The Girl I Will Not Date

[Anonymous]

This is pretty much a list of things I don't find attractive in a girl..

Being a semi country boy, I like a girl who will have a back bone and stick up for herself and throw the first punch while I'm finishing my beer. Another thing, I find it sexy when a girl drinks whiskey or beer, instead of vodka or whatever cocktail.

Anyway back to the point, here's MY list - If you disagree with anything troll away, I don't give four fifths of a flying Fuck

OK

Number 1. The doormat

I cannot cannot cannot stand a girl that let's herself be walked all over by a guy or her friends, it just ruins a girl for me.

Number 2. The judge

Sure whatever floats your boat to make you feel good about yourself. But why put other girls down? Their makeup, their outfit, their body and anything else that you can think of.

Some girls for some reason think they're better than others because they're super skinny or curvy or have the right ass or the right boob's or something. I honestly don't know.

But it's just unattractive, because all I hear when a girl puts another girl down is "I'm insecure, give me compliments"

Which brings me to the next one.

Number 3. The not so modest but can't take a compliment girl.

OK I know that girls have their insecurities and a lot of you don't think you're attractive. But you want compliments don't you? Because most of the time a girl doesn't know how to take a fucking compliment no matter how sincere a guy is being. You just flat out deny it and almost get offended from a fucking compliment... Accept the thing or they will stop coming.

Number 4. The too modest girl.

Yes modesty is a must to an extent, BUT a girl needs to be comfortable with her sexuality and the fact that she has needs and being open and forwardly sexual is a massive rise in the points you get from me.

Number 5. A girl that doesn't appreciate music.

This will be the trigger for a lot of comments I think. But I'm talking about REAL music. None of that Lil Wayne - Bieber fucking - Miley shit or that other club shit, I'm talking about music with meaning by the people that actually wrote the songs and play them with instruments not a computer.. With the acception of aus hipHop of course.

This means country metal blues rock and everything in between.

Number 6. The girl that lives in high heels.

A minor thing maybe but this says one thing to me. "I'm not getting my hands dirty and that shovel isn't coming anywhere near me."

Odd statement? Maybe, but I'm an active physical guy. I like working hard and having a cold beer at the end of the day, and I like a girl that's not afraid of a little character building and those high heels won't do you any good in the mud.

Apart from that high heels, Fuck your feet up, and I'm a leg man. That in my opinion includes your feet. Yes the heels might make your ass look good and that's fantastic but don't wear them all the time especially every day.

A pair of leather boots is a lot sexier on a girl to me than high heels.

I should probably mention once again that this is my list about MY preferences and has nothing to do with anyone else.

Number 7. The introvert that refuses to go out.

I am an active person, I ride motorcycles, go kayaking, work like a sheep dog, and still have energy for the evening activities.

A girl who never wants to go out just won't cut it.

I want to go to the pub with my girl at my side knocking them down with me. I want to go for beach walks with the dog. I wanna take a girl with me on rides and go to the gym and the movie theater and to dinner.

Sure I enjoy a night in with my lady but being cooped up in the house isn't healthy and breathing the same air repeatedly isn't my thing.

I'm sick of typing so I'll continue this shit later.

[steveguitar]

Definitely like the music part lol, its hard to knkw people that like that crap. There's no substance

[Azara]

sounds like what would not date in man or woman. :)

[lolatyou]

lol, I like this until the last part. It's nice to share interest and to go out together but your girlfriend doesn't have to be a clone of you. Maybe she doesn't like the gym, the beach, the theater etc. You make it sound like she has to tag along with you everywhere you go like she's some lost puppy.

[myTake Owner]

I don't want a clone of me and that is stuff I like doing and just tagging along with me isn't what I want but at least doing something once in a while would be good

No she may not like some of those things but I'll do things she wants to do with her and I'd expect the same in return

After all, most healthy relationships have compromise

[lolatyou]

Yup, I agree then, it just sounded kind of pushy.

Definitely love your other points though, I wish more guys were aware enough to see that.

[myTake Owner]

Yeah by the end of it I was pretty tired because the page kept reloading and I had to rewrite everything about 5 times

[lolatyou]

lol, it's been doing that to me the past couple of days. I honestly thought it was a new update that GaG implemented just to torture people more.

[myTake Owner]

Must be >.<
the take was originally longer but I couldn't remember half the shit I said so I just left it as is

[Errhh]

Ha! I used to target out guys like that!!! 😁😁 !!
Guys Who would point out specifics... And say they would never date this and that... Etc.. Etc...

I'd become exactly what they claim to dislike, and make it my mission to make them want me... Then... TADA !!! Just so I can say "You WOULD!! Date someone like that" 😉

Anyway!!! Your list is pretty understandable... And more common than uncommon. :]!
I in particular would never consider to date anyone with a list 😜

[Errhh]

Ohh!!! You know what this also reminds me of... That one movie where the girl names the guy's little worm 'Princess Sophia!' Hahaha and talks to it like a baaby or puppy!! Haha😂😂

Like doing awkward, super weird things that would drive someone off... And then end up falling for that weirdo person. 😯

[xXiTacoXx]

You lost me at 4 (if I were a dude I'd rather have a very modest girl, than a chick who has been fucking every Tom, Dic, and Jerry in the neighborhood), 5 (heels ae life, and that's that), 6 (only because you mentioned country and metal).

[AleDeEurope]

Metal has huge meaning behind its songs. It tends to have a darker meaning, but it's a very powerful one.

I agree with the rest of your points though.

[MusicMayhem]

"A pair of leather boots is a lot sexier on a girl to me than high heels".

Omg dude, YES you stole a part of my brain!

[abundantlyrich]

I thought country boys are only attracted to people in their surroundings and are prone to marrying their distant cousins if they can't find anyone that they are going to be compatible with.

[Anonymous]

Safe to say I don't think anyone here cares what your turn offs are in a girl. You're totally entitled to your preferences, but like, this was not worth a whole MyTake.

[M_A_X]

I don't see you posting on women's posts that say the exact same thing and calling them out on this. Let me see that more often

[WeeGeeTheSecond]

well well, what do we have here, another trollnymous...

[Jon_Gre_g]

Half of the posts here are not worthy of being posted... So I don't understand what you are trying to say anon. People have a right to post what they want, as long as it is appropriate that is : P

[Opinion Owner]

Point me to a MyTake where a female lists her own personal turn-offs and nothing else, and I'll tell her the same. But I haven't seen any. Guess girls don't feel the need to write pointless crap in an "article" such as this.

Also, "trollnymous"? What are you, 8?

[Opinion Owner]

@Jon_Gre_g Yeah, true.

[M_A_X]

Little Sally has posted 2 of them today that I'm aware of. I was calling bullshit on it, but this guy's is actually less vague than hers, even though it's still stereotyping by a lot and they're both about as equally meaningful. And even when I did say something about her doing it, I wasn't anywhere near as much of a jerk, it came down more to questioning the way it was worded than trying to say she had no right to make an opinion about the world she lives in.

[myTake Owner]

@M_A_X it's called MY take not yours it's just the place I've been brought up and how I (me) see things and yes it's quite stereotypical but so is the rest of the world

And thankyou for that realization because it was written in response to little Sally's take

[myTake Owner]

And the first part was directed at the bull and gate owner of this opinion

[M_A_X]

I actually assumed it was in response to Little Sally's takes.

Sorry, but you seem like a jerk for saying other people shouldn't be allowed to have an opinion on your mytake. Even Little Sally never questioned my right to think for myself. That's incredibly closed minded, and also defeats the purpose of posting it on the internet in the first place. If nobody is allowed to question it, than it's just propaganda.

The last thing I'll say is, the way to make a point to someone, like Little Sally, isn't to mock them or do what they do. We have language to discuss things. It wasn't intended to be a tool to subtly manipulate or play games. Please learn to say what you mean or you defeat your own point

[myTake Owner]

@M_A_X G wasn't mocking her it was just a response

And I wasn't telling you that you're not allowed to have an opinion but rather the person who posted the first comment saying nothing in particular except for trying to make a point to say that nothing I've written is worth reading. So whose the one being closed minded?

I actually like little Sally she has some really good things to say and from what I've seen she's an absolutely lovely girl

I just made a response to her take so there were two sides to it coming out roughly the same time

And everything in this is from my point of view and you can comment what ever the Fuck you like and your opinions like mine are your own

And playing games I am not.

If I wanted to play games I would buy an Xbox

[M_A_X]

You were trying to make a point that she shouldn't have done it, by doing the same thing. I think most human beings would consider that mocking.

I think Little Sally has some good things to say, and other times she's wrong, like a normal human being, myself included. I assumed you were mocking.

[myTake Owner]

@M_A_X if I was going to mock her I wouldn't have made this anonymous and I would be a blatant fucking asshole about everything quote her at the start of every point and make points almost exactly the same as hers and then tag her in it

Because what's the point in mocking someone if you don't make sure they know you're doing it?

I'm a straight shooter when it comes to that sort of thing and I honestly couldn't give less of a Fuck

If I was mocking her I would do it properly but I think she's a lovely girl and I like what she has to say.

[M_A_X]

Your argument makes no sense. The point of mocking someone isn't that they know who did it. The point of mocking them is to show them that they're wrong, or biased. It's just a mean spirited way to go about doing it. It's what dumb people do when they don't know how to properly debate.

[M_A_X]

In fact, I'd say your logic is backwards. If this post was benign as you claim, what WAS the point of going anonymous?

[Errhh]

@M_A_X But she is anonymous,,,, how would you know if she is or isn't calling out girls on their my takes? 😯😁

[M_A_X]

@Errhh I'm talking to the take creator for one. For two, I don't think you fully read or comprehend what I said

[Errhh]

@M_A_X I'm referring only to your very first comment on this anonymous persons opinion. 😁. I did not read the rest... So in any case.. Why would you talk to the take creator on someone else's opinion on your first comment? :/ ... Cause hats the only one I read, thus the one I am referring to. ... So... Yeah... 👀👆

[M_A_X]

@Errhh Yeah, you're right. At first it was towards the dismissive post owner who wants to come in and say "nobody cares about your opinion" as a way to discredit someone. Underhanded tactics piss me off and are a major problem in today's society, and why nobody ever gets along anymore.

[CafèMachiatto]

Ugh you sound like the guy I don't want to date. You just have this obnoxiously high standard and to be frank I don't even like extroverted people at all lol.

[archiz]

ok the points in general are ok.
but for me 7 is a major quality I look in a person too

[SakuraCherryBlossoms]

I like the modern music a lot... what does everyone hate it?

[SakuraCherryBlossoms]

*why

[lazermazer]

I don't think u can find any girl thats not a number 2 *shots fired... but good take though

[Cookies_AndMilk]

This was nice. Great take!

[IceEverest]

Very Nice take... HELPFUL FOR BOTH GENDERS...

[Bea123]

Lol great take!