So lately, I've come across multiple inter-racial marriage posts,in fact there was just one,this winter in my family! My Hungarian friend was like "what are these guys hyping about?" Meaning she was flabbergasted with the number of marriages like this.. Having being fed with stereotypical facts such as "Indians are conservative and protective. Long shot to get your Indian tigress bro." it was pretty natural of her to pose a question like that. So today I'm going to address some reasons for why some Indian girls would prefer western guys over Indian guys.(white,black,European guys = western guys)
No big shocker, but I myself am one of those girls who're attracted to them westerners...and what's my reason? Well, you see Indian guys obviously have the typical Indian upbringing ,which is the problem!! By definition an Indian upbringing simply emphasizes the patriarchal relationship everyone in the family share and the massive protection that they have of Indian women in the family. Not to mention the major restrictions when it comes to attire and who you talk to and where you go (parties,etc). Some of them are so conservative that they still follow their messed up caste system. Awkwardly segregated they are and HAVE to insert their nose into everyone's business. They will never miss a chance to comment or gossip on someone's life decision. They can't help but disrespect it. However au contrarie,most certainly there are modern and westernized Indian families out there who are more accepting of everyone's decisions and other such and such issues. But still their values carry long and strong. I don't mean to hate on all of indian culture and values crazy because of I'm one of them, but some of them are very unreasonable and unnecessary.
Now boiling down to the Indian guys themselves. Most of them tend to underestimate girls any girl any race any culture. They just can't be equal but again there have been quite a few equal Indian guys I've bumped into and I'm happy to have. Again I don't mean to say that all Indian girls are going to burst with feminism and turn into actually tigresses but it's a major turnoff for any girl when they are not given a chance to play dominant. Western guys, specifically white guys actually like it when girls can lead them around and vice-versa unlike Indian guys. Western guys take care of themselves and Indian guys, not so much... :/ they tend to smell. Indian guys tend to be very condescending with their remarks. One of the guys in my karate class gave remarks like "don't be shy like a girl.. Don't be a crybaby..like a girl" to one of our fellow mates and that's just.. It. STOP being so bossy and stop running around with a chip on your shoulder! Don't put others down to elevate yourself! That's not the road to cloud 9.. Well it is to -9. They tend to do all of this for show... And if you confront them like I did once.. They'll not accept they're shit and will come back at you.! "Eh you shut up".
Going on dates with Indian guys is even worse. They just won't be interested in any conversation.I went on one with this guy. I ended up asking him a billion questions about him and was asked only two.. It felt like a waste of time.. (Stopped it right at the first date.)They are super boring to talk to at times.. And occasionally funny. They also tend to carry head weight which makes it so hard to approach them.It's so complicated you guys! 😖😖😖
This is what I think, and it sure as hell may be very biased. I've yet a lot to experience..and this is a very opinionated my take,like it's supposed to be.. Please feel free to drop down some of your oppinions and questions! And if you have opposite views do not hessitate to set them free!!
(I don't eat pepperonis tho)