i really liked this, its refreshing to read something positive for single fathers its not easy, you ladies know first hand how some men can be, sure by this time in there lives they should be a lot better and i hope i can say confidently we are.
submitted before i was done sorry. i was hearing a bit about coming second in a few responses and i wanted to clear up that misconception, its not a numbers game in the beginning chances are your not even going to meet the children, sure he'll tell you that he is a single father but until its actually serious and your not crazy lol , then he'll introduce you to his children and by then he's mentioned you to them depending on age. but even then he is not putting any responsibility's on you , nor expecting you to be the mother , its rather observing yours and the children's interactions with each other and its not so much as a check list its him seeing where he needs to be the bridge between you and his children to bring together the very strong love and connections of both party's, but its not over night some times it takes a little more effort the others but at that time you already know if its worth it or not, and for me as a single father and you as a women if we have stepped
into that place together i dont question the value of you in my life and the lives of my children, as a women a partner in a relationship there's not a chance i would ever have you understand or feel like coming second in my life, a single father or mother at this stage knows the value of every moment every touch , every glance , every kiss, and will have made it clear that you are just as important to him or her as the lives of his children, your another incredible chapter he no longer has to write alone about but write together. i would hope that the transition and adjusting of introduction wouldn't be stressful but welcoming, if the children are behaving like what I've ready already that's poor parenting on his or her behalf, a father should always display the measure of respect and care he wants displayed by his children and should always correct it , if his children are disrespectful to show to his children the respect boundaries and show his children that you as his special some
one is very important in his life and his children should treat you as such:) , now saying all this i really do understand some women do not have interest in entering into a single fathers life and that is totally of and understandable. There is great moments and incredible memories to have building your own family. a single parent really didn't want to be a single parent its always a desire to be a wonderful strong healthy family, not a broken one. and no not every single parent are like whats describe above, but we do exist. i kinda just wanted to say that no women should ever feel like a second place, or less then in these scenarios, your a potential future so letting you know your have great value is not something we are going to take for granted or squander, like the post said originally, we are not here to waist your time. :)
I have a feeling that if I date a single dad, his kids won't like me.
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These are some really good points. I don't doubt that a lot of single dads have these. I did try to date a guy with kids, but it just didn't work out. I'm not saying no to the future if I'm single and dating, but right now is not a good time for me.
If they were that HAWT, finacially stable and were all that a woman would ever wish for, why was he single in the first place? Sumthing isn't right here '-'
@peachblossomluck more like men are 10x more to be a drug psycho >.> Its as usual, guys with the look abused their power to get laid and all that. They ain't limiting themself to only one chix. Simple 👌🏼 If ur not smart enough to know that for ages, men been wanting all cuties doe themself. If u didn't understand this simple logic, than goos luck with the single dads lel
Sum rich bastards are filled with greeds anywayz so there are high chance that they are consume by greed. They also have the reputation to look down on people lower than them and kinda full of themself. I heard that gurls l heard that gurls dont like jerks and these kinda right? '-'
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i really liked this, its refreshing to read something positive for single fathers its not easy, you ladies know first hand how some men can be, sure by this time in there lives they should be a lot better and i hope i can say confidently we are.
submitted before i was done sorry.
i was hearing a bit about coming second in a few responses and i wanted to clear up that misconception, its not a numbers game in the beginning chances are your not even going to meet the children, sure he'll tell you that he is a single father but until its actually serious and your not crazy lol , then he'll introduce you to his children and by then he's mentioned you to them depending on age. but even then he is not putting any responsibility's on you , nor expecting you to be the mother , its rather observing yours and the children's interactions with each other and its not so much as a check list its him seeing where he needs to be the bridge between you and his children to bring together the very strong love and connections of both party's, but its not over night some times it takes a little more effort the others but at that time you already know if its worth it or not, and for me as a single father and you as a women if we have stepped
into that place together i dont question the value of you in my life and the lives of my children, as a women a partner in a relationship there's not a chance i would ever have you understand or feel like coming second in my life, a single father or mother at this stage knows the value of every moment every touch , every glance , every kiss, and will have made it clear that you are just as important to him or her as the lives of his children, your another incredible chapter he no longer has to write alone about but write together.
i would hope that the transition and adjusting of introduction wouldn't be stressful but welcoming, if the children are behaving like what I've ready already that's poor parenting on his or her behalf, a father should always display the measure of respect and care he wants displayed by his children and should always correct it , if his children are disrespectful to show to his children the respect boundaries and show his children that you as his special some
one is very important in his life and his children should treat you as such:) , now saying all this i really do understand some women do not have interest in entering into a single fathers life and that is totally of and understandable. There is great moments and incredible memories to have building your own family.
a single parent really didn't want to be a single parent its always a desire to be a wonderful strong healthy family, not a broken one.
and no not every single parent are like whats describe above, but we do exist. i kinda just wanted to say that no women should ever feel like a second place, or less then in these scenarios, your a potential future so letting you know your have great value is not something we are going to take for granted or squander, like the post said originally, we are not here to waist your time. :)
peace out lol
Very sweet take, and good timing with Father's Day right around the corner!
All great points!
BUT - looking for a hookup - I don't think we can exclude that for many people...
single dads are just hot, no idea why. Maybe these reasons ^
They have Dad bods?
I have a feeling that if I date a single dad, his kids won't like me.
These are some really good points. I don't doubt that a lot of single dads have these. I did try to date a guy with kids, but it just didn't work out. I'm not saying no to the future if I'm single and dating, but right now is not a good time for me.
How about no?
I rather not have kids in my life that are not mine
Would you be okay with a guy rejecting you for the same reason? Provided you'd be a single mom.
I never want my own kids
So I can't say anything
@Remonster
@thesunstillshines Right that makes sense.
If they were that HAWT, finacially stable and were all that a woman would ever wish for, why was he single in the first place? Sumthing isn't right here '-'
His wife could be a druggie psycho and so he keeps her away from both of them. Single people aren't failures.
@peachblossomluck more like men are 10x more to be a drug psycho >.>
Its as usual, guys with the look abused their power to get laid and all that. They ain't limiting themself to only one chix. Simple 👌🏼
If ur not smart enough to know that for ages, men been wanting all cuties doe themself. If u didn't understand this simple logic, than goos luck with the single dads lel
Sum rich bastards are filled with greeds anywayz so there are high chance that they are consume by greed. They also have the reputation to look down on people lower than them and kinda full of themself. I heard that gurls l heard that gurls dont like jerks and these kinda right? '-'
I prefer a single dad all the way. He needs to be active in his child's life though.
Nice take, by the way :)
You've got good tolerance. Good luck.
Top reason to not date a single dad: he has a kid.
I would only hope that the kids didn't dislike me.
Yeah, but I don't like kids….
nice take reminded me of my brother
Such beautiful take!