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Welcome to equality. I'm sure most guys will be perfectly fine with not having a narcissistic gold digger like you as their girlfriend. I hope the next guy that takes you out on a date spits in your drink.
Equality... so men should have to put as much time money and effort into their appearance as women?
@mistixs No, but if women choose to waste time putting in lots of effort into their appearance then that is their choice.
It's necessary because men have beauty expectations for women that require a lot of time, money and energy to achieve.
@mistixs That doesn't entitle a woman to get a free meal. If you believe in equality then pay for your own meal. Women will never get another penny out of me.
Then men need to start putting as much effort into their appearance as women.
OR drop your standards
@mistixs Nope, spedning lots of time putting make up on doesn't entitle you to a free meal. Pay for your own food you gold digger.
What if he insists of paying? Even if I want to treat him?
Once i was in a long distance relationship and when he visited me, i knew he used a lot of money on the train so i wanted treat him but he really hated it that i tried to treat him dinner
You're not traditional. You're a leech that wants free meals. You're a gold digger, basically.
I'm a conservative guy, and I wouldn't even consider you for a serious relationship. You aren't entitled to my wallet.
If you're not a virgin, and if you don't plan on being a stay at home mom who cooks and cleans for her family, then you're not "traditional." Sorry to say.
This gold-digger defense of a MyTake, is an epic fail.
A man ALWAYS paying for a first date, is unfair when women have income too.
A woman ALWAYS putting more effort into their appearance than men, by that logic, is unfair when men have porn to look at.
@mistixs As a man, I definitely put effort into my appearance. Secondly, those men who have the beauty standards of augmented mainstream porn models are ridiculous to me as we'll.
@Prof_Don exactly and if @mistixs goes out with sloppy duded with no style, that's on her. Nor does it somehow justify making him pay for everything... but guaranteed she'll only find lamo men with this attitude.
I too have piles of style and am always well-groomed and dressed sharply. I tend to have a lot more shoes than my girlfriends, more clothes, more jewelry... and guess what-most find it intimidating lol. see you can't win with feminist thinking, damned if you do, damned if you don't. thus why any rational man avoids a feminist attitude woman (most of whom deny being feminists while expecting the assets OF feminism AND expecting the assets OF traditional gender roles lol)
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@feminismisnarcissism "if @mistixs goes out with sloppy duded with no style, that's on her. Nor does it somehow justify making him pay for everything"
Why not? What would he do to EQUALize effort?
@mistixs saying "they" would
women are running out of men to manipulate
@mistixs it's equal, unless you think you're superior... NEWSFLASH: You actually are inferior because you're a fake person with nothing to offer, certainly not your common looks lol
I find it as a good thing to be a little traditional
How about pay for your own shit. Anything else is just using someone.
Boy women sure whine about everything.
"I want equality AND for guys to pay for my shit."
Of course a girl would want to stay traditional only for the good parts😂
I agree I prefer it in some cases like if you were to ask me and I have no money you shouldn't demand me to come and then make me sit there without food if I don't have the money to buy anything.
You're pretty young still. When you're older I have hope that you will get it.
Well I'm not going to go on a date if I don't have the money and if he kept insisting he better pay.
& its not like I demand guys to do if you willing to do it fine then but don't prissy if you offer. But if you own to on a date with someone and in case they don't have money then you should pay for it. If you want that date badly. But don't be an ass where they can pay but then you take them to a place where they can't buy something for themselves.
You are a gold digger. I really don't care girls like you. We don't want to date with you too. We don't care you. You will be alone everytime. And maybe some time later, you will think that you were thinking wrong.
So what does the girl bring to the table then?
Beat me to it.
@ThisDudeHere
It goes something like this. I'm happy to pick a good venue and splurge on a date. For someone to be so ungrateful and just EXPECTS it to happen , sounds so very spoiled.
apparently her vagina is enough to contribute to relationship without putting any effort in relationship or to have respect for her partner
Women put way more effort money and time into their appearance
This induces pleasurable brain reactions in men, because men are visual. Men reciprocate by inducing pleasurable brain reactions in the woman by paying for the date
@Azgeda Well said man! No one wants to date a spoiled woman, or person for that matter.
@mistixs
Oh so your only contribution is breathing then. lolk.
@Botchie
You and I both know there's gonna be guys who fall for it. We should salute them by taking those girls out of the dating pool.
As in like , salute them because they took em out lol my bad
I'm old school no doubt!!! Yes the men should pay and no I'm not single!!! When a man asks over and over for a date... it goes without saying that he'll be paying!
You're in your 40s so no surprises there.
@dontknow12 aaaaahhhhh fuck, I prefer to stay home anyways! It was just the principal I have been defending!
Oops I meant principle
I have trouble trusting "traditional" women. How can I tell if you're in it just for a free meal?
and when you ask him out (and you should) you should pay or it's selfish bullshit
@dontknow12 you're on the mark buddy, "traditional" usually really means "exploitative" and when it doesn't-it's obvious... like she'll insist on paying for the tip and other stuff to make it even, etc. She'll actually BE traditional in other ways-like sexually submissive, not just the stuff that benefits HER 100%
@feminismisnarcissism let me guess... you lick cooch, dont ya
@jjesica346 i adore eating pussy... particularly being facesat. And I'm very good at it :P
I'm guessing you were being sarcastic... but you guessed right, I eat pussy as much as possible.
So, basically your a gold digger who sees men as a source of income. Avoid this like the plague.
I don't mind paying for a woman's dates, but only if she's Christian, pretty, and not poisoned by feminism.
Ok so with your logic, if a girl doesn't pay on the first date that means she isn't financially stable.
Sounds like you're trying to see how much gold you can dig OP
i agree the first date is the time to make a good impression, so the fact that he paid makes you feel special and like he wants to pursue you
I mean it feels good but after the first date it should be 50/50 always
And *of course* that doesn't go both ways because guys don't deserve to feel special, right
@Mesonfielde he does deserve it after the relationship goes on, but we're talking about the first date here.
Even in the first date, why would he even want a second one if you don't make him feel special?
@arineunha or how about you should your appreciation by making him feel special back. You sound so selfish and greedy.
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@dontknow12 you sound like you actually know me lol. idc if i'm traditional
^ At the cost of being selfish?
@LadyTerror not selfish when later down on the line you're the one who ends up paying for most of his shit
I didn't know "traditional" means "I expect men to serve me because my vagina makes me special"
So in other words, you're not supposed to care about how he feels the first time but still expect him to pay for a second date. Ok
@arineunha I feel bad for your future date because he has no idea he's gonna be running into a selfish brat.
"not selfish when later down on the line you're the one who ends up paying for most of his shit"
How do you know that's gonna happen? Are you psychic? You can predict the future?
@dontknow12 She's gonna pay for everything with the money he earns hahahaha.
and a sign to the man that he accidentally asked a spoiled brat on a date.
@LadyTerror women put way more effort into their appearance than men. That's enough payment.
Anyway I don't think OP is going far enough. It should be for all dates, not just the first.
@mistixs no, I think you're the only one who possibly spends 2 hours in the bathroom "preparing" and thinks that it's a "requirement" with which you "pay your half of the date" for whatever reason.
I don't know anyone who expects a woman to spend 2 hours preparing for a date
@mistixs no one is asking you to put all of that effort. You choose to do that. It's different when you expect someone to pay for you.
@mistixs There's just no talking sense into you, seriously. With all honesty, I feel really bad for the guy who ends up marrying you because he has no idea his life will eventually be ruined.
They don't want to pay... but they don't mind hinting for sex or a bj.
so... you're saying dating is just covert prostitution.
gee, wonder if you're single lol (rhetorical)
@feminismisnarcissism I didn't say I did that... and no I'm not single
@feminismisnarcissism "so... you're saying dating is just covert prostitution. "
If that is how you define prostitution, then most male/female relations throughout history and even in other species, have been somewhere along that spectrum.
If that's how you define it, then I'm proudly a whore & encourage all women to do the same.
@mistixs that's why you'll end up alone-your idea of a "relationship" is to be paid for your presence, when frankly you just repeat yourself over and over, like a broken record... hardly worth $5/day at best... good luck with that entitlement.
@feminismisnarcissism finances are part of the relationship but not the only part.
Presumably you want your girlfriend to look good, right? Would you be OK with it if she wore a burqa so you couldn't see her at all? If so, then by your logic, you're using her for her looks.
@mistixs yet another dishonest argument from you... I'm starting to suspect you're a compulsive liar-it would match your other traits also. Women make as much $ as men, so no men don't owe you a dime. And if you want a guy that takes care of himself as much as you-DATE ONE, don't be lazy and pretend all men owe you or women in general something-cuuuuuuuz you ain't gonna get it. wake up and join reality. dating is 50/50, deal with it or date simps-that's the only type of loser that will bow to your 5 year old temper tantrum demands.
@mistixs yet another dishonest argument from you... I'm starting to suspect you're a compulsive liar-it would match your other traits also. Women make as much $ as men, so no men don't owe you a dime. And if you want a guy that takes care of himself as much as you-DATE ONE, don't be lazy and pretend all men owe you or women in general something-cuuuuuuuz you ain't gonna get it. wake up and join reality. dating is 50/50, deal with it or date simps-that's the only type of loser that will bow to your 5 year old temper tantrum demands.
@feminismisnarcissism dude pay don't pay... no one gives a shit what you do. Move on
Facts! Like uuuuuugh. What dumb woman will allow a man who obviously want to use her as a cheap thrill. It boggles my mind. Or their excuse is she gotta be his wife or girlfriend. But we dont have to be nothing special to get on ure dick? STRAIGHT CON GAME
My thoughts on this topic, is this video.
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In a traditional relationship equality doesn't exist, why would someone go through the trouble of this to date a woman who most likely will refuse to respect the authority of her husband as the head of the household
You're traditional eh? I hope you're good at cooking many dishes then. Because that is what's expected out of a TRADITIONAL woman.
Women hAve vaginas. That's enough responsibility
@mistixs lol I hope that's sarcasm.
@mistixs so you think women shouldn't take responsibility for anything. You sound like a right feminazi.
@bobbyxx don't listen to her, she is the biggest femcunt on GAG. I've spoke to her before on some other post, all she believes in is mass privilege for women becuase she thinks they're more important and better than men. Like i said, i can't wait for realistic sex robot technology to be released by 2050 and make these feminists obsolete for good. Jesus just imagine the competition women are going to go through to get boyfriend with an average Joe lol
@Mrwoo99 lol yeah right. I know what she is like, I've had run ins with her before.
Wtf? Sex robot? Weird as hell.
@Mrwoo99 I think sex robots should be banned unless produced by women. Only women should be able to profit off the female body.
@mistixs what? Lol its not a female body it's a mechanical advanced sex toy. It's no different than a fleshlight except it looks like a woman but technically it's not. Why should women profit off the female body? Why should that matter? Either way it's gonna be released soon I mean they're making them now. Its men who are inventers of robots so it'll be them and the CEO's who profit it.
@Mrwoo99 that should be banned
@Mrwoo99 and women should profit from it bc they suffer with vaginas
@mistixs lmao! Why do you keep on saying women suffer from having a vagina? I think radical feminism has got you locked in some kind of trance. I kinda understand all the suffering and oppression women went through buts over now and women like you are sexually libertated. Although they are concequences when a woman is sexually libertated so bare that in mind, you should look for a nice guy for relationship
I just can't understand girls. Yesterday they said that we shouldn't pay for a date because it's chauvinism and sexism, and now they say we actually should because you need a prince on a white horse? WTF?
They were not the same girls. Were they?