What's the best way to escape the friendzone? Make her jealous! (Page 3)
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
58Opinion
Lol. I just responded to another GAG question "Guys do you like when your girlfriend is jealous? and why?" that it's good to have her jealous.
Women are status driven creatures. They want what other women desire. The more women desire a male, the higher the status they assign (aka Alpha male-ness) and the more they want them.
What you are saying is accurate. Nothing will wet the nether regions of a friend zone girl than seeing her freind zoned guy desired by other women.
Why would I want a women that only just wants to be friend "friends" jealous. I just walk right the fuck off because there are plenty of women out there.
If a women doesn't respect and want me when I am at my best then I can't respect or want her if she can do that at my worst.
all these theories and techniques apply to a certain category- of usually toxic in one form or another- women. when i had to face my wife as a woman at our first stages i had to use none of these. i were just my self. a self these kinds of women dont dig. good thing is i dont dig theirs at all either so everyone is happy. so i believe some men that really struggle with these things dont have to change their attitude as much as they have to change their tastes and pursuits... .
i believe the men that are completely doormats even among shy nerds etc are extremely rare. for most men that is not the case, they put some personal borders and have self respect.
Yeah... guy tried to do that to me and took it to another level... actually started a relationship with the poor girl and they both ended up being miserable. Plus, our friendship went to hell cause once he started being an asshole I also understood he was not really my friend. And who wants an asshole friend? And what real friend is ever an asshole on purpose?
Doesn't always work out as good as it did for you. None of what my supposed friend did made me want him. Quite the contrary.
There are about 12,985,612,329,183 ways to do this wrong, and maybe 2 or 3 ways to do it right.
If you have to read an article about it, there is no chance in hell that you can do it right. Not a sweet chance in holy hell.
Sry.
This is the best way to figure out if you're ever going to have a chance with her. Either she'll get jealous and move on, or want to be with you or she'll be happy you're with someone - then you know she'll never be into you.
I friendzoned the guy the moment I met him, and it's irreversible.
I'm sure it is
Yes, you're right. But I'm not like everybody else.
Not worth trying but you can remain friends as long as the other person is honest when you ask to be more than friends.
I've been told by someone they were interested but they weren't. When I found out she had lied to me for personal gain I was horrified. I found out she was seeing someone else simultaneously. The day I found out I had just given her expensive perfume and a birthday gift. Gifts you'd never give to a friend.
I have to admit, I've friend zoned a lot of my guy friends and later changed how I felt about them. Whether I had known them for so long and couldn't see the attraction or seeing them with another girl sparked my interest, but either way, I don't think the friend zone is always permanent.
She would have to be on the fence for this to even have a shot of working. Most friendzoned guys are chasing after women that have zero interest in them. In those cases they will be like "Good for you! Hope you are happy!"
As much as women hate to admit this its true. But there is a catch. Make sure you guys are actually really close friends for at least 2 years and you have already asked her out and she just keeps turning you down.
Then you have right to talk to another girl and give her more attention and all that. And watch her come running to you.
BUT if you guys aren't that close and you try this move she will move on quickly and get irritated. Especially if you haven't directly asked her out yet.
This is actually very true.
If i was single and a dude I have no interest in tried that, I would laugh because I wasn't interested in the first place!
well you wouldn't be friends with someone you have no interest in, now would you
@jonahbona I meant in a non romantic sense.
romantic sense*
build sexual attraction by going into gym. But in general, man shouldn't bother with a woman if she doesn't fuck him within 3 meeting - if she doesn't this doesn't mean that she isn't like that, but it only means that she's not attracted to you. There will be always a guy who she'll bang in matter of hours or minutes.
It's actually way easier than that to escape the friendzone since the friendzone doesn't exist. Just tell her you're romantically interested in her instead of being mad she didn't read your mind.
A guy friend tried that with me numerous times and I could sense he was trying to get my attention but it never worked. In fact it got really annoying and childish. I guess after all I wasn't attracted to him in that way so I couldn't care less.
What is it that is so bad being in the friend zone? The goal is to plant your seed? Come on... you can feel good just hanging out with people can’t you? Or can’t you...
50/50 and this goes for men and women alike. I posed a question on this and women that were friend zoned by a guy said they weren't able to remain friends because the rejection hurt too much.
Being friends with people is beautiful. But when you get put in the friend zone as a guy the woman who put you there will consistently treat you as a fucking toy, because she already knows she has all the power. Someone in the friend zone isn't really a friend. You're expected to do all the hard parts of being in a relationship, and they do not return the favor. A woman who is my "friend" can call me crying every day for two weeks straight to get free emotional support from someone whose opinion doesn't matter to them, but the moment I have troubles, she's all, "I'm not your therapist."
It would be great if women who put you in the "friend-zonr" treated you as a friend. I've never been able to get anyone interested in me for very long. Manipulation and fake narcissism only work until I get sick of being a dick head and try to be a good guy again. At this point I'd love to just be friends with my crushes. But every time I try, they show no respect for my time and do not value my company, until THEY need something. That's a shitty friend, and they act like shitty friends because they know they're already holding all the cards
Because if one person wants to go out and the other ends up with someone else, it makes that person feel as though they're not good enough. And it hurts.
Manipulative tactic shows how slimy the dude is. Why not... I don't know... move ON if you've been friend-zoned?
This can backfire too ya know. It would make me think he liked the other girl and then I'd think some other man would like me better.
This can either go 1 of 2 ways. 1) She won't care. 2) She will think you have lost interest and look for someone else.
myTake Owner, has this worked for you? How did you do it? Was the object of your flirtation receptive? Was she in on the joke?