Polls: Break Up & Divorce

So me and my ex boyfriend broke up 4 months ago
We still stay in touch every week
And we also hang out every week
But I've been seeing this other guy (hes a mechanic/workshop manager) but my ex doesn't know
So today we went for dinner and went to watch a movie together
And then he drive me back home
This was our conversation in the car:
Me - random question, do you think mechanics earn decent money?
Ex boyfriend - that was random, are u seeing a mechanic guy?
Me - no im just asking
Ex boyfriend - nah there's a reason why u asking. Are u seeing a mechanic guy? Or ur planning to date a mechanic guy?
Me - nah just asking coz my brother is studying for it (*this is a lie*)
Ex boyfriend - nah i think you're lying, its obvious, you're seeing this mechanic guy, tell me, i dont care
Me - just dont worry about it
Ex boyfriend - nah tell me.
Me - im not seeing any guy
Ex boyfriend - so ur brother is studying for this? Im gonna ask him when I see him
Me - really?
Ex boyfriend - yep
Me - ok
And then we changed topic
Then 10 mins later:
Ex boyfriend - so you're going out with a mechanic guy huh, i still dont believe that you're talking about your brother, i think you're seeing a guy
Me - whatever u wanna think
Ex boyfriend - i would know if you're dating a guy, coz if i ask u to go somewhere and you say no, i would know that you're seeing someone
Whats his problem?
Does it seem like he cares or he doesn't actually care that im seeing a guy?

Do you and your ex still talk everyday?
Via sms, call, messenger, whatsapp, etc

Me and my recent ex boyfriend still keep in touch regularly
he's mainly the one initiating contact (texts and calls)
And initiates hanging out to the movies, etc every week
So we have been seeing each other every week still ever since our break up 2 months ago
If my ex boyfriend wants to hang out every week, does this mean he's not over me?

When you are going through a breakup and can't let go...

My ex boyfriend still messages me every week And calls me randomly sometimes He ask many questions like: how i am, what I've been upto, my work life, family life, my current dating life, etc Then he tells me what he's been upto and all that We never talk about sex or any sexual innuendos though Why would an ex call randomly? Boredom? To actually know what I've been upto? Or just to hear my voice /misses me?

Im in a new realationship, and my boyfriend has a very close female friend. She is great and i really like her. His parents was on a vacation durring one week. My boyfriend invited some friends over the first weekend, and that female friend sleept over at his place (not in his bed).

I thought it was okey since she was to drunk to drive home. But she ended up staying the WHOLE week. He told me that they are just friends, nothing happend and that she does that sometimes with other friends. For me this is unaccepteble and it dont matter that ”nothing happend”.

What should i do? Im seriously considering leaving him. What should i say? (Sorry, English is not my first language)

Do you stalk any of your exes on social media?

So first off me and my ex boyfriend have been together for more than 1 year He was the most affectionate and caring guy I've ever been with and was so loyal to me but i still didn't trust him 100% (due to my past relationships) So 2 weeks ago, we had an argument over the phone and its about my trust issues and I kept accusing him of cheating and wanting other girls and then he got fed up with me and broke it off over the phone Then he immediately blocked me on facebook and instagram and deleted all our pictures on his facebook and instagram We didn't have contact ever since I never reached out, he never reached out within these 2 weeks Until tonight He called me. This was our conversation: Me - hello? Him - hey... Me - *quiet* Him - u there? Me - yeah Him - are u home? If you're not, im sorry if im disturbing u Me - yeah im home. Whats up? Him - oh.. i just wanted to know if you're free sometime this week? I wanna talk to you Me - umm... Him - are u free anytime this week? Me - *quiet coz im confused* Him - hello? Me - yea im free this friday? Him - oh okay.. yeah can u do lunch on friday? Me - um okay Him - yeah coz i have day off work on Friday Me - yeah same Him - okay. What time u wanna meet? Me - around 2pm? Him - yeah okay. I will message u then yeah Me - okay Him - alright see u then. Bye Then we hung up What the f? What does he want? I do still care and love him but I don't know im in shock and confused! Why does he want to go for lunch? And want to talk to me? Coz he felt guilty for breaking up over the phone and wants to break up in person? Or coz he wants to go back together? What do u guys think?

Have you forgiven a cheater? Or would you?
Why or why not?

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up over a week ago
I have trust issues and get jealous easily so we had a fight coz i accused him of something and then he just broke it off and blocked me on everything straight away
We had been fighting a lot because of my trust issues
He has never cheated on me before and he is loyal guy but my trust issues got the best of me
This is both our longest relationships
We have been together for more than 1 year
He invested so much time, energy and money on me... but he can just cut me off like that?
Im the only girl out of his exes that met his parents and close co workers
And he's the only guy out of all my exes that met my parents
We planned to go trip together for next valentines day but since we broke up, its not happening 😔
But anyway, my friend has him on instagram and she told me that he has been posting pictures of himself every single day now and all his captions are all related to "pain" recently
E. g. "i have been in pain my whole life but now its gonna make me stronger" bla bla..
Does this mean he's in pain (maybe from breakup)? Or just looking for attention?
Coz when we were still together, when he post pictures of himself, he never mentions "pain" or captions like that and he doesn't post pictures everyday. Maybe every 2 or 3 days :/