I completely agree wow your friend and her family sounds so conceited but I blame soceity for the ideas of if you look like this girl or this guy you will have a better life. It's ashame
I don't really feel like this is an issue in our society today. In fact, usually the hot girls at my school get screwed over because they put themselves in those situations. They think since they're pretty, any guy would be loyal to them.
Yeah, that is true nice take😊 I have seen many girls, who thinks like they are special and guy means noting (because she is a gergous) and yes, everyone have to be treated nice😊
@Tormentarian - It can be taken in two sense. #1. A guy who find so many girls beautiful. #2. A guy who can be controlled by the beauty. I'm referring to #2 here.
Same happens with guys too. If a hot guy approaches a girl with confidence, it's a turn on. But if an average or ugly guy approaches a woman, he's a creep.
It's the same for men. Why do you think some guys literally have to swat away the adoring hordes, while others get bullied if they dare to even speak to a girl?
a girl like that would not get any attention from me ;D what a douche
I agree with you that beauty does not make you god or the leader of the human race... Great take :D
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Believe me girls could be just as shallow as guys probably worse, I remember oneday I was watching TV and my sister was deciding between 2 shows and one was "Friends" and the other was "Supernatural" and I tell my sister that she already finished Supernatural but she said she wanted to watch Supernatural more because the guys were better looking and the guy's on Friends were ugly. I have many other examples but this one comes to mind... yep looks matter especially when your young sadly
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usually when it comes to girls who are really hot not all but most of them think there above the rest so i usually have to put them in there place and remind THEM IM A GUY AND I CAN DO WHAT EVER I WANT YOU IF I CHOOSE TOO its funny how there face goes from ohh im better than him, too ohh shit this guy can fuck me up right now if he wants
Having a dong between your calves entitles you to nothing. This was a public service announcement. Basically, just because you are a guy doesn't mean you can do whatever you want.
Kind of. It has less to do with physical appearance, but yes, it is still there.
For girls it is almost entirely in looks. I hate seeing guys put up with the worst bullshit on the basis that she is hot, and he is constantly reminded "how lucky he is to be with her." It puts him in an apologetic stance, and puts her in a "I can do whatever the hell I want" stance.
Some guys say "if she's worth it, she won't be easy", but I say "if she's worth it, she'll meet you halfway." Guys and girls would have a lot to gain if guys become less desperate and girls step up to the plate.
It is not reversal that it happening, it is erasure. Gender rolls are becoming a thing of the past. We will stop attributing behaviors and tasks based on one's genitals. It is about time, too.
The reason people do this is because they don't realise if a guy can get one hot girl, he can probably get others. That girl saw something in him, so what's to stop other girls from seeing the same thing?
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"I don't see this so much for men, but feel free to comment with any examples. I'm sure it's not unprecedented." Yeah because a women's looks hold far more value than a mans' looks, in fact it is probably the main thing a women's value is based on, a good looking women is as "high value" as a women gets. This doesn't mean she can be a bitch though.
but now days in these "casual" relationships, it's all about falling into a relationship where one settles and hopes to come out on top in the relationship
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I completely agree wow your friend and her family sounds so conceited but I blame soceity for the ideas of if you look like this girl or this guy you will have a better life. It's ashame
noiiiice. yeah society does put beautiful people up on that pedestal. :P
Beauty can only be valued for so long.
But it's true, especially in third world countries that the beautiful people get better treatment, better job prospects, better suitor prospects.
It's a tale as old as time.
I don't really feel like this is an issue in our society today. In fact, usually the hot girls at my school get screwed over because they put themselves in those situations. They think since they're pretty, any guy would be loyal to them.
Yeah, that is true nice take😊
I have seen many girls, who thinks like they are special and guy means noting (because she is a gergous) and yes, everyone have to be treated nice😊
It's simple. No matter how beautiful a woman is, someone somewhere is sick of her shit.
I'm a guy. We have the numeric advantage. A bitch gets on my nerves, I trade up.
I agree wholeheartedly.
Qualities give you advantages. Beauty is one of them. But beauty can be valued by others not oneself so it would depend upon how weak the observer is.
Keyword = weak, good man!
@Tormentarian - It can be taken in two sense.
#1. A guy who find so many girls beautiful.
#2. A guy who can be controlled by the beauty.
I'm referring to #2 here.
Same happens with guys too. If a hot guy approaches a girl with confidence, it's a turn on. But if an average or ugly guy approaches a woman, he's a creep.
It's the same for men. Why do you think some guys literally have to swat away the adoring hordes, while others get bullied if they dare to even speak to a girl?
a girl like that would not get any attention from me ;D what a douche
I agree with you that beauty does not make you god or the leader of the human race... Great take :D
Believe me girls could be just as shallow as guys probably worse, I remember oneday I was watching TV and my sister was deciding between 2 shows and one was "Friends" and the other was "Supernatural" and I tell my sister that she already finished Supernatural but she said she wanted to watch Supernatural more because the guys were better looking and the guy's on Friends were ugly. I have many other examples but this one comes to mind... yep looks matter especially when your young sadly
usually when it comes to girls who are really hot not all but most of them think there above the rest so i usually have to put them in there place and remind THEM IM A GUY AND I CAN DO WHAT EVER I WANT YOU IF I CHOOSE TOO
its funny how there face goes from ohh im better than him, too ohh shit this guy can fuck me up right now if he wants
Having a dong between your calves entitles you to nothing. This was a public service announcement. Basically, just because you are a guy doesn't mean you can do whatever you want.
This is why so many pretty girls are victims of domestic violence.
I'm not saying they deserve it at all, but eventually if you act like a shitty person, someone's going to treat you like a shitty person back.
This isn't just a one way thing ya know, The exact same happens when the Gender roles are Reversed.
Hot guys are just as Privellaged as hot girls.
Kind of. It has less to do with physical appearance, but yes, it is still there.
For girls it is almost entirely in looks. I hate seeing guys put up with the worst bullshit on the basis that she is hot, and he is constantly reminded "how lucky he is to be with her." It puts him in an apologetic stance, and puts her in a "I can do whatever the hell I want" stance.
Some guys say "if she's worth it, she won't be easy", but I say "if she's worth it, she'll meet you halfway." Guys and girls would have a lot to gain if guys become less desperate and girls step up to the plate.
It is not reversal that it happening, it is erasure. Gender rolls are becoming a thing of the past. We will stop attributing behaviors and tasks based on one's genitals. It is about time, too.
i don't date white females.
They'd eat me alive and leave me broke and in a grave. I don't trust them.
Any person of any sex and race could be equally untrustworthy, you know. Gotta get to know them to know them.
Never trust them especially the Western one, you are better of with the Mediterranean women with culture
The reason people do this is because they don't realise if a guy can get one hot girl, he can probably get others. That girl saw something in him, so what's to stop other girls from seeing the same thing?
"I don't see this so much for men, but feel free to comment with any examples. I'm sure it's not unprecedented." Yeah because a women's looks hold far more value than a mans' looks, in fact it is probably the main thing a women's value is based on, a good looking women is as "high value" as a women gets. This doesn't mean she can be a bitch though.
Ahh I act like this all the time. I thought most girls did it. Is it really just a pretty girl thing? I'll go apologize to my exes asap lol!!
fitness, breeding stock, all that shit, and hormones
It's valued in a partner
But maybe sometimes irrationaly so, and I'm sure media/social culture plays a big role onn that
I agree. But selection of a partner is different from feeling like someone is more worthy of a healthy relationship once they are in one.
No, ur right
but now days in these "casual" relationships,
it's all about falling into a relationship where one settles and hopes to come out on top in the relationship
U bargin with what you got
doesn't matter how hot and perfect you look. You don't really have to be special and you could still get treated like shit