How seeing people of the opposite gender only wanting shallow qualities only reveals your own shallow qualities

Octavius

I see a lot about how guys are just pigs that only want sex and don't care about the girl or how girls lie and actually only want really hot guys that treat her like crap. Yes, there are those people out there that desire those things but they are not the only people out there of the opposite gender. You only think that everyone of the opposite gender has these shallow views because you yourself only pay attention to those very types of people. You don't even acknowledge the existence of actual decent people in the world and they are practically invisible to you. It's because you yourself only want shallow things so you only pay attention to other shallow people and then associate what they do with their whole gender and condemn them for it simply because it wasn't you they chose. If you keep chasing after women that only want dbags (and no just because a guy is with her does not make him a dbag. I see guys call boyfriends of girls they like dbags yet know nothing about the dude other than he is dating her) or every guy you agree to go on a date with ends up just trying to have sex with you then maybe it's because you also are only focused on their looks and are just hoping they happen to be nice people yet you yourself made the judgement to go after or be with them based off of nothing other than looks.


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How seeing people of the opposite gender only wanting shallow qualities only reveals your own shallow qualities.

How seeing people of the opposite gender only wanting shallow qualities only reveals your own shallow qualities
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