As a single 26 year old woman, living in a big city- I am a New Years Resolution: NO DATING IN 2017.
1. I am so done with modern dating
I don't wanna sound negative or even cynical, but I have had enough with modern dating. The common ideology that I have discovered is that many men do not wish to commit to one woman and would rather go around playing the field. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? I am tired of wasting my time, resources and energy on men that don't take relationships as serious as they should be.
2. Love happens when you least expect it
I have to be honest, in that my last 2 serious boyfriend happened in this manner. I ran into one on the public transit, and the other I was introduced to via a friend, when I was sweaty and on my way home from the gym! So honestly, maybe it is time to stop looking for love and let it happen, whenever it happens.
3. Focus on me this year
I want this year to be focused on learning about myself and what I want and don't want. I need to spend time working on being the best me I can be, and perhaps more time working on my health and fitness. I have put men in front of my well being for a long time now, and I hope 2017 will be a different outcome- but that is up to me.