Listen , I'm very sorry for what this crazy B*tch did to you. But please try to understand not all women are like that. Women don't like rejecting people it's awful and makes me personally feel guilty. But most women only reject a guy because 1. We're in a bad place and don't want to complicate things. 2. We don't like you in that way and want to remain friends 3. We have a crush on somebody else.
And there are probably more reasons
But again I am terribly sorry for what you went through.
I am not angry that she rejected me, or even that she flaked out after giving me her number. I am mad that she deliberately sabatoged my reputation and made up lies for no apparent reason other than she wanted attention. Now everyone thinks I am this horrible bad person who stalks women and is a pedo all because she lied about me.
Sorry you had to go through that though. Regection is hard but you really shouldn't let it have that much control over your life. Things will just become harder then they need to be. Goddluck Sir, hope things get easier when the pain dulls a bit.
This is exactly why guys shouldn't generalize women and visa versa. You have your junky girls like the one in this article and then you have women who take the time out of their day to write nice responses such as this one. The differences from woman to woman can be night and day. So to lump them together and say they are all alike is way off. For people in the OP's situation I'd compare finding someone to digging through a bag full of jelly beans with a 100 different flavors. The first jelly bean you pick out of the bag might be disgusting, and you might not like that second flavor as it is too sour or third one as it is too sweet and so on.. But if you keep picking you may just come across that ideal flavor, that will leave a good taste in your mouth.
I went through pretty much the same thing with a girl a few years ago also at work but we'd actually been dating a bit. The reason why she's doing this isn't to hurt you or even has anything to do with you at all. It's simply that she is an attention seeker. She's loving the attention she's getting from everyone because of the lies she's told about you. She's a horrible selfish person and she doesn't deserve you worrying about what's actually happening. As for all that crap it'll blow over and people will quickly forget about it. In fact if it goes anything like it did with me if you bump into her outside of work she will probably be really friendly and you'll get to bang her then ignore her lying ass.
"You opt to sleep only with the Chad Thundercocks of the world, and then when you reach 30 and decide to settle down, you shamelessly hook a genuinely good guy such as myself and then force us to take care of you via the institutionalized slavery known as marriage. That is, not only do you want to spend the majority of your life rejecting us, but then you want to force us to take care of you when you decide that the party is over."
Fucking powerful stuff. This right here sums up the female psyche.
You do realize that you just spent like 2,000 words attacking feminism, dating, gender relations, nice guys, bad boys, sex work, Eve, pedestals, parking lots, marriage and most of all, Chad Thundercock, because some random chick you don't even like started some facebook drama about you. Even if we accept the premise that she wronged you, dude, get a fucking grip.
This is about as sane as going on an anti-consumerist/anti-American/anti-corporate/anti-capitalist/anti-black/anti-woman rant because the black lady working the Drive-Thru didn't give you a straw with your Happy Meal. You had a nice cry about it with your boss, now move the fuck on.
Yes, women can be SO cruel. Do not let this one woman ruin things for you. You are a good man and there is a woman who is waiting for you to come into her life. You will find her... but not in the workplace. Stay away from women there. Hold your head high, love YOURSELF, and be strong. And... be patient. Your time will come and this will all be a bad dream. Do NOT let the nice man inside you die... we need more men like YOU! To hell with those people at work. WHO are THEY? Why is their opinion more important than your OWN? You know yourself and this one ROTTEN woman is just THAT. ROTTEN! She behaved that way not because of anything you did wrong, but because of WHO SHE IS. Some women simply are too screwed up to appreciate a good man like you. Chock it up to a bad experience... experiences thousands of men have had. Your LADY is out there just looking for you... and she is sweet, just like you! And when you find her (or she finds you) you will appreciate her so much. God bless you :-)
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i agree completely. After years of being good to women... all that i got was a carrot p my backside.
My honest opinion, women ain't worth the effort anymore. I left dating 3 years ago and life has never been sweeter. Unfortunately we were born with this curse to be easily seduced by women and it is damn difficult to NOT notice a pretty women... but hey such is life. I have my master and a great career, plus i have good guy friends and we travel and play sport together and have an awesome time experiencing life. Sometimes the loneliness gets to you, but i'm reminded that women just don't care about men... so i'd say ENJOY YOUR LIFE and forget them.
WOMEN ARE NOT AS SWEET AS THEY USED TO BE. I MISSED OLDER GENERATIONS OF WOMEN. Feminism killed that beautiful feminine spirit in them.
Sooo... because 1 person was a bitch you now blame 3 billion people?
In that case, since I was raped once, all men are rapists and I hate you for it you asshole.
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I feel like you're leaving part of the story out here. So this girl gives you a number, then when you try to make plans she not only rejects but then makes up horrible lies about you for no reason? People don't do that. Sure, this girl is obviously a cunt and I agree with you that women in general are filled with dogshit and I hate that I need them to reproduce, but even the biggest cunts wouldn't do something like that for no reason unless she had severe and drastic psychotic tendencies So is there anything that happened in between that you haven't mentioned here? Something that might have completely changed her attitude towards you?
Absolutely not. Even when I said "Hello" to her that morning before I knew everything that happened, she seemed perfectly fine and was even smiling at me. I legitimately believe that she is psychotic or something. She is only 17 going on 18, so maybe it is hormones or something.
dude, a girl blocked me because i looked ugly in one pic on fb (not even exaggerating), deleted all my social media and any trace of me on the internet that day. Girls are crazy and she was 24 ( i was 19 at the time). That being said, OP's attitude is still not healthy
What do you mean she deleted your social media? Why did she have your passwords? And a girl blocking you no matter what the reason, is not even on the level of a girl making up shit about you and spreading shit that could temporarily damage your reputation for literally no reason. OP's attitude... it's not healthy, no. just inevitable with women being the way they are.
All right stud have a seat and let me learn you something. No one owes you a damn thing, girls don't owe you sex because you were "nice". Look o got it, you're upset because she said she'd go on a date and didn't. Boo Hoo grow the hell up. You want to be a nice guy then do something because it's the right thing to do, don't just be extra "nice" because you like this girl. That makes you creepy as hell. If you're a genuine guy people notice but if all you want is sex and you feel like you deserve it go sit the fuck in the corner. You aren't entitled to a thing. Be a man, suck it up, move on. We used to tell guys to go find their balls but that's impolite and might hurt your feelings but you know what? Good maybe you'll wake the hell up and realize what a damn child you are.
I can't go one week without some bitter dude making a Mytake complaining how an ENTIRE gender have it out for him.
Getting a phone number is jack fucking nothing. Woman flake all the time. Dating is a number game. You ask 100 woman, 30 actually give you, 10 actually return your call, 5 actually interested in you, 2 actually show up for the date, and 1 actually want a second date with you.
Get over the rejection and get back in the game. Don't be a fucking quitter, what a disgrace.
Not everyone is like that woman. What she did was fucked up, and I hate the fact that bitches like her can give women a bad name. For every girl out there who is willing to pull that kind of crap, there more decent women out there who aren't. It also irritates me that women like her are sought after because of her beauty. It's a shame that you're letting one stupid bitch change your mind on all women.
LOLOLOLOLOLOL I am super changing my name to "Chad Thundercock:".
Somehow I doubt you "did nothing but be respectful". The fact that you had this rant simmering below the surface makes it clear that you already had issues with women and their boundaries, and all it took was someone enforcing her boundaries to bring all this toxic rage to the surface. (Unless the person you approached was underage, "pedophile" as a label shouldn't have stuck. If she WAS underage, HOOBOY WERE YOU IN THE WRONG.)
I suggest finding a therapist and talking to them about your anger at the matriarchy. Talk therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy worked wonders with my depression and social anxiety, and having an outside opinion as to whether or not you're transgressing boundaries is extremely helpful if you're struggling with how to approach women you're attracted to.
Well, I am telling you. Woman here on GaG will try to corner her and prove that, they are right but "it is What it is" man. I am sorry, You believed in feminism lies that are present here but now You can can see it. They will even say not every one is like this but remember simple rule dude,
They are not XY, they are XX which means all of them are same. The only d/f is that, they have separate good and bad clock speeds but they are same.
This is the best thing that could have happened to you! Imagine how much worse it would have been had you ended up married and still thinking like this, it would have destroyed you. You have finally lost your innocence and joined the world of adults, now it;s time to decide what kind of person your going to be.
Think of this as a growing process, like a clump of useless iron ore being smelted and hammered into a sword.
Everone gets raked over the coals at some point. This hopefully makes you talk to a girl more before asking her out. Just figure what would have happened if you both actually went out. She would have called rape and really dragged your name through the mud.
Not all of us are the same and you know what, some of us have just been treated bad by men, but not all men are jerks! yes this girl was a total bitch and girls like that really irritated me, but just know NOT all of us are like THAT girl!!!
The Mgtow is strong with you. If and i warn you if you decide to get the teachings of (sandman) you will never be the same. Personally ask him your situation he will be able to give you guidence. It looks like you swallowed your first red pill.
Perhaps life would be better if you dated a man. That's one option you can try. Also talk to your supervisor about the mistreatment in the workplace. It is his/her responsibility to make sure everybody acts professional and not create a hostile environment.
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Listen , I'm very sorry for what this crazy B*tch did to you. But please try to understand not all women are like that. Women don't like rejecting people it's awful and makes me personally feel guilty. But most women only reject a guy because
1. We're in a bad place and don't want to complicate things.
2. We don't like you in that way and want to remain friends
3. We have a crush on somebody else.
And there are probably more reasons
But again I am terribly sorry for what you went through.
I am not angry that she rejected me, or even that she flaked out after giving me her number. I am mad that she deliberately sabatoged my reputation and made up lies for no apparent reason other than she wanted attention. Now everyone thinks I am this horrible bad person who stalks women and is a pedo all because she lied about me.
Oh well I understand why you would be mad , what she did was just pure evil. But trust me not all women are like that.
Um, okay?
Sorry you had to go through that though. Regection is hard but you really shouldn't let it have that much control over your life. Things will just become harder then they need to be. Goddluck Sir, hope things get easier when the pain dulls a bit.
This is exactly why guys shouldn't generalize women and visa versa. You have your junky girls like the one in this article and then you have women who take the time out of their day to write nice responses such as this one. The differences from woman to woman can be night and day. So to lump them together and say they are all alike is way off. For people in the OP's situation I'd compare finding someone to digging through a bag full of jelly beans with a 100 different flavors. The first jelly bean you pick out of the bag might be disgusting, and you might not like that second flavor as it is too sour or third one as it is too sweet and so on.. But if you keep picking you may just come across that ideal flavor, that will leave a good taste in your mouth.
I went through pretty much the same thing with a girl a few years ago also at work but we'd actually been dating a bit.
The reason why she's doing this isn't to hurt you or even has anything to do with you at all. It's simply that she is an attention seeker. She's loving the attention she's getting from everyone because of the lies she's told about you. She's a horrible selfish person and she doesn't deserve you worrying about what's actually happening.
As for all that crap it'll blow over and people will quickly forget about it. In fact if it goes anything like it did with me if you bump into her outside of work she will probably be really friendly and you'll get to bang her then ignore her lying ass.
"You opt to sleep only with the Chad Thundercocks of the world, and then when you reach 30 and decide to settle down, you shamelessly hook a genuinely good guy such as myself and then force us to take care of you via the institutionalized slavery known as marriage. That is, not only do you want to spend the majority of your life rejecting us, but then you want to force us to take care of you when you decide that the party is over."
Fucking powerful stuff. This right here sums up the female psyche.
You do realize that you just spent like 2,000 words attacking feminism, dating, gender relations, nice guys, bad boys, sex work, Eve, pedestals, parking lots, marriage and most of all, Chad Thundercock, because some random chick you don't even like started some facebook drama about you. Even if we accept the premise that she wronged you, dude, get a fucking grip.
This is about as sane as going on an anti-consumerist/anti-American/anti-corporate/anti-capitalist/anti-black/anti-woman rant because the black lady working the Drive-Thru didn't give you a straw with your Happy Meal. You had a nice cry about it with your boss, now move the fuck on.
Yes, women can be SO cruel. Do not let this one woman ruin things for you. You are a good man and there is a woman who is waiting for you to come into her life. You will find her... but not in the workplace. Stay away from women there. Hold your head high, love YOURSELF, and be strong. And... be patient. Your time will come and this will all be a bad dream. Do NOT let the nice man inside you die... we need more men like YOU! To hell with those people at work. WHO are THEY? Why is their opinion more important than your OWN? You know yourself and this one ROTTEN woman is just THAT. ROTTEN! She behaved that way not because of anything you did wrong, but because of WHO SHE IS. Some women simply are too screwed up to appreciate a good man like you. Chock it up to a bad experience... experiences thousands of men have had. Your LADY is out there just looking for you... and she is sweet, just like you! And when you find her (or she finds you) you will appreciate her so much. God bless you :-)
i agree completely. After years of being good to women... all that i got was a carrot p my backside.
My honest opinion, women ain't worth the effort anymore. I left dating 3 years ago and life has never been sweeter. Unfortunately we were born with this curse to be easily seduced by women and it is damn difficult to NOT notice a pretty women... but hey such is life. I have my master and a great career, plus i have good guy friends and we travel and play sport together and have an awesome time experiencing life. Sometimes the loneliness gets to you, but i'm reminded that women just don't care about men... so i'd say ENJOY YOUR LIFE and forget them.
WOMEN ARE NOT AS SWEET AS THEY USED TO BE. I MISSED OLDER GENERATIONS OF WOMEN. Feminism killed that beautiful feminine spirit in them.
Sooo... because 1 person was a bitch you now blame 3 billion people?
In that case, since I was raped once, all men are rapists and I hate you for it you asshole.
I feel like you're leaving part of the story out here. So this girl gives you a number, then when you try to make plans she not only rejects but then makes up horrible lies about you for no reason? People don't do that. Sure, this girl is obviously a cunt and I agree with you that women in general are filled with dogshit and I hate that I need them to reproduce, but even the biggest cunts wouldn't do something like that for no reason unless she had severe and drastic psychotic tendencies So is there anything that happened in between that you haven't mentioned here? Something that might have completely changed her attitude towards you?
Absolutely not. Even when I said "Hello" to her that morning before I knew everything that happened, she seemed perfectly fine and was even smiling at me. I legitimately believe that she is psychotic or something. She is only 17 going on 18, so maybe it is hormones or something.
dude, a girl blocked me because i looked ugly in one pic on fb (not even exaggerating), deleted all my social media and any trace of me on the internet that day. Girls are crazy and she was 24 ( i was 19 at the time). That being said, OP's attitude is still not healthy
What do you mean she deleted your social media? Why did she have your passwords? And a girl blocking you no matter what the reason, is not even on the level of a girl making up shit about you and spreading shit that could temporarily damage your reputation for literally no reason. OP's attitude... it's not healthy, no. just inevitable with women being the way they are.
Basically, there's no malicious intent in blocking someone on social media.
Holy shit, you get rejected and you make it out to be some form of tragedy. Who cares it's a dumb bitch. Stand up for yourself.
It was not just rejection. She openly made up lies about me to turn coworkers against me.
I'm now living in fear at work because she told people I am a creeper and pedophile. I've received open threats.
Be a man, tell people She's full of shit
All right stud have a seat and let me learn you something. No one owes you a damn thing, girls don't owe you sex because you were "nice". Look o got it, you're upset because she said she'd go on a date and didn't. Boo Hoo grow the hell up. You want to be a nice guy then do something because it's the right thing to do, don't just be extra "nice" because you like this girl. That makes you creepy as hell. If you're a genuine guy people notice but if all you want is sex and you feel like you deserve it go sit the fuck in the corner. You aren't entitled to a thing. Be a man, suck it up, move on. We used to tell guys to go find their balls but that's impolite and might hurt your feelings but you know what? Good maybe you'll wake the hell up and realize what a damn child you are.
I can't go one week without some bitter dude making a Mytake complaining how an ENTIRE gender have it out for him.
Getting a phone number is jack fucking nothing. Woman flake all the time. Dating is a number game. You ask 100 woman, 30 actually give you, 10 actually return your call, 5 actually interested in you, 2 actually show up for the date, and 1 actually want a second date with you.
Get over the rejection and get back in the game. Don't be a fucking quitter, what a disgrace.
Not everyone is like that woman. What she did was fucked up, and I hate the fact that bitches like her can give women a bad name. For every girl out there who is willing to pull that kind of crap, there more decent women out there who aren't. It also irritates me that women like her are sought after because of her beauty. It's a shame that you're letting one stupid bitch change your mind on all women.
LOLOLOLOLOLOL I am super changing my name to "Chad Thundercock:".
Somehow I doubt you "did nothing but be respectful". The fact that you had this rant simmering below the surface makes it clear that you already had issues with women and their boundaries, and all it took was someone enforcing her boundaries to bring all this toxic rage to the surface. (Unless the person you approached was underage, "pedophile" as a label shouldn't have stuck. If she WAS underage, HOOBOY WERE YOU IN THE WRONG.)
I suggest finding a therapist and talking to them about your anger at the matriarchy. Talk therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy worked wonders with my depression and social anxiety, and having an outside opinion as to whether or not you're transgressing boundaries is extremely helpful if you're struggling with how to approach women you're attracted to.
Well, I am telling you. Woman here on GaG will try to corner her and prove that, they are right but "it is What it is" man. I am sorry, You believed in feminism lies that are present here but now You can can see it. They will even say not every one is like this but remember simple rule dude,
They are not XY, they are XX which means all of them are same. The only d/f is that, they have separate good and bad clock speeds but they are same.
This is the best thing that could have happened to you! Imagine how much worse it would have been had you ended up married and still thinking like this, it would have destroyed you. You have finally lost your innocence and joined the world of adults, now it;s time to decide what kind of person your going to be.
Think of this as a growing process, like a clump of useless iron ore being smelted and hammered into a sword.
Everone gets raked over the coals at some point. This hopefully makes you talk to a girl more before asking her out. Just figure what would have happened if you both actually went out. She would have called rape and really dragged your name through the mud.
Not all of us are the same and you know what, some of us have just been treated bad by men, but not all men are jerks!
yes this girl was a total bitch and girls like that really irritated me, but just know NOT all of us are like THAT girl!!!
No, every other girl just ignores him because he isn't tall and good looking lol.
The Mgtow is strong with you. If and i warn you if you decide to get the teachings of (sandman) you will never be the same. Personally ask him your situation he will be able to give you guidence. It looks like you swallowed your first red pill.
https://youtu.be/LfiyJbqlF2UPerhaps life would be better if you dated a man. That's one option you can try. Also talk to your supervisor about the mistreatment in the workplace. It is his/her responsibility to make sure everybody acts professional and not create a hostile environment.