Lately my ex-girlfriend has been acting strange, kinda on and off. She has been really busy with work and her personal life and have told me a few times that she's feeling kinda down and stressed and might be having a mental breakdown.. I ofcourse supported her! And after coming home after a trip from London and being so Happy to finally see her and give her a gift i picked out she just seemed like she didn't care! ofcourse she told me i was sweet and so on but i could see that she didn't mean it. That night we later went to the movies and everything were alright, later that night i stayed up crying in the bathroom because i thought i might have done something wrong or something. The next day we went out for a walk, i asked her a couple of questions why and didn't get a reasonable answer back and that made me kinda sad so when we got home i just stormed out without saying anything just to show that i was hurt.. she ran after me and asked "Where are you going" i didn't reply. She later wrote to me that she was sorry, she didn't understand what has gotten into her in the past time. So when i later returned we both started weeping and i asked her questions and she said i was the perfect boyfriend and loved me to death but she just didn't have the spark anymore. I said "do you love me" she said yes and i asked her "Do you want to break up" she took a long pause hugged me and said i think it's for the best.
I just can't believe that the love of my life just isn't with me anymore and it feels like someone cut me in half.. she said i shouldn't contact her and move on with my life.. but i just can't understand why she gave up so easily.
I felt the same last year because of anxiety of what to do in the future and work.. But i realised that it doesn't matter what i end up doing in life because as long as im with her my life's perfect, she really was my soulmate.
What should i do? i'm going to give her time but i almost can't help myself from writing to her.
I just can't believe that the love of my life just isn't with me anymore and it feels like someone cut me in half.. she said i shouldn't contact her and move on with my life.. but i just can't understand why she gave up so easily.
I felt the same last year because of anxiety of what to do in the future and work.. But i realised that it doesn't matter what i end up doing in life because as long as im with her my life's perfect, she really was my soulmate.
What should i do? i'm going to give her time but i almost can't help myself from writing to her.
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