Act Hot and You'll BE HOT!

[Anonymous]

1. It is all psychology

In other words, if you make yourself valuable and unattainable, others will view you like this and treat you in the manner you want to be viewed in. Shoulders back and head high!

2. Fake it till you make it

Sometimes even on your worst days, you get up, get dressed, and put on a smile for the world to see.

3. You are what you think you are

If you believe that you are a strong, sexy person- then others will believe it too. You have to convince yourself before you convince the world.

[btbc92]

That is not true at all. Everything what you just wrote does not make sense at all. People have their own judgements and convictions about other people. Just because I see a person who is attractive, it doesn't mean I have to worship them or cater to them. Especially when they have a salty personality. Your hot because of sexual lust. And lust is in the dust. Real men are not worrying about who's hot. They want a person who sparkles in their eyes, who's different than the rest and not another soulless robot. You can't fake. Because there are people like me who sense and knows fakes from the first glance. You have to show and prove it for yourself when its fitting. But other than that, you only have yourself to prove. Not to other people.

I gain respect because I dress and act in a respectable manner. I don't behave like other women. I don't have to prove to the world anything. I act according to how I want to be treated. You have to have character and personality. The looks is irrelevant. Because at the end of all of that physical is the heart. And if your heart is not right, no real man will be attracted to it to want to stay committed to you for long term.

[AleDeEurope]

She can tell herself she's beautiful as much as she wants... but she's not even close to even being average.

www.thebodyisnotanapology.com/.../...qO1qkifb8.jpg

Stop with the bullshit.

[RainbowFanGirl]

Maybe her personality is likable. 😛

[AleDeEurope]

@RainbowFanGirl I highly doubt it hahahahha

[harabi]

@RainbowFanGirl In an English class back in highschool (an American guest) teacher told us in US English 'you've great personality' amounted to telling someone they're ugly.. Like an idiom or the kind..

[AleDeEurope]

@harabi It's more like a joke, we say that in Spain too, like for example if they ask you "is that girl pretty?" and you don't want to offend you may say like "well, she's not my type... but she is nice though".

[harabi]

Yeah, being nice

[Mrwoo99]

@RainbowFanGirl I don't think I could even put her in the friend zone category. I'd probably just run a mile thinking it were out to eat me.

[Mrwoo99]

Being fat is never beautiful no matter how much feminism promotes or indoctrinates fat acceptance/BBW in to society and culture. All this shit about having a few extra pounds is labelled as curvy... when really its just grotesque.

[peachblossomluck]

This woman is grossly out of shape. There's nothing wrong with her valuing herself as a person but neglecting one's health is not beautiful.

[peachblossomluck]

The man sitting on the left is making a face like" wtf?"

[Kellibabe]

Omg is it ok that i just laughed at this i dont wana seem a bitch...

[metalinjected]

@Kellibabe Nah, you're human.

[RainbowFanGirl]

I sorta agree. Charisma and charm is important in attraction. Even the most unattractive people can be likable if they have charisma. This is what draws people to you and makes you likeable.

Now replying to all the people who are going to post fat or ugly people and ask if they can be likable, they in fact can.

My mom is overweight and she is liked by many because she possesses confidence and charisma, which are important in getting people to like and value you.

Romantically speaking this may or may not be true, but in other aspects yeah it's true.

[RainbowFanGirl]

Lol someone was mad.

[peachblossomluck]

All the women in your mytake are already physically attractive. I do agree with this somewhat but not sold on it entirely. Arrogance can turn a lot of people off and there's a thin line between that and confidence. If you are good-looking already but have low self-esteem anyway, every bad person within a ten mile radius will flock to you and try to exploit that. You can tell some people are obnoxious with the confident front. It's not working because they are overcompensating for their lacking.

[Bluemax]

There is something to be said for "acting hot." Indeed our attitude can affect how attractive we are perceived by others.

Now, that said, there comes a point where acting hot will be to no avail. At that point, it might be best to think about changing one's appearance.

[Phoenix98]

Lol um no what makes you attractive at first look is looking attractive.

For your tactics to work you'd have to already be physically attractive.

[BubbleBoy69]

Or dress nice.

[Phoenix98]

@BubbleBoy69 That helps but again the face is usually what people see first, of course though you always want to dress good obviously.

[Mrwoo99]

@BubbleBoy69 "or dress nice" you can't sugar coat shit...

[Lonewolf881]

There's no hope for me then :(

[Mrwoo99]

That is absolute... BOLLOCKS. A girl could be introverted, shy and even have extreme social anxiety to the point of having panic attacks and still could land chad thunder cock if she is physically beautiful or even average. End of the day women are the ones being approached so they don't need any courage or confidence... just sit/stand there as usual.

[Lonewolf881]

I've never been approached... I really hate myself...

[Mrwoo99]

@Lonewolf881 Women are so privileged today because of gynocentrism, you have no idea. You women can't see how privileged you are because you're so self entilted and spoilt for rights. Please just go away. Your saying men are not approaching you, well why don't you get approaching men why shouldnwe have to do it.

[KHaskins]

Yeah, baby, YEAH!
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[Dipsy]

I know he's dressed up, but he should get a haircut, ditch the glasses, get new clothing and he'll look like 10x better

[John_Doesnt]

Really? It's all psychology for this woman:
i.ytimg.com/vi/hS3HDR_HBvE/maxresdefault.jpg
Can she really fake it and BE hot?

[myTake Owner]

if she is confident in who she is, then guys that are into obese women will find her hotter than if she was a complete, emotional mess...

[John_Doesnt]

I'm a chubby chaser and hell no. No amount of confidence can fix that.

[JustWorthlessMe]

yet, this gal will get many more offers from men than an ugly guy would from women... count on it

[John_Doesnt]

@JustWorthlessMe you mean from desperate, drunk, horny guys?

[Scrambledagain]

@JustWorthlessMe agree that she would get more men than if a man was her size.

You reckon that sand got compressed into diamonds😂

[Anonymous]

None of this is true and is just misinformation and feminist propoganda. Act hot and you will be hot is why so may girls that are at most 5s think they're 7s and so on which is why they can never find a man on their level and why they get used for pump and dumps and are still single in their thirties.

[G-Daz]

I'm actually not into those kind of girls at all. It seems more common than not. I prefer girls with humility and relatability. I've no interest in someone that thinks she deserves the world and one should be lucky to know her

[Saoirse_Nua]

Good take as long as you don't go too far into the arrogant column

[Kaazsz]

How do you fake it if you don't even know how to fake it in the first place? It's like telling me to act like a gorilla but I never heard of a gorilla or seen one in my life.

[Anonymous]

LOL, I doubt that... what if a woman looks like this?
1000uglypeople.com/.../...Woman-With-Bad-Teeth.jpg
No acting would help her :P

[Seneya]

I don't think this woman is ugly. If she gets her tooth fixed, have nice facial expressions rather than being goofy and keeps her hair down I think she would look fine.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

I do believe all these comments can be summed up with, you have to already have a certain level of attractiveness for this to work.

[Crumbles]

Tell that to Sloth...

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[SarahsSummer]

Yes! I've been saying this for a long time. Mostly to guys who are insecure about one thing or another regaring approaching girls but its so true for all of us.!

[amphet11]

This is not true in regards to women, looking good is the only thing that makes you attractive. Men have eyes, acting like you are hot or thinking you are hot won't make you attractive at all. An ugly girl who thinks she is hot gets laughed at.

[Lynx122]

Great thread to write as a anon lmao. Where's your confidence?

[metalinjected]

Meh, attractiveness is subjective. I doubt you can just make people find you attractive using pseudo mind tricks.

[Anonymous]

Real world observations and experience would say otherwise. If you're hot you're hot. No one knows you're confident if they don't give you the time of day. To get them to give you the time of day you have to be naturally hot.

[CisScum]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, confidence does help though. Another man may see that a woman is ugly and another man may see her as beautiful.