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Traditional? Sure you are honey. So you have no problem cooking and cleaning up after your man right? How about giving him sex and then silence?
No? Then why the hell should he pay for the first date?
Men are visual & wired to seek attractive mates, so their extra treat is the woman's appearance, which women put more time, effort, & MONEY into.
Women are wired to seek mates who can provide for them, hence paying for dates.
So if you want to force women to go against their innate wiring, then it's only "equal" for you to do the same; I hope you're OK with dating a woman wearing a burqa.
tell me where have you been living the last 100 years of feminism? you can´t have all the good things from conversative AND the liberal world. you have to pick a side and not just pick the cherry of both cakes!
yes how should i know that u financially stable
i dont want to carrt a dead weight with me
we girls like to be pampered yes if iwas in a relationship with u not the first time
make an effort : why dont u make an effort too
traditional my ass is traditional
in the end u want a free meal for those 1 hour u spend talking about u hopes dreams and wishes that u want
pay for the first date are your time more important
So if you're traditional does that mean you'll do all the shopping, cooking, cleaning and give him sex whenever he wants it even if you're not in the mood? Because that's what an actual traditional woman did back in the day.
It sounds unfair to oblige the guy to pay for the first date.
Ah women they say their independent, but would bitch at the man for not paying for their first date.
exactly. feminist "independence" means "exploit men".
@feminismisnarcissism or make them look like cucks.
I LOVE YOU!!!
Apparently we are "entitled" to these bozos if we expect a guy to pay on the first date. You'll make a lot of vaginas (stupid little young boys) mad for sure. But I love your take.
''Apparently we are "entitled" to these bozos if we expect a guy to pay on the first date. ''
You basically just gave the definition for entitled (through an example... before you past in the actual definition).
*paste...
@Jamesol1 no one asked your opinion. I don't take 19 y o kids advice. Agree or disagree. Don't give two shits.
Then we can expect you to clean, cook, and do domestic chores for us, correct?
Get on your knees and wash my floor after that make me a huge sandwich, don't forget to wash my dirty underwear honey.
Dgirl, your pussy is worth a nickel. You're not special.
The comment section is for debating. so many women on here hate doing that. Its agree with me or i dont care. Seriously some women are so uneducated and ignorant. Men seek you out for sex. Please don't think you are some marriage material the men crave. You are the equivalent of a cleanex tissue.
You butt hurt idiots lmaoo. Your comments amuse me. Do continue on...
Lmfaoooooooooo, you're angry little girl?
@StickStickity13 the correlation to women being financially oriented, is men being visually oriented, which is why women put way more effort and money into their appearance than men.
@tyrantfuryre no its not worth a nickel, women have made upwards of a million dollars selling their virginity
@mistixs Lots of dumb assholes out there that can't get any any other way.
exactly-men are "bozos" to women like this, which is why they'll get SIMPS, not men.
real men expect give AND take. real men are disgusted by ME ME ME women
I don't believe this poster. Guys always pay for dates. I'd be surprised if you can find one that doesn't unless your a 29 year old woman fucking a 14 year of boy and that happens often enough.
Perhaps if you flying to Europe, you might share expenses.
I think if a guy pays for dates it only shows that probablly that girl has no money to pay it her self so she wants to use that guy money. Many girls these days like to use guys. I think it should be I pay for myself and you pay for yourself. Women wants the same rights there you have it, equal rules!. I am not right? I understand paying for a girl who is really sweet , good heart girl but just paying for random girl in a date is nonsense.
"If a man wants the woman to look attractive, and is unhappy with the woman showing up ugly or in a burqa, he only wants to use her for her looks"
Its ok to have your rules, I think that one is a bad one though... for first dates.
instead of making him pay, ask to share the meal... that way it is more intimate and fun (should be) and it is no different than him buying his own food.
The 15 year old girl in girls comment section has more sense then you... Lol
i dont mind paying and i have done it before, but dont expect it to be expensive and only if i feel you're worth my time and effort.
I think you mean it shows you are lazy and cheap you just want a free meal.
I speak for myself here, i am old school and I believe you're supposed to pay, even though the girl may have means to pay, she shouldn't. Its good ettiqutte. Part of who we are as men, take charge.
I can't believe there's downvotes. What the hells happening to society, no wonder.
That depends on what the first date is actually about.
If it's going to the opera (yes, that's a thing) I expect her to pay for her ticket herself. If it's going to the movies or having a drink I am paying for it, obviously.
I just don't get it... this is getting really ridiculous.
If you're traditional, will you cook and clean for him in return?
Good poi t
Point
Thank you
another real woman speaks!!! so nice to see young women not trying to use the exploitation of men that feminism has offered them... both sexes are waking up to what equality REALLY is and thus why feminism is superiority, not equality.
Yesss love this take. I completely agree. A guy should always pay for the first date.
I bet you're single.
@Papasbrandnewbag I'm not actually. Are you?
I'm awfully surprised.
@Papasbrandnewbag oh really? I'm not surprised you're single.
I didn't disclose whether or not I was single.
Puppy is definitely single.
@tyrantfuryre I'm dating someone. And I'd like to let both of you know that I have NEVER, not once had a guy let me pay for the first date. I've always offered, but he's always been persistent.
Cool, more of the type of chill, egalitarian guys I like for me! 💙
And then later on take advantage of the guy. We are smart men, we don't want to waste money on someone were not even sure of yet. It's still the first date anyway. It's like you're saying that guys should pay to get you.
exactly-this mytake is justified prostitution posing as "traditional" when it's really just sleazy and entitled.