Interracial Relationships

[Anonymous]

I don't understand why people love it when an interracial relationship consists of a white female/POC Male but as soon as its POC/White Male there's always someone saying something negative. As a WOC who is attractive to guys of differences races I get told that I'm racist for my taste in men all of the time. Since race is a major thing with all of the the hate crimes going on, thats always being thrown out there. I always get asked the question "Why do you like them, you know they got small dicks but that BBC though" and shit like that. I've had several black guy friends who will straight up say "I hate black girls" or "I can't date a chick that's dark skinned" (YOU are dark skinned wtf) and even though I'm a light caramel color that pissed me off because I get called racist for saying I prefer dating other races mostly white guys but they can say that they hate black girls and everyone applaud them... I don't get it. Now on to when there is an actual relationship, everyone and their momma's support a black man and a white woman in a realtionship but when its the other way around there's someone rolling their eyes or asking why they are with with that person.

What I'm trying to say is a black woman does not have to fall in love with black men just because she's black. She can like other races without people without people trying to convince her otherwise.

[Anonymous]

Most people seemed to be in general are accepting of interracial dating. Most also seem accepting of racial preference. Meaning as a "WOC" if you only want white men then to most people it's fine. They don't consider that racist. My viewpoint is that there shouldn't favorites. There shouldn't be preferences when it comes to race. As a POC I feel like if you put one race over another you are being racist. I have no problem with interracial dating but it's a often occurrence that POC if they do interracial dating they prefer whites over any other race. That's racist to me. Doesn't mean you can't do what you want. By all means. It's just my view.

The dark skinned light skinned thing is ridiculous. It's a sign of self race hatred to me. I am light skinned, but I'm attracted to dark skinned girls and light skinned ones. To me I think their belief. Again not mine but their belief is probably this:

1. White
2. Light skinned black girls
3. Dark skinned black girls

Reasons for that? There are many I'm sure. One being media. Another may just be things like contrast.

Also, everyone does NOT support a black man dating a white woman. In fact it's only been 40 or 50 years since black men would get beat to death or hung for even talking to a white woman. I live in the south. People are more accepting of it now. I really don't see how that's a bad thing. I've been with white girls in the past and I thank God that I haven't been beaten or killed for it. Not everybody supports it though. Not only that but there are still a lot of white women who don't want anything to do with a black guy.

So I'm saying in my view people can do what they want, but I feel that people should like the human race and not black, white, w/e. Too many black women only want white men. Too many black men only want white women. What's wrong with your own race and all the other races besides white?

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

I have a question about you living inthe south. If you had to guess, what percentage of white girls would not be open to black guys. What percentage of white guys would not be open to dating black women. Just out of curiosity.

[Opinion Owner]

@LiveFreeorDieHard I'd say (again just a guess) about 52 percent of white girls are not open to black guys. Maybe just maybe some would give a black guy a chance but it would be like a "leap of faith" for them. So 48 percent would be open. I'd say (again just a guess) about 55 percent of white guys are not open to black girls. The reason why I say that is because it's just so uncommon to see it. I hardly ever see a white man with a black woman. Though maybe it's not a matter of openness but just a matter of not really being around black women much or maybe assuming that black women don't want them. Or maybe white girls jump on them before they really dive into trying black women.

[PippiL]

My brother married a black girl. At first our relatives gave him crap about it but she's such a sweetheart that even my grandparents love her now. My grandma says she's her favorite grandchild and she isn't really even her grandchild, haha. But yeah, they've been together for seven years and they're pretty much the perfect couple so nobody gives them crap anymore. I think you're going to have to spend some time debunking racial stereotypes in your relationships, but it'll be worth it if you're happy in the end.

[Anonymous]

You're all wrong and exaggerating. I mean, I'm sure you're NOT exaggerating about the negative looks and the brainwashed attitudes. Of that i have no doubt. But "everyone loves poc make with white female interracial relationships"? Uh - no. Not everyone. Not even close. I would say it's more like more people accept it cuz it's old hat. And WOC with White male, I'm not going to say you're exaggerating on the hate you get from blacks either. You're probably right on point there too.

Any black male that says either (take your pic cuz both are caused by the same thing) a: "i don't find black women (as a whole group) attractive. OR

B: "I only find white (as whole group) attractive"

Is suffering from an intentional, forced condition of brainwashing imagery manipulation and "the grass is greener" syndrome. They are asleep and blinded by ignorant stupidity. Evade, avoid, ignore and stay away from them at all cost. They know not what they do.

We all know that there's physical attractiveness in all races, color, ethnics and cultures. Plus the personal preference factors. Done get me wrong, there's nothing wrong or racist about a WOC having a preference for white male looks, or vice versa. Or anyone having any preference. In my book. But, when it come to white women there is the issue of mainstream media brainwashing and imagery manipulation. Any male type has to ask himself, including white men (but they can get away with defaulting.) "do I really prefer white women, really and truly in my heart over everything else? Or have I been programmed to think so my entire life, subliminally, by mainstream media and it's imagery manipulation?"

It's worse with many black guys though because they take it hook line and sinker including the other side which the same system programs them to hate black women and see them as ugly. It's not totally their fault. But the weaker the man the harder it will be for him to wake up and see that he's been had.

What I'm saying is that people with these attitudes and views yoke mention are stuck, stupid, and will be left behind.

Avoid, ignore, evade and keep clear. You go one your way and let ignorant, blind, unconscious stupidity go it's way. Let it talk and say what it wants. You just keep steppin on your way and don't let the media fool you. Stick with real people in the real world.

[jormungand]

Sorry i downvoted you lol, can't correct it somehow. I agree with you though

[Anonymous]

Don't get me started. "Why can't you date a nice black man?" "That white boy looks racists!" "You can have any black man you want and you go for a cracker?"

I know it's beyond annoying, though I have heard plenty of nasty remarks when there's a black man with a White/Asian/Latina woman (mostly from the older generation) but I've noticed that a black woman with anyone other than a black man is made into a bigger deal. I'm lighter skinned too, but it doesn't make much of a difference. I just think a black man and white woman coupling is more accepted/"less shocking" than the other way around.

Those other people are superficial. There are plenty of things I will never understand like why some black men say they can't date a woman darker than them or flat out say they would never date a woman of their own race with a disgusted look on their face, or why white or even mixed/light skinned women are idealized and almost worshipped, while a black woman often gets the put down for being "too dark." Not generalizing here, but it's not a rare occurrence either. Unfortunately, this sort of closed minndedness is not limited to the black community. I really don't get it, but it's not my life and not my choice to make. Attraction is important, but I do consider it a bit limiting to say you would never date someone just based on the color of their skin.

Love is love and there's nothing else to it. Love isn't a gender or an age or a color. I've met plenty of good black men that I've been physically attracted to, but looks fade in time. What you've got left is the real person, if you have nothing in common, struggle to hold a conversation and are overall incompatible then what's the point? You don't have a relationship or get married to someone's skin, you commit yourself to the person. I really wish people could understand that. I just happened to fall head over heels in love with an amazing man that happens to be white. Don't let that ignorant crap get to you, you be with whoever you want to be with. It's been 7 years for me and I'm still in love with the same pastey white man, and other people opinion still don't matter.

[koko124]

"I don't understand why people love it when an interracial relationship consists of a white female/POC Male but as soon as its POC/White Male there's always someone saying something negative."

Not even remotely true. There was a Sears Christmas ad a while back that featured a black man and a white woman kissing. It was discontinued because a lot of men complained.

White man/non-white woman is much more commonly represented on television than the other way around.

"I've had several black guy friends who will straight up say "I can't date a chick that's dark skinned" (YOU are dark skinned wtf)"

So it's okay for yourself, a dark skinned girl, to date white guys. However it's somehow not okay for a dark skinned guy to date white girls?

You're just another one of those non-white women trying to rationalize her intense preference for white men by trying to play the victim, so that you don't feel guilty. It's rather common among non-white women who exclusively date white men. Here's another example: www.xojane.com/.../asian-woman-dating-asian-men-jenny-an

First of all: Maybe see a psychiatrist. I'm seeing this post recurring virtually every day, and I have a feeling that it's the same person posting.

Second of all: Date whomever the fuck you want.

HOWEVER:

STOP playing victim.
STOP throwing non-white men under the bus. You like white guys because that's your preference, not because of some other poorly rationalized reason which places the blame on non-white men.
STOP complaining that white guys don't want to date you. You have your preferences, someone else can have theirs, and that can include not being attracted to black girls.

I hope you find peace.

[myTake Owner]

you are not getting the whole point on what I'm saying, I'm stating that in most black families at least from my experience people don't really try to convince the poc guy to get another girl but when a poc girl has a white guy there's several reasons for her to get rid of him. And I'm not dark skinned as I stated in the earlier post, but I clearly said I'm being called racist by other black men and women when the same men said they would NEVER date a dark skinned girl as if there's something wrong with them. And have you ever thought that there's more out there besides me dealing with this? Why would I post the same fucking thing everyday? I'm not THAT pressed about this situation bc Its nothing new I've dealt with this since I was little

[myTake Owner]

and not once did I ever throw black men under the bus. I have a question are you black? do you hear and see the shit black men say about black women? If not you don't get where I'm coming from. And there's a difference between a preference and just plain ignorance that some people have expressed towards their own race. In my case I've never slandered a black man for being black, the way you're saying it is that I'm basically being hypocrital towards the black men who ignorantly talk down on dark skin just because of the amount of melanin they have

[myTake Owner]

hypocritical***

[koko124]

And if you knew anything about the world, you'd know that the exact same dynamic holds for any family, of any race.

White parents are more concerned about their daughters interracially marrying out than their sons.

[myTake Owner]

I can't speak for white families but as for black families I can speak on it so yeah I do know

[Marnia999]

If anyone needs to chill out it is you - not the take owner.

[Chiino]

Take owners whole point flew over your head in an amazing speed OP

[Anonymous]

As a black woman who isn't into black men, I'll give my perspective.

I can see your point, though I don't necessarily agree that "everyone loves it" when black men love non-black women. I'd say quite a few people don't, actually...

However, I do think society is much more used to seeing black men with non-black women. Black men date "out" much more often, and its super common to see them in IR relationships. The number of BW dating other races has been increasing in recent years (go team rainbow!), but in some place its still pretty rare. Visibility is everything. It makes people more open to doing something if they see that others are doing it - acceptability. I also think the "black community" (in America) struggles with sexism like many other groups. Black masculinity and black male sexuality has been upheld as superior to black female sexuality. There is very much this social idea that black women are made for black men - there is no other fit. As a result, the response to seeing each dating out is sometimes different. Double standards.

in my opinion, there's nothing wrong with preferring different skin tons or liking skin contrast. Skin color is a significant feature in attraction. However, it is true that skin color hasn't really functioned as "just skin color" in a political/historical sense, and there is a double standard of beauty in the black community (and others), heavily affected by racist definitions of beauty and femininity/masculinity.

The interesting thing is a lot of IR white men love dark skinned black women. (A fact that annoys me sometimes, as a "light-skinned" woman, I admit. lol) And the most beautiful thing is when black women and girls love themselves regardless of all the extra bullshit. Your opinion of you matters more than all of it.

[Opinion Owner]

Environment matters as well. Where do you live, who do you surround yourself with, in what circle? Class background can weigh in as well. You're young, so you don't really have too much choice. But once you're an adult, its a very big world. Plenty of groups and communities are fine with BW dating other races. Most of my black female friends have dated non-black guys. I lived in Europe for a couple years and BW in IR relationships was very very common in a lot of cities. If your family is the problem, that can be difficult. But you can't change them. You have to learn to minimize their affect on you, if you feel it weighs heavily on your mind. To each their own. They’re entitled to their ignorance. And you can date whatever race of guys you want to. It’s that simple.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't have as many of these negative experiences, but when someone has responded this way, I might allow myself to get annoyed. But my response is critical thought and discussion. I might say, "Don't you think it's a bit degrading to minimize the worth of black men to their dicks, and encourage me to date them for that reason?" Or simple, "But why is it different for you to exclude women who have a certain skin type, but not okay for me to exclude guys I may not find attractive?" I try to engage in conversation. Be calm about it. Balance depth of discussion with a light-hearted vibe. If they don't want to talk, not a big deal. If they do, you may leave them with something they hadn't considered. That is the only way to chip away at the prejudice. Being angry alone won't do much. Explain why you love your guy so much. Exude happiness and confidence in your decisions. Speak with passion and optimism. Try not to stress other peoples opinions on this, on a personal level.

[Opinion Owner]

And mostly, know yourself. I have spent a lot of years analyzing my attraction, and myself in a lot of other ways. Be comfortable and confident in who you are, accept that you can't forcibly change others opinions. Accept that they are entitled to their ignorance. Focus on your own happiness, instead of seeking approval of your relationship where you know you may not find it.

However, don't stop analyzing the world and seeing things. I just try to have space between intelligent observation and thought about social relationships, and all the -isms, and my personal life. It's important for me to know opinions and talk about the political and social side of racism and how that affects all of this. It's not important for me to personally stress over the fact that your opinion is that I shouldn't date white guys - that doesn't matter.

[SayYes2Courtney]

I guess I'm riding the proverbial elephant in this room because I'm white and prefer dating men of color. That doesn't mean I don't find white guys attractive, I do, I just prefer a relationship with black men because that is what I'm used to, it's the culture of men I mostly identify with, and frankly black men make me feel like a princess. My parents divorced when I was 5 and my mom re-married a black man with children so I grew up with a black step dad and 3 black older brothers. We moved to a mostly black neighborhood and I assimilated with black culture early on. I never considered dating a white guy until I was in college. I like white guys ok, I think they're cute, I just never went out with a white guy who gave me that chill like black guys give me. It feels awkward to me. Occasionally I will still go out with white guys if I meet one that's hot but it never really works out for me. I think interracial relationships are the best of all worlds myself. I see myself marrying a black man when I'm ready to settle down.

[Anonymous]

What the fuck? I have never heard no one applaud black men for hating black women. What I don't get is that when white people have a preference, its usually for their own, but blacks usually hate themselves and other blacks have preferences for just whites only and that's weird and creepy. Its like they think that just dating a white person will make their lives so much better guaranteed. I'm open to date interracial , but I'm not going to chase other races down and worship them. If I meet a woman and she just happens to be a different race, so be it. All so what I don't understand is how the media and entertainment over encourage WOC to only date white guys. Why not Hispanic guys? Why not Asian guys? The media NEVER encouraged MOC to only date white women... Even before white women started dating outside their race, they were never encouraged by the media and society to do so like WOC are today. Like in Hollywood, A-list WOC actresses enhance their career by dating and doing interracial romance movies/ tv shows with white men, while a A- list white actress can ruin their career by doing interracial romance movies /tv shows with MOC.

[RationalLioness]

... Do you know how much fucktardery you just spewed? And you're HOW old?

[Opinion Owner]

That's just your lame opinion. I speak the truth, Guess that's why I have a lot of up votes.

[RationalLioness]

I can see where you're coming from in a way. I know that there are tons of men from all races who have bashed WM/BW relationships and many black men feel that BW shouldn't 'step out'... even though they do it themselves. Or it's some type of stereotype being said as you've described.

I think it has to do with exposure. There are many white woman and minority male relationships in the media and entertainment, but not so much of the reverse. With more exposure, I think it will be more accepted... except by retarded racists. :)

[koko124]

"There are many white woman and minority male relationships in the media and entertainment, but not so much of the reverse."

This isn't even remotely true. Might have been true for Black women back in the 90s, but definitely not minorities in general, and definitely not any racial group now.

[RationalLioness]

You must be blind. I see plenty of white woman/minority male relationships EVERYWHERE including on television and in the entertainment industry. Just because YOU don't see it doesn't make it true.

[StreetLevel]

Well most times there's an interracial relationship in the media it's a white man.

[Ozanne]

It's ridiculous to call you a racist over your preference. It's not like your treating black men poorly or refusing them work opportunities, refusing them service where you work, or even refusing to talk to them -- all because they are simply black. That sort of thing IS racist. What you're describing is more race fetishism.

I'm in an interracial marriage and I took flak from my husband's family and people who are now former friends of his of his race who had an issue with me being white. Not even giving me a chance to know me, just an outright refusal to accept me and even as far as to make comments about "those people" when referring to whites. When I met him, I loved his look. I made no apology for it. I wasn't racist against whites, as being racist isn't what I'm about. People need to learn what the definition of racism is before being getting their torque loose over what they think is expected of you for something as stupid as a physical preference for someone.

[bubble_tea]

I'm sorry to hear his family is not accepting at all.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like a rant to me. I'm black and in lighter than you (I'm a very light beige) and it depends on how you are saying that make others think you are racist. If you are telling non white men that you only date white guys after they ask you out they are going to call you racist because they think you don't want to date him because he's not white

Now if you are telling people who say they only date (insert a race) that you date different races and it doesn't matter as long as you find them attractive and they have a good heart that's different

Now if you are randomly telling people you only date white men it comes off as desperate and it's not just women of color who do this some Asians will brag about being with a white guy and some white women's will brag about having a black or mulatto boyfriend and you are right when a white women's has a baby or is dating a black guy or a non white men (Asian, Latino, etc) they do seem to get more support than a black women who dates a white, Asian, or Latino guy

[Opinion Owner]

*im lighter than you

[Opinion Owner]

*some white women will brag

[Chiino]

I get so much shit from black men for dating men who are NOT black.. i get called "Racist" "Coon" "Slave" White lover" "Traitor" So much more. I dont see the big issue, plenty of black men date outside their race and a lot of times [not all the time] people don't bat an eye, Right when a black woman does it, negativity spews out of every direction. I got told i date white men for financial reasons, i'm a nurse i can take care of myself. Besides i also like hispanic/lation - Asian & etc.
People need to mind their own business, who i date shouldn't effect their life in any way.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Because I've been seeing variants of this question/take/rant. I'll join the discussion and say this: Fuck what everyone else says date a white guy if that's who you want to date. If you encounter one that you aren't his preference then go find one that doesn't care what your complexion is. It may take a while but there's plenty out there. Just dont leak desperation or holding back that you're scared of what people might think.

As for the coupling that's always going to get bashed bc people are still very ignorant. As for those black men Im like the ignorance is strong with you bc what is your mother or one of your grandmothers, your ancestors?

[lePoivre]

Actually, from my experience being a white girl dating a black boy, you wouldn't believe how many dirty looks we got from other black people. Other white people didn't seem to care so much, but the guys would always act like I was only in it for his "big dick" (how a 15-year-old boy can have a big dick regardless of race is beyond me...). As for my relationship now, where my boyfriend is Latino, the only people that seem to care are my grandparents (products of their time and all). We do get some amused looks when we go to Chipotle though and he always gets white rice and I always get brown lol.

[Queen_naki5]

Whenever one makes a Take regarding race and dating, black women are usually the main target and it sickens me. Sickens me because I can't read a single comment that doesn't consist of some ruthless guy going anonymous just to say how they aren't attracted to black women because of A, B or C. I just laugh. I certainly have no issues getting a date, but I wouldn't feel comfortable dating certain guys regardless of race, but will their family accept me? And will mine accept theirs?

[HookingSwan]

Yeah. Family is usually the main problem.

[33adam]

So you are trying to say, that you wouldn't date a guy (white European like me) only because of family issues? Be a romantic girl Julia. Romeo and Julia was from two killing each other families but young couple feelings was hundreds time stronger than other issues.

[Queen_naki5]

@33adam I never said that. My family didn't like a few guys that I was talking to who were the same race as me. So it's not about that, it's about whether or not they'll give me a hard time or not. I've dated a white guy my freshman year of college and my mom loved that he was a biology student and his mother loved that I was trying to become a teacher as she was a teacher herself. My family isn't unreasonable so for that reason their opinion does hold strong.

[33adam]

Thanks for your answer love, your parents must be lovely people. Don't mind opinions from mates fro your neighbourhood, they are just being jelous so thats whay shouting some bad names in your direction.

[QuestionMan]

Great take :)
For some reason people sometimes give me weird looks when I say I'm into Asian and Latino girls. Just because I'm White doesn't mean I have to go only for White girls. I like them too, but Asian girls seem to have better personalities.

As for Black girls, I just don't find them attractive. There are the rare few that I could say are good looking, but I couldn't imagine myself sleeping with them since I have never gotten an erection from a Black girl. It has nothing to do with racism, just sexual preference.

[Derpyy]

I agree with you. Some people just have different preferences. I tend to avoid dating blacks. Partly because I am tired of being proven wrong about blacks fitting so many of their stereotypes, and partly because I am just, for the most part, not physically attracted/attractive to them.

Why should I or anyone else be blamed and called racist for having a preference? Should I be insulted for disliking the color pink as well? Love who you love, and if it happens to not be a race or skin tone then so be it. Someone will come along and love them in return eventually.

[QuestionMan]

@Derpyy Thanks
I'm assuming the down votes are from Black girls lol. If I can't get an erection from a Black girl it means I'm not attracted to them, I'm not going to take Viagra just because some Black girl wants me.

[Derpyy]

No no no, it obviously means you're racist! (Warning: Previous statement is heavily laced in sarcasm!)

[Afrochick]

lol at the erection thing you are gross

[QuestionMan]

@Afrochick so erections are gross?

[StreetLevel]

Something I read the other day, with an adjustment:

"Look, I'm in no way attacking you or telling you to change your preference, but people need to stop the "you can't change preference" talk. I was only interested in Asians girls at first, then I starting dating white and black girls, same for other people I know too, preferences don't change for close minded people is what they need to say instead. Also equating race to homosexuality (or the color in a fucking crayon box) is a false equivalency, that's another poor argument that needs to go."

[QuestionMan]

@StreetLevel So you want me to fuck a Black chic so that I don't look racist is that it?
No. Sexual preference rarely changes. I've been around enough Black women to know that they're not my type.

[StreetLevel]

Maybe you should read it again.

[QuestionMan]

@StreetLevel To me dating an unattractive girl is equivalent to dating a guy. It would be extremely unpleasant.

[StreetLevel]

Well you obviously can't read, just forget it.

[QuestionMan]

@StreetLevel I read what you wrote.
I just find all Black girls skin tone unpleasant, unless it's really light.
Nothing I can do about it.

[QuestionMan]

@StreetLevel Its not about being open or close minded. You make it seem like I should just go out there and find a Black girl I like. The problem is, there aren't any. Even those with great personalities. It's like saying I should date a fat short girl. They turn me off, it's innate.

[noneoftheabove]

latino girls everytime

[aniemist]

I think think what matters most is that you love each other and are attracted to each other, skin color, sexual orientation none of that matters. I agree with your take, its not like that everywhere but in far to many places.

I hope you find someone you love and are attracted to and can be accepted.

[Gojira]

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[CHARismatic110]

It's sad to say, but a lot of people still have that stick to your own kind mentality. I personally don't really care. If you love them then that's what matters. I've gotten called names and accused of hating my own race because I like white guys too. But liking white guys doesn't mean that I don't like black guys. Both of my ex's are black. And outside of them, not too many black guys show interest in me. White guys do. And I never talk bad about black guys, but I've heard some of the negative things about us. It's sickening. And then the same black men that bash us are the same ones butt hurt when they see us with a non black man. Makes no sense.

[Marnia999]

I get where you are coming from. I am not black or east Asian. I am pakistani. Whilst i like some pakistani men, I also like north African men from places like tunisia morocco etc and also white men. In fact the only men I don't find attractive are black men (except a young denzel washington). No one would care if i was walking with a pakistani or north African man but if i was walking with a black or white man I would definitely get dirty looks. In the same way i think white women who go out with men of other races would get dirty looks from some white men - basically it is all about some (not all) men feeling rejected and threatened by what they class as their own women.

You go out with as many white men as you want.

To the people whining about a lot of posts about dark skinned women feeling bad about themselves - you will never understand how tough a lot of black women have it until you are actually one - so do one.

[StreetLevel]

"In fact the only men I don't find attractive are black men"

Being a black man seems just as hard.

[bdsmkitten]

I'm white 20/f dating Filipino 45/m. Our relationship is interracial and we have a 25 year age gap... imagine the judgmental and disapproving stares we get from other people. I agree it's terrible when people try to force you to do something that they think is more "appropriate" or "right". Since that's something that you can't change (since there will always be someone out there judging you), you can focus on trying your best to ignore what everyone else tells you and do whatever you feel comfortable with. And try to hang out with people who support you. It really helps.

[starchick21]

I'm all for interracial relationships of any kind! To me, an attractive guy is an attractive guy. His race doesn't matter at all. But I get what you mean, especially your point about the whole reversal of genders when it comes to interracial dating. For example, a white guy is dating an Asian girl, and no one says anything. But if it's a white girl dating an Asian guy, people suddenly have plenty to say. As a white girl who's very attracted to Asian guys, I find this very annoying. In the end, we're all people. Why can't we just get along? :)

[Prof_Don]

As a black American, I'm all for interracial dating. Let people find love wherever they happen to find it.

However, it is very psychologically abnormal, for someone to NEVER find a single person of their own ethnicity attractive. I always feel people like this had some social or psychological damage in their live.