You know, the spark you are talking about, that happens to a lot of couples, but they dont break up, and trust me, you dont love your boyfriend at all, if you do, you would never think of breaking up with him, The problem is, you have unrealistic expectations, you think that life should always be exciting and happy and all that rainbow farting crap, etc. But let me break it down for you, Life never stays the same, and never will be, Life and relationships are never like any movie ot any tv show.
To me, it clearly sounds like you are just bored of your partner, and you want someone new, either way, if you think you should break up with your partner because of the "SPARK" is gone, Then trust me, you'll never be happy with anyone, and you'll never have a stable relationship.
If you have done everything to try save it then yes but if you haven't and really love them then ask for ideas and talk about it
With that kind of mindset you'd have had 20 other boyfriends by the age you reach 40.
Date someone who turns you on and who shares the same values. Work on the relationship and feed it. The problem isn't the relationship. The problem is you and he.
Say the relationship is a flower. If you let it like that; you don't water it and give it sun light, it obviously will not grow and die. If you do however, it will grow and bloom.
Also, this is a negative thought and if you keep feeding it, it will be eventually reality and you'd find yourself destroying the relationship. You should always push away negative thoughts because trust me, they don't represent the reality but only the way you feel at that exact moment (perhaps you feel lonely?).
I don't know if you two have talked about it already, but if you haven't, you should. Getting stuck in a rut doesn't need to be a dealbreaker. Go on a vacation together, check something off the bucket list, do something fun! Maybe all you need to do is pretend you've just met and start the adventure over. If it just isn't feeling right, though, don't be afraid to end things.
Spark come and go. There are times when I can't stand my boyfriend, feeling irritated by everything and asking myself what is the point.
And there are times like tonight when I look him sleep and I feel like luckiest girl in world to have someone so great with me.
And those phases are alternating all time.
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A year is too little time to have lost the spark. However, no relationship will always feel like newly met, newly wed, etc. If the spark is still enough that you want him sexually and don't mind potentially spending life with him then don't break up.
However, if you are really bored and have no fun anymore and don't want sex then you should break up, it's just a year!
If you expect that lovey dovey feeling to last, you'll never have a long term relationship. It passing is a given, question is does it all kinda fizzle out with it, or does it evolve into something deeper.
Instead of breaking up, work on it. Actively. Get with your partner and plan how you will improve things and commit to this. Before you just throw in the towel.
No if we have been together for along time I can't just decide to move on because I lose the reason to stay together I'm gonna try my hardest to get back the spark of our relationship,,,,
I’d say leave. If there’s no spark and it’s been that way for 3/4 months, there probably won’t be one again
Yeah.. the longer you hold it out the more it will hurt the other person.. also your happiness is just as important as there's so don't let them hold you back
Two persons makes a relationship. If you are the only one trying to keep the relation afloat, it will sink anyhow.
If you tried to bring it back and it doesn't work, break up. But first try. t
Yes, I mean it should last more than a year. Time to cut your losses. You didn't find your soulmate this time.
Break up because the longer you wait , the harder it may become.
If you feel like that now, it will get worse.
Yea if u feel it’s not worth it
I would . don't like boring relationships
Keep trying at it
Yes, break up
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