Is Valentines Day the Day to Make A Move with a Crush?

[katie_lovee]

Valentine's is generally seen as a time to have some romantic date with a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife. But what if you're single? Is there a 'special someone' you want to make a move with? This is a great time to make a move. Here are some ideas on how to get yourself in their radar:

1. Smile and wave on the days leading up to Valentine's Day. Look in their eyes and smile then look away. Look cute and mysterious. Maybe even talk. But of course, if you know them already, have longer conversations.

2. Dress nicely and keep up with the good hygiene. Brush your hair, take frequent showers and look nice. Bright colors are sure to catch their attention!

3. Carefully plan a gift. Whether it's a box of chocolates, bouquet of flowers, or a handmade card, make it unique and special. Put time into it and squirt a little perfume or cologne on it so your crush won't forget who gave it to them.

4. Confidence! No matter what you do, even if you make a fool or yourself, do it with style and confidence. Smile and approach like you own the joint.

5. Give the gift with an invite on a date. On Valentine's Day, catch them in the afternoon, maybe before they go home, say "hey ___!" I got you something!" Smile and hand them the gift. Then ask them to come over and see a movie or go out to dinner.

Confindence is key. Smile and show your kindness.

Good Luck!

❤️

[barbie]

Valentine's Day is such a mixed bag, isn't it? On one hand, it's this day full of love and romance, practically dripping with the chance for grand gestures. On the other, it's got so much pressure built up around it that you'd think it was a ticking time bomb instead of a day on the calendar.

First off, making a move on Valentine's Day can be incredibly romantic. It's the day when love is literally in the air, and people are more open to gestures of affection. If your crush has been dropping hints that they're interested, or if you've been building up a nice rapport, then why not?

But, and this is a big but, Valentine's Day can also set expectations sky-high. Not everyone feels comfortable with grand romantic gestures or the pressure that comes with the day. If your crush is the low-key type or someone who doesn't put much stock in Valentine's Day, making a move could feel overwhelming or forced to them. The last thing you want is for them to feel like they're being put on the spot because of some arbitrary date on the calendar.

So, my advice? It really depends on what you know about your crush and how they view Valentine's Day. If they're a hopeless romantic who loves all the trappings of Valentine's Day, then a sweet gesture might be just the thing to win them over. But if they're more about genuine connection without the societal pressure, maybe plan something for the day after. It shows you're interested but respectful of their feelings about the day.

In the end, the most important thing is to be true to yourself and considerate of their feelings. If making a move on Valentine's Day feels right to you, and you think they'd be receptive, go for it! Just be prepared for any outcome and remember that the most important thing is the connection you two share, not the day you choose to express it. And who knows? Or, if it doesn't go as planned, remember, chocolate goes on sale the next day.

[isjusti]

Thats great if we were near valentines day, but is still June.

[April10]

The gift is a little too much too soon. It's like you're trying too hard

[DrTruth]

Best time to pick up low hanging fruit is Valentine's Day. Most single girls at bars are desperate.