Yes, the title is click bait for trolls and haters, but i'm not claiming to be the hottest male--only one who exists as above average in the eyes of most women lookswise. It is a thing that is internalized and understood at a very early age that you look better than other boys, but it has nowhere near the effect I imagine that it does on pretty girls. We men don't get free stuff and special treatment wherever we go because of our looks (unless you're like supermodel good looking.) We do, however, get noticed/told we are good looking generally once or twice a week. We get looks from girls who are somewhat suprised/mesmerized before going back to doing what they were doing. Here are some thoughts I believe most "good looking" guys have.
***This is your typical--wanna get laid guy.
She primarily likes me for my looks and is willing to overlook the more boring parts of my personality...
The one thing guys fear more than anything on a date at a party in a club is boring the girl to death. For a good looking guy, he doesn't have his looks to be his focus--he assumes he's good in this area. Therefore, it's all up to the personality to get him over the hill. When he realizes he was over the hill when he started talking to her he breathes a nice sigh of relieve and just says whatever knowing she, just as much as him, is waiting for the conversation to come to a natural end and for sex to begin.
There's a certain percentage of females that i couldnt' fail with if i tried...
The hot guy internalizes his coveted looks to the extent that it would be very out of the ordinary to him if he were to get rejected by a certain type of girl that finds his look to be very attractive. Depending on how hot he is in terms of his cultures standard of beauty he may assume this for all women. You are probably thinking that if he does get rejected he freakes out and fights really hard to get the girl even if she herself isn that hot--not really. His self validation is so well built that he simply does not see rejection. He doesn't understand. He doesn't believe it's true. His mind either reconfigures how the rejection went down to where it was he doing the rejecting or he simply erases her and the interaction out of his memory entirely. It is not a concious thing--it simply is so outside what he finds real life that it doesn't register to him.
She wants to have sex with me...
The hot guy daily has a conversation with a woman he is convinced wants him. It is an interesting scenario as he, the man, is pursuing her for sex on an external level, but internally he believes himself to be "giving her what she really wants"
I wonder what weird stuff she does...
The hot male assumes sex is going to happen...it's only a matter of which party tricks she is capable/willing to do...since sex comes a bit easier given he doesn't have to "sell" himself as a worthy bed mate despite looking like he just finished a deep dish grease filled pizza, the hot male is free to fantasize about what will happen later knowing that 90% of the time it really will.
I'm going to enjoy that ass/tits/mouth later...
There's a definite smugness that comes with being a hot male. You have the same appetites, but you get to chuckle to yourself that it's all just there for the choosing. It's kind of like going for really nice brunch...you decide to start out with breakfast foods, but then you pass some king grab legs and spiced shrimp and you smile slyly that you'll be back...that there's time enough for anything your heart desires.
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