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Going on a Big Date: Why It's Okay to Date Bigger Women (Page 4)
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I've always liked girls that have some cuddly curves!
The sex point is a very strong point!
Nice take, but I did not like the 'we embrace life' point, because it implies without exception that women who are smaller than big are not enjoying food or cooking.
Just wanted to say you picked some awesome examples, some of those women are so beautiful lol
I like fat girls not too fat I've been like this forever since middle school I've had crushes on bigger women usually they were cute but I like all types of women and I haven't dated a overweight women before and I don't really approach them because of social judgment. If any overweight girl finds me attractive hit my line. I'm 6'4 cross fit trainer
Ok, so you now have to go on a date with me even though I have no self-confidence, no charisma, no job, and have never been on a date before.
Have you ever thought that just MAYBE there's a BIOLOGICAL reason that I don't want to date an obese person? Or the fact that MAYBE it's not attractive to see 50 pounds of cellulite hanging off our stomach?
*your, not our.
You have no self confidence? Why does everyone thinks bigger people have no confidence or charima. For god sake we are fucking people too jeez, not some damn aliens lol
"Why does everyone thinks bigger people have no confidence or charima."
I didn't say that, I said I didn't have any.
I'm actually pretty fit because, unlike "big" people, I have some self-control.
U have self control with your diet,
But not ur mouth #rude
#ThisAin'tTwitter
@PhiOmega
Another fat chick on the internet telling guys they should date fat chicks. Nothing new under the sun.
This myTake wasn't easy for me to write, you know. But part of what I *didn't* write in it was telling a guy he *should*. If you read it at all you would have seen I made it clear at the beginning that if you don't find them attractive, then don't. The title also says it all, "why it's okay" to date bigger girls. Meaning just that.
Overall this is a good take even though I disagree with some of the points made. Appearance wise, I am very tall and thin like a bean pole, at 170 lbs.
Yes, yes, yes but someone like Iskra Lawrence is a good one. But why won't most of them stop eating and go take a bike instead of a bus.
If it's about men: He has to be 6ft, he has to be trained and all.
You can be big but also have female shapes. Don't look like a molten muffin. You don't win in that way to me. It's like the people who doing this only want food and dick but you should work for it. How harsh it is but it is.
Actually the deal breaker is that you only have a 0.005% chance of finding a fat girl with a cute face.
Give me those ladies over a scrawny skinny bony woman any day !!
... but on the flip side , I'm done with dating & relationships , about to separate & just want to spend the rest of my days in peace & focus on my lovely little people in my piccy & develop & improve myself.
I don't care about social norms or anybody else's opinion. I'm attracted to who I'm attracted to, and fat women don't interest me. I don't understand this push for men to overlook the fact that a woman won't put effort into being fit. I don't see huge crowds of women chasing after fat guys, so that tells me women want to be fat and still date fit men. It doesn't work like that except for a few rare exceptions.
I really like the message behind this take Anon! It's so positive and uplifting! I really want to go do some extra yoga and enjoy extra carbs today XD
Our bodies are there to be lived in not suffered through right? Great job Anon :)
It's not that we don't think it's okay, we just really don't want to in most cases.
I don't find any of those women alluring in any way.
I have been into chubby girls more in my lifetime than slender girls. Not sure why. :)
Us guys don't just like what's "accepted as attractive" because we've grown up with pop culture.
We like what actually is attractive. Unfortunately fat girls don't really fit into that category.
Obesity is a natural sign of something wrong.
Stop it already. Just accept that fat people are not attractive. The end.
She didn't say fat, she said bigger (basically chubby or curvy).
@MaiNameIsSunshine stop misusing the word curvy. Bigger, chubby or whatever you call it is fat.
I'd hate for you to end up fat.
@Pink2000 hah, me and ending up fat. I doubt this will happen during the time of my life when being attractive matters.
"bigger" is just a blanket term people use to be sensitive nowadays, or a term overweight people use to lighten the insecurity they have with themselves.
You never know man.
Curvy people are 99% of the time, on the bigger side. I'm not misusing it.
Umm... how about you accept the fact that you're an asshole... yeah please accept that... lol
@MaiNameIsSunshine not really, the girls with real curves are not chubby. People just fucked up the word.
@SweetAndSassy14 oh dear, why so angry?
I am not really an asshole, I am just doing my best to look like one and it seems I succeeded.
@someguy97
So you're an asshole lol..
Since you're acting like one..
You must be one...
Lol. As you should accept that stupidity seems to be a characteristic that you embody.
Are fat people really good cooks? I thought one of the underlying reasons for their fatness is the fact that they cannot/do not know how to cook good food. If you know how to cook you would not eat the bad food that makes you fat in the first place.
Look at Paula dean...
She's saying good as in taste
Maybe you're thinking good as in really healthy food
Homecooked food tends to be healthy though. People who cannot cook often end up living on a diet of microwave wood and takeaways which are bad, unhealthy foods. They are normally the fatties.
Lol, i kno what ur getting at but the idea that if u cook at home n make it from scratch, thats not gonna be healthy
U can go n make traditional lasagna any way u want but that cheese n carb overload isn't healthy just cuz u made it
Pasta dishes will always be high in carb density regardless of whether it's home cooked or not
U have to put effort into eating right, eating Home Cooked meals is not eating clean
That's fine with me but anyone who thinks homemade macaroni n french fries n biscusts n gravy and cornbread is healthy just cuz it was made in ur kitchen is wrong
@PhiOmega Good point. Homecooked is only as healthy as the ingredients you use.
@remonster that's true, i got a good arm workout in yesterday making my own mayo
Using olive oil, coconut oil, a little mustard, lemon juice and salt
It took a lot of constant whisking
@PhiOmega Sounds good. I admit that I'm not a very good cook. I find it hard to FEEL the importance of fresh cooking. I have a tendency to focus on the work involved and the ways I could botch it, rather than its benefits. Sometimes I rather buy a microwave meal or order take-out because it tastes consistent. Yeah, I may have a few autistic tendencies. It's been a problem all my life, in many more areas than this particular example.
@remonster
That's ok,
we all have our own way, but you get used to cooking, and it ends up tasting better n better with time
But an average homecooked lasagne will definitely be healthier than a microwave lasagne.
I love how big women love trying to get attention from fit guys by saying how much they have to offer and how men shouldn't be so shallow yet wouldn't even give big men a chance.
Most of the guys I've dated are bigger. I think even if I were teeny tiny, i would still go after the bigger guy.
Actually I'm a so called"thick/curvy"girl and I don't beg for attention... guys just automatically ask me out (including fit guys) ... I tend to ignore them unless they are the nerdy, goofy guys.. who are also a bit chubby but hey if you think that way that's your business..
What is the point of this? Lots of guys love chubby or fat girls. Just date them. Problem solved 🤷♀️
i don´t think anybody ever not dated a big woman, because it was "not ok" . i mean it´s also ok do date men but i still don´t want to.