Why is that Fat is associate to a BODY SHAPE Curvy?
The problem with why there are so many body image issues is not just posting fat photos up like you did but associating it with the word Curvy. Its always seems to be that HOURGLASS fat or skinny is the norm and should be the only body form accepted.
I think this MyTake is brilliant because to this day women still have to be told bigger is beautiful. (as seen by a lot of guys dismissing 'fat' women)
You did play into stereotypes quite a bit, but I see your intent. And I appreciate what you are getting at.
@Dulcedulcexoxo because amber rose was poor for a long time. If she got surgery kanye would have put her ass on blast. Her boobs are definitely real. I myself have large breast and a flat tummy. I guess I won the genetic lottery
@Dulcedulcexoxo ok I never said big boobs meant that she won the genetic lottery I asked to see proof of before and after pictures because you said that there are pictures not me. Lmao yet you still have not provided them. Other than that I do not see why we are having this conversation because I'm not changing what I think lol
@Dulcedulcexoxo I'm perfectly aware that big boobs does not automatically mean someone won the genetic lottery it is just a term, rofl do not take it to heart
This is an amazing article. And it's so true. All 10 points ring true for me.
I like girls who are skinny and average. No problems there. But I also love girls who are curvy, thick and girls who are even bigger than that too.
I like a soft cuddly woman with a kissable stomach, who has curves and totally owns it. I like a girl who can go to a restaurant, order the most fattening item on the menu and eat it like a badass.
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Some men, but most certainly not all of us... I prefer fit/athletic girls, not "curvy". I don't care about boobs or butts, they definitely don't look younger, they actually look fat in my opinion. Classic... I never liked classic... and "feminine" - Irrelevant, I like tomboyish girls. I never liked softer girls, I love toned & sporty type of girls.
If you think curvy women look "fat", than you would agree they should look younger, since fat makes you age well (Probably the only benefit of fat lol). Thin people in general age badly, since they have more wrinkles.
Lmaooo Curvy and McDonald rolls have bigass difference doe, Curvy is like skinny with big boobs and ass. Not what these whales nowadays claim themselves to be lol
It's funny because I hear that on the media all the time, but in reality I've never had any complaints about my body. I've always heard I had a nice body. Even guys who told me they liked curvy girls doesn't really necessarily mean they don't think slim girls are nice.
I am so excited to that Sports Illustrated is breaking the "model shape" idea and including a size 16 in their new magazine. It's nice to see that girls without 6-packs are still considered beautiful!
"I don't want to sit at dinner with someone that pushes salad around on their plate. Curvy girls would more likely eat pizza and drink beer with the guys." ? Yes "curvy" fat girls would be more likely to do that but since when was not taking care of yourself fucking attractive?
"Curvy girls have meat on their bones." whenever I hear this I tend to roll my eyes. If you got a piece of stack at a restaurant. And it came to you and it was 75% fat. You'd be like wtf. NOTE: muscle = MEAT. "Curvy" girls according to the picture dosent have meat. She has fat... You can be curvy and have meat, however most people that are curvy and say they have "meat" really have fat. They have fat.
XD I'm just here to say 'Yes we do!' And as I was scrolling down my mind was saying 'Wow... Holy crap... sweeeeeet..;GOD DAMN' XD
But yeah a lot of women here are so insecure about their weight, and the moment we see that 'embarassing' picture, most of us are like 'god damn... why don't you see what we see'
Adele does not look obese.. that's a horrible comparison. And her weight as fluctuated back and forth so that's not very fair, she's clearly struggling with it and it shouldn't define who she is. Some years she's skinnier, some she's heavier..
Obese people don't look like her, they look way worse.
Obviously it's perfectly fine for you not to be attractive to obese people (or even heavy or curvy or whatever - you're not forced to like anyone) but you shouldn't call people that when they aren't even obese. She's definitely overweight and heavy but she isn't obese.
@Mekkalyn agreed but her weight shifts between overweight and obese. We shouldn't try to tell our kids its alright to be overweight and obese is just plain wrong.
Proper women. I love curves under a figure hugging dress. I love big boobs, big hips, big ass and everything curving into every other thing like a roller coaster. I couldn't sleep with any other type of woman
Proper women? All women are proper women. That's like me saying I only like "proper men" aka 6'4" shredded athletes and every other "man" is basically a girl.
@RachelBrigs who's insulting others? People are entitled to opinions believe it or not. In my opinion that's a proper women. It's not my problem your offended
Saying a woman isn't actually a woman if she doesn't have a certain body type is in an insult. As I already said, your preference for that type of woman is fine, but all women are real women even if you don't find them attractive. Just like all men are men no matter what.
But how tall are you? What kind of body type do you have? What if I told you you aren't actually a man if I don't like your body type?
@RachelBrigs jesus don't take out your insecurities on me. You sound like a bitter little girl with body issues. Don't correct my spelling. It's the idiots who fuss over every syllable and letter who are the real idiots. The point is making the point not presenting it wrapped in shiny paper with a bow. I'm not looking for a pulitzer prize for services to the written word here. I think a curvy woman is a real woman. Your opinion differs from mine. You see how it works? We're not a committee trying to change domestic and foreign policy. Have your opinion and I'll have mine. If we all agreed on the same things then most of us would be fucked permanently. Why? You'd only need one person to think your a wanker and you'd know every other person on the planet would think the same thing. If that's not a fucked up way of thinking I don't know what is
I am fine with myself, but I was once a 14 year old girl reading stuff like that thinking I might as well not even have a vagina cause I'm not a "real girl/woman" without overflowing titties and hips and ass.
The only reason people are liking chubby women, and women are alright with being as such, is because we failed at stopping obesity. When humans can't stop something, we learn to like it.
Not true. Men that like chubby women don't 'learn' to like them because there are more of them than there used to be. They were just born like that and that's it.
Firstly curvy is a shape not a size, but lets go on the thought that you're talking about thick/dense curvy girls.
I thought this too until I did one of my own polls. In fact, both men and women preferred slim or slim toned girls. Much to my surprise only 3 out of 104 men and women preferred these types of girls.
Until I did the poll I thought that was gonna be the most hyped body type, but it's really not.
I really love how women try to speak for all men and say what we like. This entire take is a load of bullshit. Especially 10 because I for one hate kids and never want them.
This is why I hate that I'm skinny with tiny boobs and can't gain weight. Chubby girls and girls with big boobs [C cup or higher] dont know how lucky they are.
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Why is that Fat is associate to a BODY SHAPE Curvy?
The problem with why there are so many body image issues is not just posting fat photos up like you did but associating it with the word Curvy. Its always seems to be that HOURGLASS fat or skinny is the norm and should be the only body form accepted.
I think this MyTake is brilliant because to this day women still have to be told bigger is beautiful. (as seen by a lot of guys dismissing 'fat' women)
You did play into stereotypes quite a bit, but I see your intent. And I appreciate what you are getting at.
As someone who struggles to gain weight due to both genetic and health issues, I am always jealous of curvy women. I wish I looked like that :(
And curvy women want to look like you... IT is called being a woman I guess. xD
Hey don't worry not all guys like curvy ones..! :-)
I wish you would have put a picture of Amber Rose. She is the poster child for curvy women lol her boobs and butt are real
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Personally I disagree with some of the photos some of these women I would not consider curvy
Amber rose has been touched by the knife. She gets a lot of crap for lying about it when there is before and after phots
@Dulcedulcexoxo post links
@Dulcedulcexoxo because amber rose was poor for a long time. If she got surgery kanye would have put her ass on blast. Her boobs are definitely real. I myself have large breast and a flat tummy. I guess I won the genetic lottery
lol, her boobs may be real but she is still fake and nothing I admire. And I got big tatas but I dont think it means i won the genetic lottery lol.
@Dulcedulcexoxo ok I never said big boobs meant that she won the genetic lottery I asked to see proof of before and after pictures because you said that there are pictures not me. Lmao yet you still have not provided them. Other than that I do not see why we are having this conversation because I'm not changing what I think lol
@Dulcedulcexoxo I'm perfectly aware that big boobs does not automatically mean someone won the genetic lottery it is just a term, rofl do not take it to heart
But is her stomach real? Women that endowed it's real hard to believe she didn't get lipo
@Loon309 She is a model and she works out. Her stomach gets bigger depending on her weight gain. It's real
Amber rose is the shit!!-
This is an amazing article. And it's so true. All 10 points ring true for me.
I like girls who are skinny and average. No problems there. But I also love girls who are curvy, thick and girls who are even bigger than that too.
I like a soft cuddly woman with a kissable stomach, who has curves and totally owns it. I like a girl who can go to a restaurant, order the most fattening item on the menu and eat it like a badass.
Some men, but most certainly not all of us... I prefer fit/athletic girls, not "curvy".
I don't care about boobs or butts, they definitely don't look younger, they actually look fat in my opinion. Classic... I never liked classic... and "feminine" - Irrelevant, I like tomboyish girls. I never liked softer girls, I love toned & sporty type of girls.
If you think curvy women look "fat", than you would agree they should look younger, since fat makes you age well (Probably the only benefit of fat lol). Thin people in general age badly, since they have more wrinkles.
@EnglishArtsteacher Nah, I'm skinny and I look way younger than my fat neighbour ;)
Lmaooo Curvy and McDonald rolls have bigass difference doe, Curvy is like skinny with big boobs and ass. Not what these whales nowadays claim themselves to be lol
hahaha noooo
@nymous1234 yep, why being fat would be curvy? Lol
Exactly
someone can be fat and curvy and someone can be slim and curvy. curvy is a shape where hips are wider than waist. In my opinion :)
@nymous1234 if your waist gonna be fat and hips wider than that, that ain't curvt that's just weird af lol
Sigh. smh lol where are you from I have always been curious?
@nymous1234 Alabama, how does this matter? Lol
lol it doesn't matter to the question or your comment lol i have just seen your comments before and been curious as to where you are from is all. cool
It's funny because I hear that on the media all the time, but in reality I've never had any complaints about my body. I've always heard I had a nice body. Even guys who told me they liked curvy girls doesn't really necessarily mean they don't think slim girls are nice.
damn, makes me want to get a curvy girl all of a sudden
I am so excited to that Sports Illustrated is breaking the "model shape" idea and including a size 16 in their new magazine. It's nice to see that girls without 6-packs are still considered beautiful!
I think girls with six packs look weird.
@NatashaJ yes its not feminine at all when girls have those ripped abs and muscles...
I am so not attracted to that
@singlebee I don't find that attractive either.
"I don't want to sit at dinner with someone that pushes salad around on their plate. Curvy girls would more likely eat pizza and drink beer with the guys." ? Yes "curvy" fat girls would be more likely to do that but since when was not taking care of yourself fucking attractive?
"Curvy girls have meat on their bones." whenever I hear this I tend to roll my eyes. If you got a piece of stack at a restaurant. And it came to you and it was 75% fat. You'd be like wtf. NOTE: muscle = MEAT. "Curvy" girls according to the picture dosent have meat. She has fat... You can be curvy and have meat, however most people that are curvy and say they have "meat" really have fat. They have fat.
As I get older, I really find myself attracted to curvier women. So I think this is right on!
XD I'm just here to say 'Yes we do!'
And as I was scrolling down my mind was saying 'Wow... Holy crap... sweeeeeet..;GOD DAMN' XD
But yeah a lot of women here are so insecure about their weight, and the moment we see that 'embarassing' picture, most of us are like 'god damn... why don't you see what we see'
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As long as they are curvy not fat
Sorry I just dont find women that are fatties sexually attractive. If your a woman who is obese im sure your a lovely person (Adele) but no thanks.
Adele does not look obese.. that's a horrible comparison. And her weight as fluctuated back and forth so that's not very fair, she's clearly struggling with it and it shouldn't define who she is. Some years she's skinnier, some she's heavier..
Obese people don't look like her, they look way worse.
Obviously it's perfectly fine for you not to be attractive to obese people (or even heavy or curvy or whatever - you're not forced to like anyone) but you shouldn't call people that when they aren't even obese. She's definitely overweight and heavy but she isn't obese.
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@Mekkalyn agreed but her weight shifts between overweight and obese. We shouldn't try to tell our kids its alright to be overweight and obese is just plain wrong.
Proper women. I love curves under a figure hugging dress. I love big boobs, big hips, big ass and everything curving into every other thing like a roller coaster. I couldn't sleep with any other type of woman
Proper women? All women are proper women. That's like me saying I only like "proper men" aka 6'4" shredded athletes and every other "man" is basically a girl.
Your preference is fine but don't insult others
@RachelBrigs who's insulting others? People are entitled to opinions believe it or not. In my opinion that's a proper women. It's not my problem your offended
Saying a woman isn't actually a woman if she doesn't have a certain body type is in an insult. As I already said, your preference for that type of woman is fine, but all women are real women even if you don't find them attractive. Just like all men are men no matter what.
But how tall are you? What kind of body type do you have? What if I told you you aren't actually a man if I don't like your body type?
Also, "women" is the plural form of woman. You can't say "a women." You sound even more stupid.
@RachelBrigs jesus don't take out your insecurities on me. You sound like a bitter little girl with body issues. Don't correct my spelling. It's the idiots who fuss over every syllable and letter who are the real idiots. The point is making the point not presenting it wrapped in shiny paper with a bow. I'm not looking for a pulitzer prize for services to the written word here. I think a curvy woman is a real woman. Your opinion differs from mine. You see how it works? We're not a committee trying to change domestic and foreign policy. Have your opinion and I'll have mine. If we all agreed on the same things then most of us would be fucked permanently. Why? You'd only need one person to think your a wanker and you'd know every other person on the planet would think the same thing. If that's not a fucked up way of thinking I don't know what is
I am fine with myself, but I was once a 14 year old girl reading stuff like that thinking I might as well not even have a vagina cause I'm not a "real girl/woman" without overflowing titties and hips and ass.
Nope. Not a chubby chaser.
The only reason people are liking chubby women, and women are alright with being as such, is because we failed at stopping obesity. When humans can't stop something, we learn to like it.
Not true. Men that like chubby women don't 'learn' to like them because there are more of them than there used to be. They were just born like that and that's it.
@Matt1994 Differing opinions. Good to know humanity is still diverse in thought.
Firstly curvy is a shape not a size, but lets go on the thought that you're talking about thick/dense curvy girls.
I thought this too until I did one of my own polls. In fact, both men and women preferred slim or slim toned girls. Much to my surprise only 3 out of 104 men and women preferred these types of girls.
Until I did the poll I thought that was gonna be the most hyped body type, but it's really not.
Marylin Monroe is a slim model compared to the obesity that women try to pass off as "curves" today.
I really love how women try to speak for all men and say what we like. This entire take is a load of bullshit. Especially 10 because I for one hate kids and never want them.
Lol well...
This is why I hate that I'm skinny with tiny boobs and can't gain weight.
Chubby girls and girls with big boobs [C cup or higher] dont know how lucky they are.
Don't take perkiness for granted.. They probably don't have it
I rather envy you as I doubt you'll ever have my back problems.