contacted you?

7. If you did get back together, how long did it last?



lol imo I think that a breakup occurs when the relationship is broken beyond repair. from personal experiences once a real breakup happens even if you get back together, it doesn't last too long. id say anywhere from a few weeks to a few months tops

feel free to describe as many past relationships as you want

So a few weeks ago this girl told me se liked me. She also told all of my friends. I never made a move because I don't see her very often and I was really busy. Now I've tried to talk to her and she kinda looks away and says like one word answers before walking away. Is she angry because of this? We were pretty good friends before

Some gal recently said that she always turned a guy down on the first date..to which several guys indicated that they did not think that was a good idea. For me: if a female said she had other plans, and particularly if she asked for a rain check, then I would try again...although it gets tougher each time. But I am not a game player and I am going to assume no interest if no explanation is given..I mean how many times have we heard females complain about guys that will not give up?

I saw a very tall colored girl at Wall mart yesterday. She was an employee there, and her zipper was all the way down and gapped open. I walked over very close to her and told her it was down. I am sure she was horribly embarrassed, but she pulled up her zipper. I have seen this sort of situation before, zipper down, a breast exposed, etc. I am always torn. Do I tell the girl and embarrass her, or keep quiet and let her find out on her own?

heres the reasoning for the question

a marriage lic. is a local document general of a city or town located in a county where individuals got married at.

it is a legal document in the state in which that marriage lic was issued .

even though one was married in cleveland ,ohio they can go to portsmouth ,ohio and that doc is reconized as being legal

same couple could move to alaska yet that lic. doc is without any objections or restraints reconized as a legal doc.

this same couple could go to any country in this world and it still be a legal anbd binding marriage lic. (meaning that you wouldn't have to be remarried in that country tobe considered legal couple)

ok what have we learned that not only a local legal doc. its a state doc also not only that because you can go to any state in the usa and it becomes a federal reconized doc as well , lastly any where in the world said doc is now a global legal doc.

for those that don't know what many marriage vows have in them they should look them up especially if any kind of church type wedding which represents a good 60 to 70% of most all

weddings

so my question is should or could a cheating spouse that breaks the wedding vows be sued for breach of contract?

this question I know will raise a lot of additional questions and opinions so isn't this why this site exists. I hope to stimulate some

to respond either side also please be specific in replies also no lame responses would be appreciated

Cheating... What do you think? Is it a "mistake"? Is it a bad decision?

My perspective:

I look at it as a series of bad decisions. It was no accident that a person meet another of the opposite sex... Not an accident that the two DECIDE to see each other naked... Not an accident that a vajina was penetrated by a penis. All seem intentional to me. So how is it a mistake? Someone mistakenly went into a room or place where someone (that is not the significant other) else were naked, tripped, fallen and a penis mistakenly penetrates a vajina? Don't seem like a mistake, because if I entered a room wherein a naked person not being my significant other is, I would exit and part my ways. I can honestly say I have never cheated or even flirted with another woman if I am committed to someone. I can not imagine myself cheating, and don't understand the compulsion to do so.

I was confronted with an opportunity of cheating, but nothing happened because I controlled the situation. The only thought in my head was if my fiance cheated on me, I'd rip her f*cking heart out of her chest... and I'd expect the same for myself if I were to cheat on her. What are these people thinking?!?

I was cheated on once, and I caught her in the act, with my roommate while I was in the military 8 years ago. She claimed it were a "mistake"... I laughed, and then scoffed,"So you mistakenly fell on top of him naked and his penis 'mistakenly' went inside of you, right? Get the F*ck out of my face, or I'd kill you where you stand." I ended the relationship that instance. And she gave me back my damn ring too.

However, I want to see what you think... Do you consider it a "mistake" or a "decision" when it comes to cheating?

I want explanations... Explain your answer.

I need as many opinions and votes as possible, please. The person I am interested in touches me, and lets me touch her a lot. Would she do this and let me do it if she weren't interested? I'm sure that I have heard that all women know the power of touch for men and so won't let a man who they are not interested in do it. I'm talking about hugs, holding around the waist (I do that to her), holding hands, touching and holding face and neck (me to her again).

Also, if she is my friend does that qualify your original answer at all?

Okay, so I talk to women and men all the time, as per being a human and social. When I talk to men it's usually just straight-forward questions and answers, with logical precedents and conclusions when discussing things and short but to the point conversation in general. I like this.

With women it's just all over the damn place, with secret messages and bullsh*t thinking combined with poor logical thought and generally nonsensical argumentation or even just general conversation. They are random, they aren't to the point, they are verbose, and they say very little worth listening to.

Obviously these are my general experiences and I know females and males that defy these or are even opposite my view, but it puzzles me mainly because it's really difficult to talk to people who have no point, who have interest in generally superflurious things, and are almost so driven by bad thinking and media influence ( "Media" referring also to word-of-mouth A.K.A. girlfriends ) with bandwagon mentality that it's just... stupid.

It takes me twice as long to get something simple done with a woman than with a man. Now most say women are better communicators, but I think that's nuts, because when was the last time you really struggled with a guy to get something simple as hell across? No, I mean something that's actually valuable and tangible, like a process, not your emotional turmoil which is actually horribly complex.

Does anyone agree with me?