1. It is all psychology
In other words, if you make yourself valuable and unattainable, others will view you like this and treat you in the manner you want to be viewed in. Shoulders back and head high!
2. Fake it till you make it
Sometimes even on your worst days, you get up, get dressed, and put on a smile for the world to see.
3. You are what you think you are
If you believe that you are a strong, sexy person- then others will believe it too. You have to convince yourself before you convince the world.