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Why The Nice Guy May Be The Worst Guy (Page 3)
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This is just another lame attempt to blame nice guys for your dating issues. Somehow, nice, respectful guys have become the great satan to jaded girls like you. I think you could find a way to blame an umbrella for the rain.
Thank you, how brave of you of you to insult me anonymously. Really feel the burn, ouch
Hey, fuck off, mate. You need to get a grip. Just because you werent some bloke's idea of perfect doesn't give you license to cast aspersions on millions of men you've never met.
Um Mr. Anon
You're doing some generalizing yourself
And telling her to get a grip while you freak whenever a girl says something
Calm down
1. Everyone is anonymous unless using their real name.
2. He didn't say anything directly insulting, just that you were blaming men (specifically 'nice guys') for your problems.
@buttheadkakakak Yet it's okay for you and @xPennyLanex to cast aspersions on all guys who are respectful and nice. It's not okay for me to tell you that you're wrong, but it's okay for you to trash millions of guys out of hand. Right.
You do need to get a grip on yourself. I say this because you had one or two bad experiences with guys and you now want to claim that we're all horrible humans. That's a childish reaction, and you both should be ashamed of it. The fact that you're not says a lot about who you are as people.
I agree with this. My "Nice" guy claims he loves me and wants to spend his life with me. But I know for a fact he's lying. I told him if he wants to break up, just tell me. Leading me on is hurting me more than telling me the truth would and he still goes on about how I'm his princess and how much he cares about me.
You have to realise that a lot of guys want to be the nice guy and a lot of even try to act like one and can even be very good at it.
If you want to try the nice guy, he's the guy who is always single and doesn't stand out.
Most girls only date 1 or 2 different kinds of guys but there multiple types of guys so most of the time there are girls thinking they are dating the nice guy but dont realise they either with a guy pretending to be nice or a completely different guy.
The new spelling of man should be "man" so no girl has to take responsibility ever again, because putting quotations around a guy makes everything his fault.
Take too long to break up? He's too weak! Too fast? He ghosted! Not communicating your needs? He's an awkward guy who won't fuck me!
But its cool, date people who are mean to you because "they're so real" or whatever.
alright i should not be saying this but LOL, the sarcasm in your lines absolutely made my evening. I can genuinely understand your point of view, it actually gives a very different perspective to the male world.
@xPennyLanex you are absolutely right. I have done this to women, and now it's being done to me. It hurts. It sucks. It's a slow, agonizing death. Needless. No communication.
I don't think this has anything to do with being nice. I've had a few times where I'll have sex on the 2nd or 3rd date and then never hear back from the girl again.
Or times where we'll have a date and the girl won't even respond with an explanation or anything. I don't think it's limited to a certain gender or type.
have to agree here... it goes both ways
Riiight. Its funny how women always find ways to blame the guy. Good, bad or a complete asshole. They're impartial. They stone everyone indiscriminately.
Yes it works both ways, nice guys getting constantly rejected by women, and now you got dumped by one. Ouch
As a nice guy I agree, this is how I would be. The fizze and twist are how I'd break up with a girl if I realised she wasn't right for me. If she really liked me I'd do this cause I couldn't just dump her and destroy her, and if she wasn't all that keen on me then it's easy to let the relationship fail and get her to dump me, so either way it seems the way to go
Well you need to understand that
"There is no such thing as a nice guy every one is just acting nice to get into her pants"
From my own experience, women are the ones who are more likely to act like that.
Also this just reads as a poor justification of dating jerks.
Guys can't win, especially on this site.
There are constant MyTakes and questions always say "why do guys always", which basically comes from a bitter female who has had a hard time once or twice and thus all guys are like that.
Now when guys are being nice, they're also assholes.
I've only ever had a single girlfriend but I think I would count as a "nice guy" even though I hate the name and don't own a single fedora. What you said was exactly how me and my ex went until the fizzle. I did have the part where it slowly died but I did end up breaking up with her as opposed to continuing to lie to her
I was going to say something sarcastic, but I think most of the guys have already said it.
LOL, you suck.
I mean your take sucked, as the psychologists used to say before the profession became a mouthpiece for social engineering propaganda, the only person who can break a narcissist's heart are themselves.
THE FIZZLE technique is actually used by gentlemen jerks after sex, so that the girl don't become clingy.
You seem to be the type of person who blames other people for most things that happen in your life. Just because a guy didn't do what you wanted him to do doesn't mean that there's this entire class of evil guys who are trying to destroy your life.
If being a bad guy is bad... and being a good guy is worse...
Then what's left to be?
This is why it's easier to be an asshole, we're assholes either way, even if we're nice lol...
Being a semi-nice guy. I learned..
To speak quickly what the fuck we want
but
This guy is not The Nice Guy this is the shy non-dominant nerdy guy u are talking about
Good take though I realised something that I should do :p
this is so off lol
go study men, everything you expressed is from the female thought process