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BYOS – Why I Believe Men are NOT Obligated to Pay For Dates (Page 3)
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I dont know why people talk about it so much. It just depend from the person, some girls want their date to pay for them and some want to share the bills. Just let's people what they want.
why I believe women are obligated too give good head
There is something called chivalry...
.. chivalry does not equate to obligation, though. It's up to the guy to decide if he'll choose to conform to the gender-norms of them paying for everything that began because women literally couldn't. Back in the day, women were not even permitted, by law, to have an income of their own.
@kaylaS91 You basically said exactly what i was going to say.
Why does it matter what happened in the past? Any guy who doesn't pay on the first date... wow good luck trying to take me out again.
That's partly why I'd ask, to be honest. To see if you reacted shitty. That way i wouldn't waste my time.
tbh if you wouldn't go on a second date with someone JUST because they didn't offer to pay for you the first time, I doubt they'd want to date you.
I'd be more than happy to pay for the bill, but it's be nice if the girl offered to at least split it-it shows that's she's not a spoilt sexist dick.
Ofc if they don';t that doesn't immediately mean that she is, but it's not a good sign for me. Generosity is an attractive quality.
@Panay yeah, I agree with that. I'd never wish to date anyone who holds you to ridiculous obligations like that, despite you two both having comparable incomes/expenses.
Possible gold digger...
If we didn't you would still judge us.
I wouldn't at all actually, I paid for my and my boyfriend's first date actually.
hmmm, he must have felt pretty bad. Are you a feminist by any chance?
Egalitarian and he actually appreciated it.
It's not a problem, I'll pay for all the dates.
I m paying for the date.
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wow you're so angry
I completely agree.